Re: Nick Viall Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Discussion - Thread #5

by happygolucky Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 6:31

I'm waiting for B.Nation to post all the videos ... during the Nick segment they showed that ocean-kiss a little bit longer than in previous takes ... so waiting for SCs.
Good to read you all so positive ... Andi is the one that always throws me off and it pi**** me off, because when I can't read people, that's when I start to question their motives and sincerity. But with Nick it's easy, he's an open book. So my conclusion is: I prefer to join and enjoy only the positive that this experience brings.
And some things you learn day per day ...

“Appearances to the mind are of four kinds. Things either are what they appear to be; or they neither are, nor appear to be; or they are, and do not appear to be; or they are not, and yet appear to be. Rightly to aim in all these cases is the wise man's task.”
― Epictetus

“Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our actions. The things in our control are by nature free, unrestrained, unhindered; but those not in our control are weak, slavish, restrained, belonging to others. Remember, then, that if you suppose that things which are slavish by nature are also free, and that what belongs to others is your own, then you will be hindered. You will lament, you will be disturbed, and you will find fault both with gods and men. But if you suppose that only to be your own which is your own, and what belongs to others such as it really is, then no one will ever compel you or restrain you. Further, you will find fault with no one or accuse no one. You will do nothing against your will. No one will hurt you, you will have no enemies, and you not be harmed.”
― Epictetus, Enchiridion and Selections from the Discourses

“He who laughs at himself never runs out of things to laugh at.”
― Epictetus

by happygolucky Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 7:07

Now I'll be bold
As well as strong
And use my head alongside my heart
So tame my flesh
And fix my eyes
A tethered mind freed from the lies

And I'll kneel down,
Wait for now
I'll kneel down,
Know my ground

by SueSt Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 7:38

Hi Guys,
Great posts last night. Go #teamnick!!
FYI. I transcribed both Josh/Nick's summaries at the end and put them in the F1/F2 folder... but here is Nicks for our own enjoyment!!
Smiley

Hi. How you doing. Hi Andi, I’m Nick.
Hi, I’m Andi. I’m a hugger.
And I think back to my first night with Nick and it was just like that immediate kind of connections and attraction, like there was something sincere and modest about him and I don’t know he just stood out to me.
Would you accept this first impression rose?
Abso..absolutely. with pleasure. Thank you so much.
I’m happy to give it you.
I’m like ecstatic.
Are you? Oh…..
I know Nick came into this skeptical, but Nick and I definitely have a lot in common. Like the way we view things. He gets it . He’s very aware of what he wants and I mean it’s very obvious to me that I have a connection with Nick.
I like to think that like I’m going to meet someone and we both say like we don’t want to find anyone else like we want to make it work and cherish that. To me that’s romantic.
We both want something great and want that like undeniable unconditional love that you can’t even describe.
The things that run through my mind are just insane to me.
You say like the feelings that you feel are insane what does that mean?
Like when I say things like to myself, like, I’m going to marry her.
This is somebody that I see a potential future with and that I want to spend my time with. There is just a ton of passion between us. It’s once in a lifetime type of stuff.
I’ve never felt someone you know, that connection that it’s like it’s the things you don’t say; it’s what I feel . So, just so you know, I know this is crazy, but I’m going to marry you.
I feel Andi falling in love; it’s not even that I think it, I feel it. The way we look at each other it’s hard for us to keep our hands off each other. But at the same time it’s very easy for us to talk about anything.
I love this girl and I see a future and it scares me that I’m so certain of it and it frightens me that I could possibly lose it. But then every step of the way, when she had a chance to reassure me she’s done that.
I do love Andi; a lot
I will never get enough Andi. I just want it to be us.
I love you Andi. Like, I’m really in love with you.
I think Andi’s my other half. I’m definitely going to marry Andi.

by SueSt Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 7:39

Hi Mura,
:WAVEY:
Per the above: this one's for YOU!! :yes:

But then every step of the way, when she had a chance to reassure me she’s done that.

by SueSt Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 7:47

I loved the blooper video when the plates break at his parents house; Nick is surrounded by Andi and his mom and they are all laughing. Sooo sweet.

by SueSt Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 7:59

So TPTB just have to keep us honest I guess... and offer a preview of Nick meeting Hy and asking for permission to ask Andi to marry him... and saying, this date is not going as smoothly and as well as I hoped. no no

by nutty1 Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 8:00

Back to the MTA….did you catch when Nick said (something like) Andi reassured him every chance she got?

by SueSt Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 8:02

^^ Hi Nutty. Look up. giggling

Summary transcribed.. and yes, Nick says:

But then every step of the way, when she had a chance to reassure me she’s done that.

by happygolucky Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 8:04

yeap Nutty, he sure said it ... just the way we see it ...
Sue ... thank you soooooo much beatingheart

BTW ... from yesterday's reference ... and why Andi&Nick remind me of these 2 (just for laughs)

by Guest Tue 22 Jul 2014 - 8:15

SueSt wrote:Hi Mura,
:WAVEY:
Per the above: this one's for YOU!!

But then every step of the way, when she had a chance to reassure me she’s done that.

LOL thanks Sue!.. you and i both knew that this would finally coming out from the 'closet' ! yes