Re: Andi Dorfman - Bachelorette 10 - Fan Forum - Discussion

[soccermom333]

Hmm, that doesn't sound to me like anything earth shattering to break up over. But then again, I'm sure it was more than that. Maybe the supportive thing she mentioned referred to each trying to kick off a career - Josh with Advocare and Andi with fashion and they were both so consumed in it that they lost sight of each other. But IMO, nothing that she mentioned as a reason on the interview seems beyond repair.

This is another reason why TPTB should not force an engagement. They couples should just date and figure it out. The "wedding plans" put so much pressure on them. I still think Andi and Josh would have broken up but you never know.

[AnandaMarie]

Hmm, that doesn't sound to me like anything earth shattering to break up over. But then again, I'm sure it was more than that. Maybe the supportive thing she mentioned referred to each trying to kick off a career - Josh with Advocare and Andi with fashion and they were both so consumed in it that they lost sight of each other. But IMO, nothing that she mentioned as a reason on the interview seems beyond repair.

Exactly aviej. I think the support thing was referring to their different career paths but I didn't see anything that was beyond repair either. I think it may take them going on one or two dates and comparing that to what they had with each other to decide what they want in life. Love like that really is worth fighting for. I don't know if you guys here ever read the lyrics to Love is War. It's perfect for Andi and Josh. But yeah I agree that nothing seems to be beyond repair. I guess the emotions of hurt and animosity are still fresh but I hope that when things settle down a bit, they can at least talk about things. Andi herself said that she never loved someone the way she loves Josh

[aviej]

elan gale        ✔ @theyearofelan
@AndiDorfman IU

[Linds911]

Nick Viall
@viallnicholas28
I give Andi a lot of credit for being so open about her heartbreak. Not easy to do. No doubt she will land on her feet #TheBachelor

Trista Sutter
@tristasutter
I haven't had the pleasure of meeting @AndiDorfman or @jmurbulldog but hope they feel the love & support of #BachelorNation tonight.

[soccermom333]

elan gale          @theyearofelan
@AndiDorfman IU

Andi, and Josh too, are getting tweeted a lot from bachelor nation.

[SafronSahara]

Despite the nature of the interview I enjoyed Andi's sitdown. We got some clarity as (two strong personalities clashing more often than not). Did not seem beyond repair but I'm not Jodi. I liked hearing that Josh brought out a vulnerable Andi. She was head over heels and didn't care who saw it.

[aviej]

Yup. That's a girl in love for you. And I'm sure she wants to get back to him. If she didn't she would have said no. And she also didn't say she's not in love with him either. She answered the questions smartly, not closing any doors of any future possibilities with Josh. But there are tons of people who marry who are very similar, and they make it work. What I think worked against them, apart from having a relationship for the world to see - is that they are both very young in terms of relationship experience. Therefore they both lack the maturity to  know what it takes to make a relationship work. But time will tell.

[citygirl1962]

I think for those doubting Andi all along and seemingly sure that she fakes everything, this is proof of her humanity and how love changed her. I hope in the end they can find peace and comfort knowing that they experienced that kind of love. Much love Andi and Josh!

[Kashathediva]

I saw two strong individuals who tried. They realized they were not the best suited for each other. They went their separate ways.
By Andi's own words she said they did not make each other better people, they were not supportive of each other. They realized they were not meant to be when they saw other couples talking about weddings and they were not making plans. 
That takes strength to admit and move on. 
Now hopefully each will find what they need and be happy. I respect that. It's a lot easier to stay together and fail, than separate and wish each other success.

[soccermom333]

Despite the nature of the interview I enjoyed Andi's sitdown. We got some clarity as (two strong  personalities clashing more often than not). Did not seem beyond repair but I'm not Jodi. I liked hearing that  Josh brought out a vulnerable Andi. She was head over heels  and didn't  care who saw it.

Beautiful post. I hope Andi and Josh will be able to sit down soon. Emotions too strong and raw right now on both sides. I would like to see them be friends. I am actually happy she did it. Brought some clarity.

[edenpol]

I said that I'll not read this forum before seeing this interview, before the episode will be online, but I couldn't resist. I'm so glad she stayed as classy as she did. I had no doubt. I hoped she changed so some people's view on her from SM so she won't get bashed anymore. Love her so much! And I loved seeing all the support!

[Guest]

I said that I'll not read this forum before seeing this interview, before the episode will be online, but I couldn't resist. I'm so glad she stayed as classy as she did. I had no doubt. I hoped she changed so some people's view on her from SM so she won't get bashed anymore. Love her so much! And I loved seeing all the support!

She received tons of support on twitter!  I don't think anyone could honestly say she wasn't genuine in this interview. I've always liked Andi but I never thought I would see her that vulnerable. Her heartbreak was palpable and it was just torture for me to watch.

One thing I actually felt good about with this interview is that it validated for me what I felt all season, and that is that there was truly a very special love that these two shared. We as fans weren't fooled. It was very real.  I just wish that it was enough for them to make it work. Maybe with some time and reflection it still could. I don't feel she closed the door to that possiblitly with her answers.

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