Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion #3

I am the rare person who actually doesn't like Andi but is happy for her that she was brave enough to move on and admit what she wants to do. And I find nothing wrong with her going to the gym. Her body is important to her and it is a healthy way to deal with stress. Good for her.

But, can we get rid of the one piece pants/jumpers? She has the right body proportions, but those things just look darn uncomfortable to me.

Also, I don't know if her eyes look sad as much as tired to me. One thing with Andi that was nice with Josh at first her smile did reach her eyes. Often before and in this pic it doesn't. Hope she gets that back again soon.

luvlady345 wrote:Really though, it's darn if you do or darn if you don't..  If she showed weakness some would say she is faking and milking the breakup...  Really she can't win, my advice to her is to just do Andi and please herself....

From what we've seen of MeAndI, this is precisely what she has always done.

stuckinsc wrote:

Also, I don't know if her eyes look sad as much as tired to me.  One thing with Andi that was nice with Josh at first her smile did reach her eyes.  Often before and in this pic it doesn't.  Hope she gets that back again soon.

I agree. Saw this last night on Twitter and it looks to me like she's trying look happy.

bleuberry wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Also, I don't know if her eyes look sad as much as tired to me.  One thing with Andi that was nice with Josh at first her smile did reach her eyes.  Often before and in this pic it doesn't.  Hope she gets that back again soon.

I agree. Saw this last night on Twitter and it looks to me like she's trying look happy.

She looks sad to me and is forcing that smile.

Yup, looks plastered. I really hope that this fame quest dies quickly for her and that she resumes a normal routine soon.

Poor girl looks rough in that picture.

Diana wrote:Poor girl looks rough in that picture.

Yes. Also in the pictures from the interview...to me she again looks manic...kind of like she did at the premier. As if she is trying too hard to put up a front. No doubt this is rough on her. To me she is always trying so hard to be perfect...strong...blah, blah, blah. It must be exhausting and what makes her come across as fake. Get real. Nobody on this green earth is perfect...Nobody! Everyone has insecurities....everyone! Some are just better at hiding it than others. The sooner she realises that, the happier she will be.

Sprite wrote:

Diana wrote:Poor girl looks rough in that picture.

Yes. Also in the pictures from the interview...to me she again looks manic...kind of like she did at the premier. As if she is trying too hard to put up a front. No doubt this is rough on her. To me she is always trying so hard to be perfect...strong...blah, blah, blah. It must be exhausting and what makes her come across as fake. Get real. Nobody on this green earth is perfect...Nobody! Everyone has insecurities....everyone! Some are just better at hiding it than others. The sooner she realises that, the happier she will be.

Yeah, I agree but I think it's just her perfectionist tendencies and she must be SO humiliated publicly and heartbroken privately over this whole thing. IA she looks totally pained in that picture but I think it's for the best that she's soldiering on and realizing that Josh will be coming back never and she needs to move on.

Sprite wrote:

Diana wrote:Poor girl looks rough in that picture.

Yes. Also in the pictures from the interview...to me she again looks manic...kind of like she did at the premier. As if she is trying too hard to put up a front. No doubt this is rough on her. To me she is always trying so hard to be perfect...strong...blah, blah, blah. It must be exhausting and what makes her come across as fake. Get real. Nobody on this green earth is perfect...Nobody! Everyone has insecurities....everyone! Some are just better at hiding it than others. The sooner she realises that, the happier she will be.

Well said! Couldn't agree more.

Alanna wrote:

Sprite wrote:

Diana wrote:Poor girl looks rough in that picture.

Yes. Also in the pictures from the interview...to me she again looks manic...kind of like she did at the premier. As if she is trying too hard to put up a front. No doubt this is rough on her. To me she is always trying so hard to be perfect...strong...blah, blah, blah. It must be exhausting and what makes her come across as fake. Get real. Nobody on this green earth is perfect...Nobody! Everyone has insecurities....everyone! Some are just better at hiding it than others. The sooner she realises that, the happier she will be.

Yeah, I agree but I think it's just her perfectionist tendencies and she must be SO humiliated publicly and heartbroken privately over this whole thing. IA she looks totally pained in that picture but I think it's for the best that she's soldiering on and realizing that Josh will be coming back never and she needs to move on.

I agree. She is a perfectionist and that is very difficult. I think she has been spoiled her whole life and that doesn't make it easier because she is used to getting what she wants. She is all about appearances and now, those don't look so good. And this is something her family can't smooth over for her. The court of public opinion can be very tough and it is humiliating on so many fronts...the whole Nick debacle, failed relationship with Josh, law career down the tubes and turns out, not everyone loves her like she thought they would. No matter what she really wants, eventually, she had to come back to the real world. I hope she takes a good, hard, long look at herself and reprioritise some of her priorities and stands on her own feet. We shall see if she has actually learned anything from all this....

Sprite wrote:

Alanna wrote:

Sprite wrote:

Yes. Also in the pictures from the interview...to me she again looks manic...kind of like she did at the premier. As if she is trying too hard to put up a front. No doubt this is rough on her. To me she is always trying so hard to be perfect...strong...blah, blah, blah. It must be exhausting and what makes her come across as fake. Get real. Nobody on this green earth is perfect...Nobody! Everyone has insecurities....everyone! Some are just better at hiding it than others. The sooner she realises that, the happier she will be.

Yeah, I agree but I think it's just her perfectionist tendencies and she must be SO humiliated publicly and heartbroken privately over this whole thing. IA she looks totally pained in that picture but I think it's for the best that she's soldiering on and realizing that Josh will be coming back never and she needs to move on.

I agree. She is a perfectionist and that is very difficult. I think she has been spoiled her whole life and that doesn't make it easier because she is used to getting what she wants. She is all about appearances and now, those don't look so good. And this is something her family can't smooth over for her. The court of public opinion can be very tough and it is humiliating on so many fronts...the whole Nick debacle, failed relationship with Josh, law career down the tubes and turns out, not everyone loves her like she thought they would. No matter what she really wants, eventually, she had to come back to the real world. I hope she takes a good, hard, long look at herself and reprioritise some of her priorities and stands on her own feet. We shall see if she has actually learned anything from all this....

I agree Sprite!  Lots of hard life lessons to deal with and learn from all at once.  I do hope she figures out what she wants to do in life and out of life, as well as, who she wants to be as an individual and a working women, if she so chooses.  She can be a house wife, trophy wife, designer, lawyer, a mixture of all of them, etc., just as long as she figures out what makes her truly happy.  Then after that, maybe she can find someone who will appreciate and love her just the way she is.  She, like the rest of us, deserves to be happy in life, wherever it may lead her.

IMOAA, MEandI was never at ease in front of the camera and always strived to put on that look that looked "happy". It is not natural for her.
I am not saying she was not happy in her heart at times, what I am saying is she, like many others, suffers from RBF and grumpy cat syndrome. This can not be helped and is not always consistent with what you are feeling inside. (I know this all too well)
Add this to her current status and it is going to be even harder to buy it as genuine.