The Bachelor Canada - Season 2 - Episode 9-10 Two Part Finale - Discussion - *Spoilers*

lexforlife wrote:How do you know she jumped into his bed? FD is time away from all the cameras where real conversations can actually happen. A lot more than "jumping into bed" occur during this time and the 2 people involved get to tell each other what they want off camera.

umngirl wrote:I know it's frowned upon by some to compare BachCan to the US Bachelor, but this season's editing of the F2 is giving me major flashbacks to Sean's season and the F2 editing for it. The F2 girls (Lindsey, Trish) are all fun and little substance while the F1 girls (Cat, April) have fears and insecurities they need to overcome. And in the end they do with the help of the Bachelor. JMO

umngirl wrote:I know it's frowned upon by some to compare BachCan to the US Bachelor, but this season's editing of the F2 is giving me major flashbacks to Sean's season and the F2 editing for it. The F2 girls (Lindsey, Trish) are all fun and little substance while the F1 girls (Cat, April) have fears and insecurities they need to overcome. And in the end they do with the help of the Bachelor. JMO

umngirl wrote:I know it's frowned upon by some to compare BachCan to the US Bachelor, but this season's editing of the F2 is giving me major flashbacks to Sean's season and the F2 editing for it. The F2 girls (Lindsey, Trish) are all fun and little substance while the F1 girls (Cat, April) have fears and insecurities they need to overcome. And in the end they do with the help of the Bachelor. JMO

AllAboutLove wrote:

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nutty1 wrote:I know I am in the minority, but I think April is immature. I'd worry how she would handle the rough spots of a marriage - because there are always rough spots.

I love her to death but i kinda agree with you. How will she manage the rough times? I'm wondering if she stayed, think it through and had a good chat wth Tim because right now if i were Tim it will be my turn to not trust her. She needs to do something different and big to show me she loves him and will take the leap of faith with and for him for me to believe now he will choose her.
I don't know but i don"t see how they will overcome this.
If they do, this will be my all time favorite bachelor season. the most real and most genuine ever.

This is what I am banking on. Tim said that both he and April, from their first talk on episode 1, talked about how it wasn't a competition for them. 

This is real life and it is serious. I think both April and Tim know that. The difference is that April is on a show where the man she is in love with is dating another woman! 

Imo, that is not immaturity to want to recede and withdraw. It is unnatural to be thinking realistically about marrying someone that is also dating another person. That is maturity imo, to be questioning a proposal (not the relationship) but how rushed it all is because it IS rushed. 

April is without a doubt, the most mature girl that I have witnessed on this show, ever! I will say bravo if April leaves. First girl to think outside the bubble while in it. If she stays, then lucky Tim. This girl is not rushing for no one. Not for a show. Not for us viewers. And not for Tim. That is a women who knows herself well. She said in her blog that "the greatest love take time". She said in her intro video that a man may have to work hard for her but she is worth it in the end. I wasn't fan April but after this episode, I am 100% in love with this girl. So practical. So real. This is not a show to her, this is her life!

Imo, what April is doing is something I have never seen a F2 girl do in the way she is doing... April is actually thinking outside the bachelor bubble while still in it. 

That is real life. That is not just being on a show and falling into the love-bachelor bubble. She and Tim said on their FD date said to each other that they question, is this real? Well, like I have stated before, Tim used the word real twice already before in his blogs and both times related to April. If they are together as I have thought day one, theirs will be the most real relationship portrayed onscreen ever, imo.

ETA: What is interesting to me is that Tim said his parents were VERY apprehensive about him being on the show. From the conversation Tim's mom had with April, I could see that she felt relieved when April said she had concerns about the show as well. If anything, April is a lot like Tim's mom, imo.

northernviewer wrote:I wonder how many minutes each girl got?  April I'm sure got 2/3 's of the time and... what's her name?      ... got the other 1/3 ....

I will never buy any Rimmel products LOL

That dude will never let that girl go.

That was a guy fighting FOR the woman he loves.

Tim will handcuff her to the bed before he'll let her leave the island