Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Thread #5

[Piper61]

Pipe, I think in Andi's defense I can understand why she asks this question at that point in the process. They've only known each other a few weeks. All she knows is that she's crazy about him, he's crazy about her, but that josh put his family/siblings first, even before himself, these past 5 years. If I were andi, I would absolutely ask and reason: that's so admirable, and I love that about you, (see Andi's PI during the dinner part of Josh's HTD), but will you put me/us ahead of them when we are married? When you're in love everything is "yes, yes, yes" but when reality sets in, things can be different so I think it's actually very mature and realistic of andi to have considered this. And maybe as outsiders looking in we see the whole picture, that josh is crazy about her and he would fly to the moon and  back for her, and they'll be perfectly fine, unlike andi, who has to figure things out in real time while considering other potential, less "risky" relationships.

Excellent point of view, bachfan!   

[soccermom333]

Oh good, more screencaps!!!  )  If Andi doesn't pick him, I'm sure there are alot
of girls waiting in line to grab him up!!!  He is sexy and hott!!  Luv him speaking spanish to the guys selling him the man stuff!!  ha!  

Oh she picks him!! Don't worry about that. He is off the market for sure!!!  :cutesmile!: 

[BachfanNY]

There's a new preview up from Mondays episode

http://eonli.ne/1tuZ1sZ

Adorable! Josh looks so funny trying to dance bachata! Andi looks so happy with him!

[foodie]

She's, in her own words, "drawn to him"

Swoooon

[soccermom333]

I also love the part he is speaking Spanish with the locals and buying an aphrodisiac!!     

[Piper61]

Andi is definitely feeling happy and carefree...the way she's swinging their arms as they stroll hand in hand emotes her feelings (she also does this cute lip bite).  Who doesn't want to feel youthful and vibrant throughout their life?  That for me is what chemistry brings to the relationship, and she says she always wants to be around him/drawn to him, and IMO that is because he seems to be joyful and having fun in all of these situations, even on the group dates, lie detector test notwithstanding.

[MJC1969]

I need better quality ... Maybe if ABC post I can get some screen shots

[soccermom333]

Andi is definitely feeling happy and carefree...the way she's swinging their arms as they stroll hand in hand emotes her feelings (she also does this cute lip bite).  Who doesn't want to feel youthful and vibrant throughout their life?  That for me is what chemistry brings to the relationship, and she says she always wants to be around him/drawn to him, and IMO that is because he seems to be joyful and having fun in all of these situations, even on the group dates, lie detector test notwithstanding.

Exactly!    She wants/needs to come home every night to somebody she can feel "vibrant" with but also someone she is drawn too and will support her through life---the good and the bad.  :cutesmile!: 

[Alanna]

Pipe, I think in Andi's defense I can understand why she asks this question at that point in the process. They've only known each other a few weeks. All she knows is that she's crazy about him, he's crazy about her, but that josh put his family/siblings first, even before himself, these past 5 years. If I were andi, I would absolutely ask and reason: that's so admirable, and I love that about you, (see Andi's PI during the dinner part of Josh's HTD), but will you put me/us ahead of them when we are married? When you're in love everything is "yes, yes, yes" but when reality sets in, things can be different so I think it's actually very mature and realistic of andi to have considered this. And maybe as outsiders looking in we see the whole picture, that josh is crazy about her and he would fly to the moon and  back for her, and they'll be perfectly fine, unlike andi, who has to figure things out in real time while considering other potential, less "risky" relationships.

Excellent point of view, bachfan!     

Great post! I understand her perspective but she really has nothing to worry about. IMO guys like Josh who have been raised to be so protective and affectionate and are naturally that way anyway like Josh appears to be, usually need to funnel the majority of that towards their wives and children, not their initial nuclear family and it makes sense. Lauren has his dad, Aaron is a big boy on his own, and Stephanie will probably one day find a man just like Josh/daddy since that's how she's been raised too. Where does that leave Josh/Andi if Andi and their kids aren't the main beneficiaries of their husband/dad being around constantly, making sure everyone behaves??

The preview is awesome. This show was over about week 6 in Ghent but I admire tptb for continuing to plow through, guess they have no choice . I love that Andi has no time to whine because Josh is already giving her absolutely everything she ever can need or want from her partner. He just adores her and she is so happy and in love!!! Perfect, perfect fit!

[Spencer81]

Still makes me nervous that we are getting to see so much of them, usually Mike F. likes to piss everyone off and not show us the F1. But maybe they have already tried to filter out the ending but these two are so smoking hot together, they couldn't do it!

[soccermom333]

Pipe, I think in Andi's defense I can understand why she asks this question at that point in the process. They've only known each other a few weeks. All she knows is that she's crazy about him, he's crazy about her, but that josh put his family/siblings first, even before himself, these past 5 years. If I were andi, I would absolutely ask and reason: that's so admirable, and I love that about you, (see Andi's PI during the dinner part of Josh's HTD), but will you put me/us ahead of them when we are married? When you're in love everything is "yes, yes, yes" but when reality sets in, things can be different so I think it's actually very mature and realistic of andi to have considered this. And maybe as outsiders looking in we see the whole picture, that josh is crazy about her and he would fly to the moon and  back for her, and they'll be perfectly fine, unlike andi, who has to figure things out in real time while considering other potential, less "risky" relationships.

Excellent point of view, bachfan!     

Great post! I understand her perspective but she really has nothing to worry about. IMO guys like Josh who have been raised to be so protective and affectionate and are naturally that way anyway like Josh appears to be need to funnel the majority of that towards their wives and children, not their initial nuclear family and it makes sense. Lauren has his dad, Aaron is a big boy on his own, and Stephanie will probably one day find a man just like Josh/daddy since that's how she's been raised too. Where does that leave Josh/Andi if Andi and their kids aren't the main beneficiaries of their husband/dad being around constantly, making sure everyone behaves??

The preview is awesome. This show was over about week 6 in Ghent but I admire tptb for continuing to plow through, guess they have no choice . I love that Andi has no time to whine because Josh is already giving her absolutely everything she ever can need or want from her partner. He just adores her and she is so happy and in love!!! Perfect, perfect fit!

Alanna they are a "perfect fit!" Your post was great and made me realize she loves that josh is so protective of his family and brother and sees that he will be that way with her and their family. He will be a great Dad!!  :cutesmile!: 

[BachfanNY]

I was brought up dancing Spanish music, and can say this, they are both pretty bad dancers, , and the hilarious thing is that andi isn't as bad as josh. But he just does not care, love him! Wish everyone was like that, just have fun! It's the first time I've seen her just having a grand ol' time, and her happiness bursting through those cheeks. Love this preview.

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