Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray *Fan Forum* Questions & Answers to Josh and Andi

[GuardianAngel]

What are all of your thoughts about sending 20 questions  so that it will be our version of "20 questions"  Does that seem too many?  I don't know GA's thoughts but I would like to start finalizing them so we can get them in "ready to send form" by the end of the night.

I think you stepped away for a bit, check your PM.

This is my suggestion, and I will leave it up to everyone. Chose your favourite 20 questions. Anyone reading this thread can participate even though you may not have asked any questions.

PM me or Doc, - I will let Doc decide.

Once all the PM's are in, I will or Doc will, print off all the votes, and tally them up. The ones with the most votes will be the chosen ones. Once they are finalized, I will draw up a letter to go along with the questions, thanking MM for helping the fans, and special thanks to Josh and Andi for taking the time to answer the questions. In that letter I will explain the ribbon sleuthing, and how early on it was noticed. I will take a screen shot of the tally sheet.

IMO I wouldn't choose any question which they might not feel comfortable with. I would want them to answer all the questions, and not be in a position to say, we don't want to answer that, therefore l wouldn't choose one where it may be producer driven in any way, I wouldn't ask them about Aaron, this has to do with Josh and Andi, definitely not mention anything about any other guys (that's the past for Andi ). I would focus on questions that weren't confirmed during sleuthing, like the necklace, the dock/lake pics, and future plans, wedding song, housing, etc. Those are my opinions only, so take your time and choose 20!

[docnash14]

I have taken the liberty of compiling the questions and am posting them there.  I think I was able to incorporate most of everyone's.  Feel free to offer input.

1. Josh, What other things did you and Andi discuss during your first conversation other than the cute banter we saw about sushi?
And what was the conversation you had with Hy during that first night? Andi, have you had a chance to speak to or meet Kacie and compare notes about the Murray brothers?
2. Andi, we have heard you say that your favorite GD was Boyz II Men and that  your favorite location was Belgium,  How much of that was because of the actual activity and location or did the growth in your connection with Josh during those episodes come into play?
3. How much alone time did you and Josh get when you went to the hotel to visit the losing (sorry, Josh) team after the group date?  (We are assuming you got at least a little bit of kissing in given your comment during the cocktail party in the deleted scene about getting two kisses that week.)
4. Josh, how aware were you at the time of how upset Andi got during her ITM regarding your reaction to the lie detector test?
5. Andi, we understand that Josh gave you chocolates for your birthday.  When and how did he give them to you?
6. Josh, how long was your HTD filming at the BB diamond and at your parents’ house.  We all found it curious that your were the only HTD that they did not show your saying goodbye to Andi. And your mom mentioned on FB that you left 5 minutes after Andi did Any chance that you were given additional off-camera time.  For instance,  did you get to feed the homeless the day before?
Josh, how did your talk with your Mom during the HTD  influence your realization that you were not only falling in love but were in love with Andi or was there something else that helped you realize it?
7. Speaking of HTD’s, if it’s not too personal, what did Andi write on the broken bat?  Also, some sleuthers here noticed, Andi, that you seemed to have different necklaces on at different times during the HTD.  Any particular significance of that?  (We wondered if perhaps Josh had given you one of them.)
8. Our great sleuthers here noticed the yellow ribbon right away and, in fact, several weeks ago were able to trace its origin back to the candy store in Ghent.  (In fact, one of our posters here is the one who asked Robyn Ross to ask you the question about it!) You mentioned, Josh, in a recent interview that the purple ribbon was obtained in the DR.  Anything else you want to share about when and how?  (By the way, post-filming, whenever we saw a photo of you, we knew all was well between the two of you once we saw the ribbons!)
9. Andi, several posters here noticed that you tended to give Josh three quick kisses (often on the nose – so cute!).  Might this have been a signal to him of your feelings for him or were there other signals?  And, if so, Josh, how well did you pick up on them?
10. We know that the show likes a surprise ending and doesn't show us certain scenes or interactions that would make the ending obvious. Without getting into anything personal or private, but was there some defining or touching moment of your journey that either or both of you wish would have been shown to fans because it was special to you, and if so, what was it (other than Josh giving you the roses which we all thought was so precious)
11. Andi, it appeared that you kept a journal during your experience.  Josh, did you also keep one and, if so, have you shared them with one another post show?
12. During Memorial Day weekend, we noticed that Josh quickly deleted a tweet and then Rachel (Andi's sister) tweeted that Andi was with her (although Rachel tweeted a picture with her husband). We are wondering if Rachel was covering for you and you and Josh were actually together. If so, where were you?
13. Based on your favoriting of the tweet the other day about the 4th of July, Andi, we are assuming that our sleuthing correctly placed you and Josh together over that holiday weekend. Just to satisfy our curiosities, on what lake were you? How accurate were our assumptions that you were the one taking those pictures of Josh (and, if we may say so, you are quite right that you have a very hot fiance!)
14. We have wondered about your safe house trip to Mexico.  Josh, were you told not to go in disguise to throw fans off?  Andi, what is the back story to your tweeting the can of Off?
15. Josh, how closely did you follow some of your former teammates' (such as Chad and Christian) tweets about the season? They had us all in stitches.  How intentional were you both in giving us clues through SM (i.e. tweeting at the same time)?
16. Besides the hilarious"Shake Face", are there any other Murray or Dorfman family traditions about which the other has learned/been exposed?
17. Josh, would you have still done the show if Andi had not been cast as the Bachelorette?  And what is your batting average so far in keeping your promise to tell her you love her every day (we are pretty sure of that answer)?
18. Will you two be getting a compilation DVD of your scenes especially some of their moments together that weren't aired...the no filter moments that Josh said happened between them that weren't shown?
19. We loved both songs that you danced to in your two dates.  Any decision yet about your first dance song at your wedding reception?  Any ideas about where you want to go on your honeymoon?  Perhaps back to the DR?
20. What are your thoughts about doing another reality show leading up to the wedding?  Would either of you seriously consider doing DWTS?

