Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion

[jlccaz]

With Aaron's extremely high profile in the SEC and UGA world in particular, the Murray Family lived in that spotlight (plus Josh as he struggled himself as an athlete, who by his own admission lost passion for his sport in the first year of pro ball) and no doubt have all learned to ignore the negative, and focus on the positive.

[Alanna]

Yeah I don't think he would have been all over her like that in front of his family who had never seen all that from him if he wasn't for real about her. For her part, I really don't think she believed he would put up with her until he flat out told her on their fs that he can deal with her . I also find it interesting that whenever she asked him if he had doubts/questions, he'd first say he did and then laugh and say he had no questions, thoughts or doubts. She really needs that from him, she has enough questions and doubts for 3 people in a relationship. They're so cute

Andi needed Josh more than she knows.  He keeps her out of her own head and she is relaxed and funny with him.  She was right to tell Nick that with him their life would always be over analyzing everything. They would both be insane in 6 months.  She made the right choice for so many reasons.

I agree with you although I do suspect that she is quite aware that she needs him and the impact he has had already on her live.  In one of the interviews, she was saying something about wanting Josh and then changed it to needing Josh.  Also, I just read in the conference transcript, Andi's admission that the used to be very sensitive to others' criticisms (she got that right!) but now she is better able to embrace them and be more self-deprecating (she was being asked about how it felt to be compared to grumpy cat  which I think she handled with great aplomb on the ATFR and did exactly what I have criticized her for not doing in the past - own up to her behavior.  I have no doubt that she realizes she learned to do that through Josh as she described him with those same words during the season and indicated that was something she liked about him.

That was the GMA interview iirc, she said she needed to break up with 24 guys to get to the one she wanted and needed.

In the same transcript you mentioned above, the interviewer says that Josh has turned her frown upside down and she seems so much happier with him and Andi agrees.

So yeah, she knows! Good. He's amazing and she better know it.  

[Linds911]

  I love this!

 :cutesmile!: Adorable! Going to use it for my avatar. Reminds of JASH when they were in the water after their proposal!

[nannymargie]

Yeah I don't think he would have been all over her like that in front of his family who had never seen all that from him if he wasn't for real about her. For her part, I really don't think she believed he would put up with her until he flat out told her on their fs that he can deal with her . I also find it interesting that whenever she asked him if he had doubts/questions, he'd first say he did and then laugh and say he had no questions, thoughts or doubts. She really needs that from him, she has enough questions and doubts for 3 people in a relationship. They're so cute

Andi needed Josh more than she knows.  He keeps her out of her own head and she is relaxed and funny with him.  She was right to tell Nick that with him their life would always be over analyzing everything. They would both be insane in 6 months.  She made the right choice for so many reasons.

I agree with you although I do suspect that she is quite aware that she needs him and the impact he has had already on her live.  In one of the interviews, she was saying something about wanting Josh and then changed it to needing Josh.  Also, I just read in the conference transcript, Andi's admission that the used to be very sensitive to others' criticisms (she got that right!) but now she is better able to embrace them and be more self-deprecating (she was being asked about how it felt to be compared to grumpy cat  which I think she handled with great aplomb on the ATFR and did exactly what I have criticized her for not doing in the past - own up to her behavior.  I have no doubt that she realizes she learned to do that through Josh as she described him with those same words during the season and indicated that was something she liked about him.

Where is that conference transcript?  Point me in the direction please.

Also I think that Josh was right on his baseball card when he says "saves Josh from being a lonely man.  Aaron is on his on now and Josh needed someone in his life to love and protect.  God works wonders for those that believe.

[GrahamGal]

Josh says he fell in love with Andi after their hometown date. I'm watching the date again on Youtube, and you can just see it in his eyes.

Yeah I don't think he would have been all over her like that in front of his family who had never seen all that from him if he wasn't for real about her. For her part, I really don't think she believed he would put up with her until he flat out told her on their fs that he can deal with her . I also find it interesting that whenever she asked him if he had doubts/questions, he'd first say he did and then laugh and say he had no questions, thoughts or doubts. She really needs that from him, she has enough questions and doubts for 3 people in a relationship. They're so cute

Andi needed Josh more than she knows.  He keeps her out of her own head and she is relaxed and funny with him.  She was right to tell Nick that with him their life would always be over analyzing everything. They would both be insane in 6 months.  She made the right choice for so many reasons.

