Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #4

by vivi2 Wed Sep 10, 2014 11:09 am

Sunshine wrote:In my opinion, Andi has always been silly and smiley, if you look at her pictures pre-Josh with her family and girlfriends she looks very happy and in some she does goofy faces. Post-Josh it's not that he has really changed anything but more that she has certainly found someone who she shares not only a sexual attraction with but also a very playful chemistry. In contrast, with Nick Andi had a hard time just relaxing, joking around and being goofy because he was so serious and shy. She did try though.
Somewhere I read Andi was voted most spirited in high school and this doesn't surprise me b/c she's very lively and well this combined with Josh's energy is "off the roof" like they say. that's what I like about them

I so agree with you. What you see her on and after the show are so different, not because she's not this happy or silly girl in real life, but because of Josh who she feels comfortable with to let "loose". Some people don't like her because they don't know her personally. That's why I never judge anyone when they're on the show, only after. Having said that, I did see this Andi (during the show), goofy, spunky...and gasp, a softie underneath that persona***that she was trying to portray. ( you can't fool me, Andi!)

Great post Sunshine.

***persona-- an ADA lead.

by vivi2 Wed Sep 10, 2014 11:14 am

Lucas15 wrote:
Laudergirl wrote:I agree, but I wonder if it's by choice. Sean and Catherine, even 2 years post Bachelor, are very visible. They just recently went to the Emmy's and now they are enjoying NY Fashion Week. I find it so interesting how on some of the discussion boards (not this Fan board) Andi and Josh have been accused of seeking the limelight and yet, it seems just the opposite. They have few posts on SM in comparison to SeanCat, who I also follow, that combined post on Twitter and Instagram probably 10 times per day. We are lucky to get one post a day from Andi & Josh. It seems to me that either they are not getting many offers, OR it's their choice to lie low and just enjoy their relationship doing normal things, like golfing, eating out, and taking Sabel to the park. I'm tending to think the latter.

It takes a while to identify and channel offers - it took Sean & Catherine a while also. But I think there's a difference between those two couples in terms of what they want in the longer term. It strikes me that Catherine has more or less gone back to her "old job" with a twist. Her old job was as a visual designer for Amazon and really, that's exactly what she's doing now only she's doing visual designs for her own product lines now instead of someone else's (the twist).

So far the only product endorsement Andi & Josh have done is for a sports related product line and MELT specializes in branding for athletes so this is very much aligned, IMO. I think they're just being selective in what they get involved in and I don't think that the publicity that's important for Sean & Catherine is as important for Andi & Josh because the end objectives aren't the same and neither is the market. Sean & Catherine are more focused on an end user market and I believe Andi & Josh are more in a "business to business" type model.

I agree with you Lucas. They're all different and it's up to them to decide what to do with their lives.

by bleuberry Wed Sep 10, 2014 11:48 am

I kind of like that they aren't as out there and visible, they have plenty of time to do that stuff later on. As long as they don't become walking product promotions laugh out loud

, a few side business ventures to supplement their everyday lives/jobs is a really good balance I think.

by vivi2 Wed Sep 10, 2014 12:05 pm

bleuberry wrote:I kind of like that they aren't as out there and visible, they have plenty of time to do that stuff later on. As long as they don't become walking product promotions , a few side business ventures to supplement their everyday lives/jobs is a really good balance I think.

As I said before, we shouldn't judge on what people want to do with their lives. And also, we shouldn't compare because we're all different. Just saying...

PS. IMO, they couldn't care less if we want them to do certain things, to get our approvals. They don't owe us anything but TPTB.

by bleuberry Wed Sep 10, 2014 12:20 pm

It is absolutely none of my business what they do with their lives, I will just say that I hope they keep doing what they're doing then Hugesmile

Im personally not even worried about them seeking the limelight and theyre obvi not running to Hollywood so its moot, I was slightly joking.

by vivi2 Wed Sep 10, 2014 12:22 pm

bleuberry wrote:It is absolutely none of my business what they do with their lives, I will just say that I hope they keep doing what they're doing then

Im personally not even worried about them seeking the limelight and theyre obvi not running to Hollywood so its moot, I was slightly joking.

Phew, I'm glad that you have a sense of humor!

by vivi2 Wed Sep 10, 2014 12:32 pm

...and I also want to apologize to you guys here 'cause it's a fan forum, so carry on...

Now I'm gonna the other room to do my job. Have a great day everyone!

by Jolena Wed Sep 10, 2014 2:22 pm

Laudergirl wrote:
Costiesgirl wrote:So what is this PR company doing for them? We haven't seen them At any events or doing anything that they couldn't do on there own

I agree, but I wonder if it's by choice. Sean and Catherine, even 2 years post Bachelor, are very visible. They just recently went to the Emmy's and now they are enjoying NY Fashion Week. I find it so interesting how on some of the discussion boards (not this Fan board) Andi and Josh have been accused of seeking the limelight and yet, it seems just the opposite. They have few posts on SM in comparison to SeanCat, who I also follow, that combined post on Twitter and Instagram probably 10 times per day. We are lucky to get one post a day from Andi & Josh. It seems to me that either they are not getting many offers, OR it's their choice to lie low and just enjoy their relationship doing normal things, like golfing, eating out, and taking Sabel to the park. I'm tending to think the latter.

I was wondering if it's by choice as well. They are def the least visible couple of all. Im glad they are together and happy and I'm happy for them ., but for the fans who were looking forward to seeing them out there more post show it kind of sucks. Guess the other couples spoiled me.(and for me, I wasen't as invested in the others like I was with these two) :yes:

(Just my luck laugh out loud

) The pics and tweets are great to see but it was their interaction with each other and their funny banter with each other that was so refreshing and nice to see. I would think to keep a strong fan base they would have be guided to put themselves out there a little more then they are doing right now, especially if they are planning on a TV wedding. jmo no idea

I thought for sure they would have made an appearance at the end of BIP too ( since they were in Mexico at the time it was being filmed.) A little disappointed here for selfish reason of course, but love them none the less :bigsmile:

by Maggenzm Wed Sep 10, 2014 2:44 pm

Steel2009 wrote:
Sunshine wrote:In my opinion, Andi has always been silly and smiley, if you look at her pictures pre-Josh with her family and girlfriends she looks very happy and in some she does goofy faces. Post-Josh it's not that he has really changed anything but more that she has certainly found someone who she shares not only a sexual attraction with but also a very playful chemistry. In contrast, with Nick Andi had a hard time just relaxing, joking around and being goofy because he was so serious and shy. She did try though.
Somewhere I read Andi was voted most spirited in high school and this doesn't surprise me b/c she's very lively and well this combined with Josh's energy is "off the roof" like they say. that's what I like about them

ITA Sunshine!!

by Emilia23_12 Wed Sep 10, 2014 2:49 pm

Josh on IG

My #wcw @andi_dorfman who forces me to eat sushi almost every single day #payback4mcmpic

http://instagram.com/p/sxhNTVB-iu/?modal=true

They are sooooo funny :cutesmile!: l o v e

by Laura Walsh Wed Sep 10, 2014 3:12 pm

Jolena,

I so agree with you. Purely selfish reasons why I wish we saw more of them. Never felt like this with any other couple.

by nannymargie Wed Sep 10, 2014 3:30 pm

I have to agree with Jolena and Laura. Would love to see more of them. But I also want them to focus on each other and their relationship. Maybe in time we will get a little more but in the mean time I will settle for their tweets and funny IG's. It also proves to the those who are not fans that they are not fame wh**** who want to be in the limelight.

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