The Bachelor Canada - Season 2 - Episode 8 - Nov 4 - WTA - Discussion - *Spoilers*

Sprite wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:^^ I agree. Trish doesn't deserve to be heartbroken, no one does, but she is certainly not as vulnerable as April and Tim is aware of this as we have seen throughout the show (on a level greater than just being dumped).

I get what you are saying.  Just that it was said here at one point that "Trish will understand and it won't be so hard"  But IMO, being told on national tv that the guy you are there for fell for you a long time ago and then in the next breath you are done, gone, dumped however he words it will be actually more cruel and wrong than just not having those things said and being told on finale day that it's just not going to work.  That to me will be more in line of with what has happened in season 1 and other seasons of the USA one.  I don't think it is a matter of being vulnerable with Trish as it is a matter of being embarrased and totally hurt because of what was heard on tv about him telling her that he fell for her a long time ago...why would he say something like that(something that hasn't been said before in many seasons no matter what series you are watching)and then kicking her to the curb.  That just doesn't make sense.  To me, that would be far more damaging than just being told that it's not going to work out.  At least he didn't vocalize his feelings on national tv for all her family/friends to hear and for him to let her go.  Something just doesn't make sense.

I also noticed how Brad's blog, almost to the crazy extent is trying to say over and over how it will be April as F1, almost to the extent of me wanting to ask the guy what is he trying to prove?  Because there is so much in the blogs, articles, how the previews are set up that they are really trying hard to push people into liking or believing that April is F1 for her to actually BE the F1.  Then we get the suttle hints that Trish will be F1.

And I see them pushing Trisha as the F1 in the last few episodes. That is why we are shown those hot and heavy make out sessions with Trisha to confuse viewers. Up to that point, all of my friends who don't follow on boards like this, totally thought it was April hands down, without a doubt...and now, they doubt.

Sprite wrote:They always edit things to be much more dramatic than what it really is. Shades of Cat's letter to Sean anyone?

see2love wrote:The ones that freak out usually end up being F1 because the freak out means they are more invested. Catherine, Nikki, Emily all did.
April freaks out, calms her down and then he lets Trish go

officeRules wrote:When he asks his mom, "when you open the front door, who do you see?  ".   He is wearing The white shirt from April's MTP.   Makes me think that Trish MTP was first and April's was second.    

AllAboutLove wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:To me, April's HTD was stressful.  It was tense.

IMO, they really thought a lot of Bianka after a quick conversation in the kitchen with the three ladies(Brads sister and mom with Bianka)  The rest of the date went well.

Whit's was extremely tense.  There were problems between the sister/mom and whit.  It didn't go well at all.

There were no problems between April's family and April. In fact, YiaYia said I love you in German to Tim and April said 'you said it before I even did'...

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sophienette wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:To me, April's HTD was stressful.  It was tense.

IMO, they really thought a lot of Bianka after a quick conversation in the kitchen with the three ladies(Brads sister and mom with Bianka)  The rest of the date went well.

Whit's was extremely tense.  There were problems between the sister/mom and whit.  It didn't go well at all.

There were no problems between April's family and April. In fact, YiaYia said I love you in German to Tim and April said 'you said it before I even did'...

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Sorry for being picky but to me words matter a lot...

April actually said:

"You love him before I said it" (i.e not "before I loved him")

sophienette wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:To me, April's HTD was stressful.  It was tense.
IMO, they really thought a lot of Bianka after a quick conversation in the kitchen with the three ladies(Brads sister and mom with Bianka)  The rest of the date went well.
Whit's was extremely tense.  There were problems between the sister/mom and whit.  It didn't go well at all.

There were no problems between April's family and April. In fact, YiaYia said I love you in German to Tim and April said 'you said it before I even did'...
...

Sorry for being picky but to me words matter a lot...
April actually said:
"You love him before I said it" (i.e not "before I loved him")

sophienette wrote:Sorry fore the multi posts catch-up... off to the SCs Focus: Aprils outfits... pretty sure there were 2 bikinis... ie 2 dates IMO (but I need to rewatch/see SCs first! so dont quote me on this!)

Aunties_Love wrote:

sophienette wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:




There were no problems between April's family and April. In fact, YiaYia said I love you in German to Tim and April said 'you said it before I even did'...

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Sorry for being picky but to me words matter a lot...

April actually said:

"You love him before I said it" (i.e not "before I loved him")

And another thing....I didn't say there were problems in April's family.  I was just saying that there was stress on the date is all and when you are watching, you can see the stress.