I really think we have Josh to thank for Jodi.  He was so strong throughout this experience.  As much as she tried to doubt him, push him away, and sabotage things he just kept coming back and proving he wasn't going anywhere whether she liked it or not.

It a sense Josh was like a boomerang.  No matter how far she tried to throw him he always came back.

[soccermom333]

  I love this!

 :cutesmile!: Adorable! Going to use it for my avatar. Reminds of JASH when they were in the water after their proposal!

Wow, this is precious. Where did you find it. Love it as your avatar Linds.

[soccermom333]

Andi needed Josh more than she knows.  He keeps her out of her own head and she is relaxed and funny with him.  She was right to tell Nick that with him their life would always be over analyzing everything. They would both be insane in 6 months.  She made the right choice for so many reasons.

I agree with you although I do suspect that she is quite aware that she needs him and the impact he has had already on her live.  In one of the interviews, she was saying something about wanting Josh and then changed it to needing Josh.  Also, I just read in the conference transcript, Andi's admission that the used to be very sensitive to others' criticisms (she got that right!) but now she is better able to embrace them and be more self-deprecating (she was being asked about how it felt to be compared to grumpy cat  which I think she handled with great aplomb on the ATFR and did exactly what I have criticized her for not doing in the past - own up to her behavior.  I have no doubt that she realizes she learned to do that through Josh as she described him with those same words during the season and indicated that was something she liked about him.

Where is that conference transcript?  Point me in the direction please.

Also I think that Josh was right on his baseball card when he says "saves Josh from being a lonely man.  Aaron is on his on now and Josh needed someone in his life to love and protect.  God works wonders for those that believe.

Amen Nanny!

[Linds911]

Yeah I don't think he would have been all over her like that in front of his family who had never seen all that from him if he wasn't for real about her. For her part, I really don't think she believed he would put up with her until he flat out told her on their fs that he can deal with her . I also find it interesting that whenever she asked him if he had doubts/questions, he'd first say he did and then laugh and say he had no questions, thoughts or doubts. She really needs that from him, she has enough questions and doubts for 3 people in a relationship. They're so cute

Andi needed Josh more than she knows.  He keeps her out of her own head and she is relaxed and funny with him.  She was right to tell Nick that with him their life would always be over analyzing everything. They would both be insane in 6 months.  She made the right choice for so many reasons.

I really think we have Josh to thank for Jodi.  He was so strong throughout this experience.  As much as she tried to doubt him, push him away, and sabotage things he just kept coming back and proving he wasn't going anywhere whether she liked it or not.

It a sense Josh was like a boomerang.  No matter how far she tried to throw him he always came back.

This. Love how they both said "Thank you for sticking with me" as he was carrying her over to the water afterwards.

[docnash14]

Andi needed Josh more than she knows.  He keeps her out of her own head and she is relaxed and funny with him.  She was right to tell Nick that with him their life would always be over analyzing everything. They would both be insane in 6 months.  She made the right choice for so many reasons.

I agree with you although I do suspect that she is quite aware that she needs him and the impact he has had already on her live.  In one of the interviews, she was saying something about wanting Josh and then changed it to needing Josh.  Also, I just read in the conference transcript, Andi's admission that the used to be very sensitive to others' criticisms (she got that right!) but now she is better able to embrace them and be more self-deprecating (she was being asked about how it felt to be compared to grumpy cat  which I think she handled with great aplomb on the ATFR and did exactly what I have criticized her for not doing in the past - own up to her behavior.  I have no doubt that she realizes she learned to do that through Josh as she described him with those same words during the season and indicated that was something she liked about him.

Where is that conference transcript?  Point me in the direction please.

Also I think that Josh was right on his baseball card when he says "saves Josh from being a lonely man.  Aaron is on his on now and Josh needed someone in his life to love and protect.  God works wonders for those that believe.

http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelorette-couple-andi-dorfman-and-josh-murray-last-two-months-were-very-tough-16583.php#eGprSYK60ps8PY8C.99

[Guest]

  I love this!

 :cutesmile!: Adorable! Going to use it for my avatar. Reminds of JASH when they were in the water after their proposal!

Wow, this is precious.  Where did you find it.  Love it as your avatar Linds.  

It was posted in the no discussion thread by thankmelater. I agree about the Jash reminder.

[ThankMeLater]

^ I got it from wet paint!

[bleuberry]

That is one gorgeous picture!

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