Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #2

[docnash14]

Maybe I'm just being stupid but I don't understand this, and I say this totally seriously, no snark. Are these girls really such divas that they need to be kept separate, despite each having her own doting guy, assuming Aaron is anything like Josh? Just seems insane that they would need to have a balancing act, if that's what's happening. They're all famous and attractive, why feel like they're stealing each other's thunder? Wait till Steph finds a man, they'll have to lock up Josh and Aaron so they don't eat him/each other. That last sentence was a joke .

I hope that they are not and actually what I have seen of Kacie she seems very sweet.  I think they are both protective of their guys and want them to get their time in the limelight.  We certainly saw this with Andi during the HTD in the comments she made about wanting the family's focus not to be just on Aaron since this was such an important time in Josh's life as well.  

Well I don't know what is going on since we're just speculating, but if I was Kacie, it seems most wise to make friends with Andi and think of her like Stephanie, except the big sister. In Josh's mind, Andi was Murray-ing it on after the fd, so Kacie is pretty much stuck with her if she wants to stick around longterm, which sounds like she does. Andi is already supportive of her future lil bro and that's the only way to be, even if she probably wants Josh to have all the spotlight and attention always.

With so much build up, I can't wait to see them all at one game or hanging out with the family! I bet they're going to be besties!! Hah

Won't be a bit surprised if that is exactly what ends up happening. They have a lot in common including both being strong, independent women. And, as Lucas pointed out earlier today, strong personalities don't always clash; they can meld very well together as certainly seems to be the case with Andi and Josh.

[aviej]

I agree, I don't understand why they would do that. I think the reason why Kacie wasn't at the Charlotte game was that she is packing and moving to Kansas City asap. I think that's just how it played out. I also don't think Andi is as much of a "diva" as people think she is. She seemed to be very proud and supportive at the game. I think Kacie/Aaron is an issue in our minds and not even in hers. Andi hasn't even met Kacie yet, I don't even think their "fame" is on her mind at all. She probably doesn't even care.

However, the only thing I don't understand is Kacie unfollowing Andi and Josh on Twitter. Andi never followed her (they haven't met yet), and Josh followed and unfollowed her as well. This is the only thing I am confused about.

I totally agree with you! I do think that Andy doesn't want to be a diva, else she still would have been in LA looking for the next limelight! She's now more focused on her relationship with Josh - going to family events, planning his birthday etc. Heck! She doesn't even have time to work because she's so focused on laying a solid foundation for her relationship with Josh.

Kacie being the younger one who is accustomed to the limelight, I do see her getting insecure. It's like when a house gets a new baby, it's obvious that the child would be jealous of the novelty. I do hope however that Aaron and Kacie don't try to upstage Josh and Andi and steal their limelight by getting engaged. That would be very selfish in my mind. Plus, Aaron is just starting out a career, I don't see him settling down anytime soon - as Josh said, being an athlete is tough in terms of the pressure it places on relationships etc.

[Laura Walsh]

I guess this is really none of my business but it's just my opinion on Kacie and Aaron.

I think Kacie is only 22 and I'm not sure if Aaron is 23 or 24. In this day and age it is so young to be thinking about marriage. I think today the marrying age is at least after 25 or 27.

I know I didn't get married until I was 27 and I've been married for 38 years. If I married the guy I was so (in love with) at 22 I don't think we would still be together. What I thought I wanted at 22 is so different than what I was looking for at age 27.

[pander3575]

I guess this is really none of my business but it's just my opinion on Kacie and Aaron.

I think Kacie is only 22 and I'm not sure if Aaron is 23 or 24.  In this day and age it is so young to be thinking about marriage.  I think today the marrying age is at least after 25 or 27.

I know I didn't get married until I was 27 and I've been married for 38 years.  If I married the guy I was so (in love with) at 22 I don't think we would still be together.  What I thought I wanted at 22 is so different than what I was looking for at age 27.

I certainly understand what you're saying. In my day you were almost considered "an old maid" if you weren't married by 19.   I got married at 21 and even though I don't regret it I also never encouraged my children to get married that young. Both my sons didn't get married until they were in their 30's. I honestly think late 20-30's you do understand yourself and what you want however I have seen many people marry younger and have very successful relationships.

The only thing I wondered is why Kacie didn't wait just a tad to move since it is still preseason unless somehow the team has guaranteed Aaron is going to be traded. Of course it could have been just the timing in the job opportunity for her also.

[docnash14]

I guess this is really none of my business but it's just my opinion on Kacie and Aaron.

I think Kacie is only 22 and I'm not sure if Aaron is 23 or 24.  In this day and age it is so young to be thinking about marriage.  I think today the marrying age is at least after 25 or 27.

I know I didn't get married until I was 27 and I've been married for 38 years.  If I married the guy I was so (in love with) at 22 I don't think we would still be together.  What I thought I wanted at 22 is so different than what I was looking for at age 27.

Laura, I think Kacie just turned 24 as did Aaron. She graduate from Villanova in 2012 and started at the Fox affiliate in Philly almost immediately after graduation.

[dw_a_mom]

Around here the average age for marriage is late twenties; average age for a first child is 30.

I do think 22-24 is very young to know what you want and who you are, given how much people change after those years. I think it is wise to give things time and make sure both people have settled into their adult lives a little before getting married and starting a life together. Depends on the people, of course, but one thing I would never do is put pressure on a couple that young.

[ThankMeLater]

Kacie is 24 and Aaron turns 24 later this year.

[Millaa]

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[Millaa]

[Announcement] The most famous couple in the USA Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray from ABC's The Bachelorette will be hosting JEZEBEL Magazine's Most Eligible Event tomorrow at Tongue and Groove ATL. Sooo excited...

www.tandgonline.com

[Baygirl]

[Announcement] The most famous couple in the USA Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray from ABC's The Bachelorette will be hosting JEZEBEL Magazine's Most Eligible Event tomorrow at Tongue and Groove ATL. Sooo excited...

www.tandgonline.com

Thanks for the info Millaa!
Here's a direct link to tomorrow's event; hope we get some good pictures!

http://www.tandgonline.com/events/southern-hospitality-thursdays-4/

[pander3575]

I wonder how much money they make by doing these events?

[Alanna]

[Announcement] The most famous couple in the USA Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray from ABC's The Bachelorette will be hosting JEZEBEL Magazine's Most Eligible Event tomorrow at Tongue and Groove ATL. Sooo excited...

www.tandgonline.com

Thanks for posting!! I keep meaning to say, you're AWESOME at this! At first I read the word 'announcement' and feared it was dwts! So happy it's just a club event in atl. Phew!

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