Re: Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 9 - Fantasy Dates - July 14/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion - Thread #2

[soccermom333]

Nick meets her parents, has a final date but she lets him go before the RC.  The second dress is when she lets him go.

Why exactly do you think she lets him go?  

Just a theory. I may be wrong.  
The next time I expected to see her cry is when she lets the F2 go in her RC dress.  The preview shows her crying (not happy tears)in a different dress.  It tells me, she woke up and made her decision and wanted to tell the F2 right away. Its also clear makes her decision after both men meet her parents and after the LCD.

I agree with this. I always thought it was so weird and hard on the lead to reject the final 2 then immediately accept a proposal from the final 1. Andi hopefully will let Nick go after their last chance date or maybe the next morning before she even begins the final rose ceremony. This saves Nick from having to propose but will still be heartbreaking to watch.

[kdubs_ca]

Nick meets her parents, has a final date but she lets him go before the RC.  The second dress is when she lets him go.

I'm a Nick fan and I'm inclined to believe she lets Nick go in this dress, but we don't have her and Nick together in this dress, so technically it could still be either guy. just saying.. the SCs are inconclusive (of course). They will make us wait until the bitter end.

I'm a Josh fan and I agree completely. I saw three separate white dresses in the preview. One plain white one she wore at Josh's MTP (visible when she said goodbye to him at the car too.) The FRC dress. And the white and blue patterned dress (the pattern is only visible on her right shoulder strap by the way.) We can't identify either of the men with her when she's wearing either of the last two dresses. I believe that the patterned dress is from when she lets someone down early. But, I think that could be either guy, and until it happens, neither side will be able to convince the other. Freakin' Men Tell All episode...

[soccermom333]

Did i hear her tell Josh when going into the fantasy sweet he got the expensive one, by past history hasnt the final 1 usually gotten the most expensive over nite suite?

Also some say that since his earlier part of the date wasnt all that romantic, walk around town, playing baseball etc and Nick got the private island, it favors Nick, i dont see it based on Andi's comments, she stated she wanted to do something special for Josh since he has surpirsed her on this HTD with the rose gesture, and it also gives her a huge insight into a real life situation, from their the convo at dinner became about family, kids, real life situations and future talk.  This on top of the previews for next week leave me to believe Josh is F1 since he gets the yacht date and the edit has definitely turned, that scene in the pool them frolicking and then them laying agaist the wall was HOT, and she always is all over Josh, wanting to constantly touch him at all cost. She like a little tree Monkey clinging to him. it is quite endearing tonight you could also tell at dinner at and the rose ceremony she is smitten to pieces with Josh, the constant looks, smiles, she gets so lost in him. so sweet to see.

I love this couple almost as much as Trista and Ryan, me thinks TPTB are finally showing us another love story from HTD on which is when Trista's season heated up with Ryan. JMO

I agree. Lots of heat.

[jupi]

I posted some couch comparison pics in the Screencaps thread if anyone wants to check them out  

[BigALFan]

Did i hear her tell Josh when going into the fantasy sweet he got the expensive one, by past history hasnt the final 1 usually gotten the most expensive over nite suite?

Also some say that since his earlier part of the date wasnt all that romantic, walk around town, playing baseball etc and Nick got the private island, it favors Nick, i dont see it based on Andi's comments, she stated she wanted to do something special for Josh since he has surpirsed her on this HTD with the rose gesture, and it also gives her a huge insight into a real life situation, from their the convo at dinner became about family, kids, real life situations and future talk.  This on top of the previews for next week leave me to believe Josh is F1 since he gets the yacht date and the edit has definitely turned, that scene in the pool them frolicking and then them laying agaist the wall was HOT, and she always is all over Josh, wanting to constantly touch him at all cost. She like a little tree Monkey clinging to him. it is quite endearing tonight you could also tell at dinner at and the rose ceremony she is smitten to pieces with Josh, the constant looks, smiles, she gets so lost in him. so sweet to see.

I love this couple almost as much as Trista and Ryan, me thinks TPTB are finally showing us another love story from HTD on which is when Trista's season heated up with Ryan. JMO

I agree.  Lots of heat.  

Did anybody else notice the thin gold band Andi was wearing on her left hand ring finger during her date with Josh? She didn't wear it during any other date tonight. All those were the usual middle finger rings. Maybe this was a "pre-engagement" ring?

[Guest]

andi totally played a little mind game with josh at the RC.   poor guy but he's been getting the first rose for weeks now i believe. she had to create doubt but teased him doing it by looking at him then calling nick and looking back at him. of course when they are toasting her body was turned to josh and she looked at him almost the entire time. oh…she's going to have to make it up to him for that one. . these two are too cute.

chris was a total gentleman and would make a great bachelor if he can get away for harvest. so he's the one good on paper. andi did a good job selling him for next bachelor but i don't think she was doing that intentionally. she is very fond of the farmer.

poor nick will get his heart smooshed. andi is laying it on thick. no wonder he thinks he's last guy standing. i do think from what he said in the plane video she lets him go early.

all JMO of course.

[Linds911]

^^ Exactly my thoughts.   She will probably let Nick go early, after meeting her parents, maybe even during the LCD.

