Re: Andi Dorfman and Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - Media - Twitter - General Discussion Thread #2

[MiaHawk]

Ok yeah, and knowing how much Andi takes planning seriously, it must irk her that she doesn't have control of the single most important event of her life.

If they are in negotiations for a televised wedding and allowing TPTB to take control of her wedding is so irksome to Andi, there is a simple solution....plan and pay for your own wedding where, when, and how you want it. Nobody can force them to have a televised wedding, right? It must be tempting to have a dream wedding and to have Fleiss pay the bills, but at the same time you are selling a pound of your own flesh to the devil. I know that to me it would not be worth the sacrifice. But for somebody else who might wish to have an extravaganza and have it all paid for, it might be worth the trouble. But, be careful what you wish for!

[umngirl]

I find it odd she would have that much nervous energy. She's not a red carpet first-timer, so I don't think that was the source. And they've gotten the wedding question before so I'm not sure answering that would cause anxiety. If that was it, maybe they should have practiced their answer a little more. It's not like a wedding question was a surprise to them, or at least it shouldn't have been.

So maybe the answer is some other factor. What exactly, I have no idea.

[SueSt]

Ok yeah, and knowing how much Andi takes planning seriously, it must irk her that she doesn't have control of the single most important event of her life.

If they are in negotiations for a televised wedding and allowing TPTB to take control of her wedding is so irksome to Andi, there is a simple solution....plan and pay for your own wedding where, when, and how you want it.  Nobody can force them to have a televised wedding, right?  It must be tempting to have a dream wedding and to have Fleiss pay the bills, but at the same time you are selling a pound of your own flesh to the devil.  I know that to me it would not be worth the sacrifice.  But for somebody else who might wish to have an extravaganza and have it all paid for, it might be worth the trouble.  But, be careful what you wish for!

I totally agree. Mia. The day I told my parents to keep their money, that I would figure out a way to make it on my own, was the day I grew up. When you pay, you are in control; it may not be as grand, but it's all yours and the satisfaction in being self sufficient can not be underestimated.

[Kashathediva]

Extreme hypothetical case of putting cart before horse--but for whatever reason a televised wedding would be moot if the show tanked and was canceled(I seriously doubt the show would totally tank to be cancelled, but crazier things have happened).
So it is possible talks of "wedding" when wedding ratings are far worse than series, is not a high priority at this point in time, especially when in the past the weddings are a winter event. (meaning almost a year away)

[sara11]

It's possible that they maybe had an argument or something earlier that day or week and are still working it out and that's why they were a little off? Every couple has their ups and downs, doesn't mean they are breaking up.

[luvlady345]

More and more I think Andi was nervous about her dress, because when she did an IG pic, she said it wasn't perfect I admit, but it made for a fun plane ride! Especially after the T an I would imagine being in front of millions of people with something that I made on a plane I would be as nervous as heck. But the good news is over 70 thousand likes an over 4000 thousand comments with the majority of them loving creation.

[Guest]

There has been so much discussion about the Bachelor Premiere interviews with Andi and Josh and how odd or unnatural they were, or how Andi cut Josh off when talking about wedding plans. I have re-watched these so many times in the last two days. First, in the interview with CH, Andi never cut Josh off when discussing wedding plans like it was stated by many. He switched gears a bit on his own, but he completed his thoughts without her saying a peep.

There was also a lot made of Andi never giving Josh a chance to talk, but watch the AH interview again, he talks plenty, and it's the same cute banter between them as it has been in past interviews. Here 's the link for those that haven't seen it.

http://www.accesshollywood.com/andi-dorfman-and-josh-murrays-wedding-plans-update_video_2548237

To me, after watching these over and over, I still see the happy, in love couple I've seen before. I get why they haven't really started the wedding planning. They are possibly still in limbo with ABC and they've been running like crazy since the finale aired. They do need time to get settled a bit, and have fun with their planning once they can focus on it. I get that. It's very reasonable.  I don't think holding off on plans are a red flag at this point. If they continue to delay late into 2015, that is a different story.

[MiaHawk]

More and more I think Andi was nervous about her dress, because when she did an IG pic, she said it wasn't perfect I admit, but it made for a fun plane ride! Especially after the T an I would imagine being in front of millions of people with something that I made on a plane I would be as nervous as heck. But the good news is over 70 thousand likes an over 4000 thousand comments with the majority of them loving creation.

I am in no way a fashionista, but I thought the dress was nice. Maybe the execution/sewing wasn't perfect, but it was the style of dress that she has worn before---drapy, flowing---which I prefer to the skin tight mini-mini dresses that are popular these days. When a girl sits down in one of those numbers, we never know if we're going to need the Blurr-out special effect! I really don't know why she would procrastinate or try to sew the dress while flying to the event. That's seems a bit nuts to me. She must have had a back up dress just in case, though. All in all, a gutsy move on her part. All in all, I didn't think she looked much better or much worse than the other women there that night. She is a pretty girl, and in my opinion, she can look good in nearly anything. I may not like her personality, but I cannot deny that she is a pretty girl.

[aviej]

^ I totally agree. As Andi said, since things have "started over" meaning a new season of the show - the focus has now shifted off the couple to Chris. And so, their public appearances would be reduced significantly in favor of Chris. Thus, allowing them much more time to plan. I think once Andi and Josh have caught their breath, the wedding plans would come along fast and furious...whether we hear about the plans, that's a different story.

[luvlady345]

What I liked about the interview with CH when Andi said they have to get their house, because I know I have been wondering what was  going on with their house hunting that they started this summer. I am sure  that is their main priority especially since Josh' s lease is up .....

[Alanna]

What I liked about the interview with CH when Andi said they have to get their house, because I know I have been wondering what was  going on with their house hunting that they started this summer. I am sure  that is their main priority especially since Josh' s lease is up .....

I'm also really interested in this house hunting they've mentioned a few times before. Buying a house together is a serious commitment, if their wedding plans are on hold because they're doubting the relationship, I cannot imagine they would still go through with the house plans. He moved to atl in January so his lease must be up and they're either renewing or moving. We'll see!

[Kashathediva]

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