I am inclined to send all 20 (I have removed references to Aaron except the comment about Kacie - should I retain that?) and just say that if there are too many to answer, we certainly understand. Any other thoughts?

[Alanna]

Some of these are too adorable! I think we absolutely have to include these because they will probably LOVE answering and hearing about them.


8. Our great sleuthers here noticed the yellow ribbon right away and, in fact, several weeks ago were able to trace its origin back to the candy store in Ghent. (In fact, one of our posters here is the one who asked Robyn Ross to ask you the question about it!) You mentioned, Josh, in a recent interview that the purple ribbon was obtained in the DR. Anything else you want to share about when and how? (By the way, post-filming, whenever we saw a photo of you, we knew all was well between the two of you once we saw the ribbons!)
17. Josh, would you have still done the show if Andi had not been cast as the Bachelorette? And what is your batting average so far in keeping your promise to tell her you love her every day (we are pretty sure of that answer)?

[tryingnottoobsess]

I found this board near the end of the season and mainly lurked just trying to retain my perspective towards the end. My life returned to normal this week and I only thought to peak at the board tonight. You all brought a HUGE smile to my face.

Laura Walsh I think your gesture is such a lovely one!

I know my vote means nothing, but, I almost would make it an even dozen and say something on the card about "the first 10 are given in the spirit of the roses Andi and Josh gave each other and the last 2 are in gratitude for your willingness to pass our questions along" or something like that. I think she deserves the bonus roses.

You guys are all AWESOME, thank you for making my season of the Bachelorette so enjoyable!

[GuardianAngel]

Docnash - Our timing crossed I hit send and you replied to my PM. I'm ok with those questions except the first one talking about Aaron. I think that would be to uncomfortable for them. If Hy knew who Josh/Aaron was the first night, he won't or shouldn't be divulging that info IMO.

I would keep Aaron out of the whole thing. IMO

[teachturtle]

Docnash - Our timing crossed I hit send and you replied to my PM. I'm ok with those questions except the first one talking about Aaron. I think that would be to uncomfortable for them. If Hy knew who Josh/Aaron was the first night, he won't or shouldn't be divulging that info IMO.

I would keep Aaron out of the whole thing. IMO

I agree, GA! Let's not mention Aaron! All of the other questions are terrific!

[Tiggerlgh]

We touched on it in #6 but other than the FD did they have any alone time during filming?

[soccermom333]

Thanks guardian, doc and everyone else for the time and thought you have put into this.   

[Cari]

Is it too late for me to add questions?

In one of their post-show interviews, they mentioned that they talked and felt like they were bestfriends in the FS. I know I'm being nosey, but can you give an example of what you talked about that solidified that feeling?  

About the golden ribbon and purple ribbons, how does Josh take care of the wear and tear of those special ribbons? Did he "stock up" just in case it gets worn out?   

[docnash14]

We touched on it in #6 but other than the FD did they have any alone time during filming?

I will add another phrase to #3 to address your question.

3. How much alone time did you and Josh get when you went to the hotel to visit the losing (sorry, Josh) team after the group date? (We are assuming you got at least a little bit of kissing in given your comment during the cocktail party in the deleted scene about getting two kisses that week.) Were there any other times when you were able to have additional alone time either on or off camera?

[docnash14]

Is it too late for me to add questions?

In one of their post-show interviews, they mentioned that they talked and felt like they were bestfriends in the FS. I know I'm being nosey, but can you give an example of what you talked about that solidified that feeling?  

About the golden ribbon and purple ribbons, how does Josh take care of the wear and tear of those special ribbons? Did he "stock up" just in case it gets worn out?   

I will see if I can incorporate them into existing questions.

[1funnyfish]

For #3 maybe add "basketball" in between "losing" and "team".

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