Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Thread #5

[nannymargie]

Access Hollywood has a new preview from Monday's episode - it's too cute. She wipes his sweat for him

http://www.accesshollywood.com/bachelorette-andi-dorfman-and-josh-murrays-hometown-date-exclusive_video_2242837

I just LOVE how Andi runs!!! Hahahahaha so cuuuute

OMG.....This is a woman that loves her man.  Wiping his forehead and most of all bringing baseball back in his life in a more fun way.  He will be awesome as a little league dad.

[Guest]

  Josh's happiness is important to Andi. I got glimpses of it during the Tampa HTD and it is shown here too.

I agree! She's way past the: "he's hot" and "our chemistry is off the charts" stage and has developed into: "what will make him happy?" kind of love which, for me, bodes well in making this relationship work in real life.

[sbolduc]

I think Andi's most recent twitter like can be tallied as another clue to Josh!

[Ariela]

Here is a body language study by Dr. Lillian Glass that we JODi fan will really like, I am also attaching the link if you want to read everything, but I am only posting Josh's portion.

You could feel the chemistry on the screen when you saw both Andi and Josh’s bright smiles gleaming at one another. They are both smitten with one another. Personality wise Josh is exactly what Andi needs- a low key man who worships her and who is easy on the eye. He definitely respects her and would welcome her take charge attitude.
In my view this is a perfect match. She seems a lot brighter than him and that is a good thing as he seems to know it as well. He looks up to her and follows her lead.
While she and Josh are compatible enough to live happily ever after there are a few problems I saw with his family.

Andi and his mother may have a problem with one another in the long haul.  Andi will want those apron strings cut and his mom will not allow it. Hence there will be a lot of conflict unless the mother relents. The father expects Andi and Josh to come to all of Aaron’s game sas he let Andi know this . Her facial expression showed she was not too happy about it.

Andi did not sign up for being second fiddle to anyone as we saw throughout the episodes. While she may be number one with Josh, she will not be number one in that family and that will be hard for her. Even though Andi is athletic this is a family of jocks who’s lives will now focus around brother Aaron’s football career. They are clearly not interested in Josh’s love life when compared to Aaron’s football career and would be less interested in Andi and Josh’s baby as a priority, unless the child showed some athletic prowess early on.

But as for Andi and Josh I think they will make a great couple only if Josh is willing to man up and cut the umbilical cord from his family.


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OMG, I felt the same thing watching the HTD.
Josh seems like the nicest guy. Andi and he make a beautiful couple. Their love is almost too good to be true....and it IS! The problem: Clanny(? a word) family; it's all about Aaron. Their world revolves around Aaron. Andi and everybody else takes a second place. I see Josh and Andi's life taking a second place to Aaron the NFL player. I'm not sure Andi will not get tired of being second. After all, she LOVES attention herself ;)

I don't see a problem with Josh and Andi per se, but I do see a HUGE problem with Josh being "stuck/torn in the middle" between what is expected of him by his entire CLAN (family) and what they (Andi & Josh need). it's sort of like marrying a momma's boy, but in this case it's an entire family's boy.... Stephanie may have experienced a little bit of it with her dates, so she forewarned Andi. As we know that every marriage has its' struggles, and it being all about Aaron will be their issue in trying to live their own lives.

Unless, or until Aaron is out of the ball field, Josh and Andi will be second, and the importance of their lives will not be respected by the ENTIRE family. Josh unfortunately taught THEM how to treat him. Now they will expect Josh to put Aaron and the family first, regardless of what Josh's mom was saying....I found it ironic (during the HTD)how she specifically touched upon the subject that Josh's wife will be his priority....I thought: Yeah, right!....unless Aaron bombs or croaks...

[Piper61]

Alright y'all! I have gathered all the videos/clips for my Andi/Josh video. Do you guys want one now or after the finale?

Both, 1 now and one ATFR...  Are we greedy or what?

   Definitely on planning one after the finale.. just taking a poll to see how many of you guys wanted two vids, otherwise, I'll just combine them all into one at the end.   

I would love two videos.    Pretty please. Thank you!

[docnash14]

Access Hollywood has a new preview from Monday's episode - it's too cute. She wipes his sweat for him

http://www.accesshollywood.com/bachelorette-andi-dorfman-and-josh-murrays-hometown-date-exclusive_video_2242837

This is too adorable!!!!

Adorable, It looks like it's gona be a fun date, I can't wait.

At first, I didn't like the fact he didn't get the beach. But, I think they are trying to showcase Josh the individual. Show more of his personality and why Andi is so crazy about him, more of his playful side. I don't know about you'all, but, even though they are not showing much, I see what they are not showing by what they are showing, if that makes any sense, like less is more.

Josh sure seems to be able to bring out Andi's joyful, spontaneous and playful "inner child." And it seems that Andi is helping Josh heal his old hurts about baseball. He indicated last episode that he didn't like to go to his old field but that being there with Andi was okay. Additionally, he said it was difficult for him to watch baseball but now it seems in watching Josh play here with Andi and the kids, she is leading him back to being able to associate playing ball with having fun and being joyful. Good stuff all around.

[Maggenzm]

Both, 1 now and one ATFR...  Are we greedy or what?

   Definitely on planning one after the finale.. just taking a poll to see how many of you guys wanted two vids, otherwise, I'll just combine them all into one at the end.   

I would love two videos.     Pretty please.  Thank you!

Did I say both TrueL?   both please!!

[pander3575]

We do need one now because Youtube is tired of me re-watching all their dates and previews.   

[Jolena]

Alright y'all! I have gathered all the videos/clips for my Andi/Josh video. Do you guys want one now or after the finale?

Two Please.    Can't wait ! Thanks SOOOOOO much !   

[Piper61]

We do need one now because Youtube is tired of me re-watching all their dates and previews.   

  

[Piper61]

  Josh's happiness is important to Andi. I got glimpses of it during the Tampa HTD and it is shown here too.

I agree!  She's way past the: "he's hot" and "our chemistry is off the charts" stage and has developed into: "what will make him happy?" kind of love which, for me,  bodes well in making this relationship work in real life.

     She's adorable thinking he is like a kid on Christmas. Just listen to her cutesy voice when she says that. He reduces the hard-nosed ADA to mush.

[ThankMeLater]

Did you guys hear Andi's squeal when sh hit first base? So adorable!

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