[Rolly]

by ElonM Today at 8:45 pm

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Robert Mills ‏@Millsy11374 1h
Andi had to do the brave thing and do this on her terms and not wait for the rose ceremony. Amazing #Bachelorette


Andi Dorfman ‏@AndiDorfman 3m
Thx boss! "@Millsy11374: Andi had to do the brave thing and do this on her terms and not wait for the rose ceremony. Amazing #Bachelorette

Barf! This is a bunch of BS!  Other Bachelorettes have done the same.  
She knew before the date even started.

ITA....this is what drives me crazy about this show. Does anybody believe this crap?!? Thanks boss? Andi doing the brave thing would have been to let Chris when she new he wasn't F1....weeks ago and telling RM to go #*!?$% himself!!!!   I dislike Andi more and more with each passing week. Truth is her leaving JP was one big audition if you ask me....JMO.

[Relalou]

by ElonM Today at 8:45 pm

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Robert Mills ‏@Millsy11374 1h
Andi had to do the brave thing and do this on her terms and not wait for the rose ceremony. Amazing #Bachelorette


Andi Dorfman ‏@AndiDorfman 3m
Thx boss! "@Millsy11374: Andi had to do the brave thing and do this on her terms and not wait for the rose ceremony. Amazing #Bachelorette

Barf! This is a bunch of BS!  Other Bachelorettes have done the same.  
She knew before the date even started.

ITA....this is what drives me crazy about this show. Does anybody believe this crap?!? Thanks boss? Andi doing the brave thing would have been to let Chris when she new he wasn't F1....weeks ago and telling RM to go #*!?$% himself!!!!   I dislike Andi more and more with each passing week. Truth is her leaving JP was one big audition if you ask me....JMO.

It is our differences that can make life so interesting! On the contrary, I admire her more and more (and I wasn't a fan on JPG's season). I think she is a strong woman, who isn't afraid to go after what she wants and has tackled this lead role with a sense of responsibility and a sense of humor. Is she perfect and does she get it all right? No, but then neither are or do we. Is this show aimed at being fair to everyone and allowing everyone to find love when there is only one girl? No. They all knew what they were signing up for - Andi included. She's been called out as having slept with 2 guys (with no evidence), reported as being pregnant; called mean, egotistical, etc. etc. She'll weather it all and I hope that it leads to her happiness.

[Rolly]

Can we bring over SCs to compare?

Clearly different dress.  Different necklace.  I think it is the morning of FRC, she has someone drive her over to let Nick go.  

She does not look good in the second picture!   

[Rolly]

Barf! This is a bunch of BS!  Other Bachelorettes have done the same.  
She knew before the date even started.

ITA....this is what drives me crazy about this show. Does anybody believe this crap?!? Thanks boss? Andi doing the brave thing would have been to let Chris when she new he wasn't F1....weeks ago and telling RM to go #*!?$% himself!!!!   I dislike Andi more and more with each passing week. Truth is her leaving JP was one big audition if you ask me....JMO.

It is our differences that can make life so interesting!  On the contrary, I admire her more and more (and I wasn't a fan on JPG's season).  I think she is a strong woman, who isn't afraid to go after what she wants and has tackled this lead role with a sense of responsibility and a sense of humor.  Is she perfect and does she get it all right? No, but then neither are or do we.  Is this show aimed at being fair to everyone and allowing everyone to find love when there is only one girl? No.  They all knew what they were signing up for - Andi included.  She's been called out as having slept with 2 guys (with no evidence), reported as being pregnant; called mean, egotistical, etc. etc.  She'll weather it all and I hope that it leads to her happiness.

I liked Andi a lot until her leaving the show with what seemed to me a totally contrived story about JP. I also put a lot of the blame for my irritations with the show on TPTB. I think TPTB said "Hey Andi JP is not picking you....do you want to be the next 'ette?" And she took it. Keeping Chris until tonight probably was not a decision made by Andi but the tweets lead you to believe that she is so brave because she decided to let him go early. I think the differences of opinion regarding this show are fascinating. Having a better opinion of Andi as this show progresses I do not understand. Maybe continuing to lead guys on, saying things she knows aren't true is just part of what she signs up for. She has lead F2 and F3 more than I thought was necessary, no matter who they are. Maybe Andi has done the best that she can and for me it wasn't a great job...JMO. Meandi says it perfectly and whoever ends up as her F1 I think has his work cut out for him. And are the mean untrue things people say about her fair? No. I think they are unfair but doesn't it happen to all of them? Maybe just part of what they sign up for I guess. In the end I think I have grown to like the guys more than Andi and the ones I really like I'm glad they don't end up with her. Maybe it's just late and I'm just being hard on her....maybe not.   

[Guest]

I know I'm a party of one, but I kind of love Andi. I think she is legitimately trying to do the best for everyone including herself. I think she's open to all relationships and backing out only when she is confident about her feelings. Chris seemed respectful of her decision and grateful for the timing.

Admittedly, I'm looking through Jodi colored glasses. They're freakin' adorable together. I want it to be two weeks from now already so I can finally let me freak flag fly and lap up all the post-show media and cuteness. Don't let me down!

I like Andi too. She is who she is and aknowledge it. I think she tries hard to "do the job" and that is one issue... it should feel to us viewers that it is a job.
but i like that she has been opened, and honest (as much as they'll let TB be!)

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