Re: Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - Thread #6

by nannymargie Mon Jan 26, 2015 5:54 pm

mag pie wrote:Josh has always been my fav & still is my fav. I think he's kind & probably went way beyond what anybody should do in a relationship. So there, I said it & believe it

Can you please tell me how Josh went beyond what anybody should do in a relationship?

by StacyNor Mon Jan 26, 2015 6:59 pm

Laudergirl wrote:
StacyNor wrote:Thank You Josh for proving how right I was about you. Was there a need for us to know about the ring situation on SM? How does this involve us? He knew what he was doing when he was fav those tweets on SM. Aaron was old enough to propose he is old enough to handle his break up. He is just immature, my gosh.

Makes me wonder if he was in Nick shoes after the show how he would have handled it? I am sure the would have been passive-aggressive tweets from him ..........and people still think he would make a great bachelor? .

I just hope from the next ette we get a great guy that people fall in love with and Fleiss forgets who Josh is.

I think those who had a bad opinion of Josh to begin with will just use this as an excuse to dislike him more, and that is their right. However, the fact is that Josh did not tweet out anything about that whole situation. He favorited some tweets from friends. That is it. He made no statements himself. So how does this involve anyone else? Well, it shouldn't unless you go to his twitter profile to see what he favorited. No one is forced to do that. So it's really this simple, if you don't want to get involved or hear about what Josh is doing, don't stalk his twitter or IG account.

We will never know how Josh may have handled the ATFR situation if in Nick's shoes. But this situation is nothing like that and is comparing apples to oranges IMO. The two aren't even relevant to each other.

And I personally did fall in love with Josh on the Bachelorette . He's my favorite bachelor contestant in any season. If people don't like him or want to hear about him then they should stop following him on SM and forums.

I never disliked Josh when he was on the show. I always loved Nick but even then I was neutral about Josh. He started rubbing me the wrong way when said something about being Nick beneath him. Yikes! Sure Joshy tell us how someone whose mother loves him very much hears you say that about his son. How was he beneath him? What makes him better? From then on he has been doing stuff that rubs me in the wrong way, like insulting JPG in public when he doesn't even know the guy, even him going to the red carpet and pretending was pathetic from his part. Yeah, lets blame Andi but Josh is his own man he made that decision and this SM stuff just proves to me he is just controlling and passive-aggressive. I have siblings too but I would never do that to them, we can make fun of their exes in private but not on SM. That is just crossing the line. The thing is that with twitter that anyone can read favorites , anyone even myself that don't follow Josh might have read it in a board when someone creates a thread on what Josh favorites . I dont follow Josh, I just read what occurred and came here in his General discussion and wrote what I thought.

by Ash2214 Mon Jan 26, 2015 7:27 pm

^ When did Josh say Nick was beneath him? He's stated he felt Nick and his comments weren't classy and that he doesn't socialize with people like him. Maybe it's just me, but I think Josh had a right to state his opinions about Nick given that Nick told millions of people on live television that his fiancée slept with another man on the show while his family was hosting a charity event, he spoiled the show on an airplane and said some pretty rude things about Josh in that video and Nick pursued his fiancée weeks and months after the show. IMO, after all that, I don't blame Josh for having some negative opinions on Nick given that Josh didn't say anything about Nick until all of that happened.

Since we're on the topic of favoriting tweets and how that's putting things in the public, what's the difference between what Josh did and when Nick favorited tweets during the season that were highly insulting towards Josh? I personally don't see a difference. No one is perfect. People are allowed IMO to have negative opinions of others and state them. Does what Nick did make him passive aggressive as well? I don't think what either of them did or have done on social media makes them passive aggressive.

As for Josh favoriting a few tweets in regards to his brother getting what he thinks is his, back? Tough to have opinions on that since we don't know what happened. Very possible it was asked in private to get it back. At that point if someone is going to play dirty then you should expect it back IMO.

by mag pie Mon Jan 26, 2015 8:05 pm

IMO Josh went way beyond what anybody should do because imo I think his fiancé was selfish & all about herself & her wants & needs only. Don't know them personally of course, but that's my read on them.

by nannymargie Mon Jan 26, 2015 8:18 pm

mag pie wrote:IMO Josh went way beyond what anybody should do because imo I think his fiancé was selfish & all about herself & her wants & needs only. Don't know them personally of course, but that's my read on them.

Well I don't see it like that because Andi has said she has given in more to Josh than she has with anybody else. She did support him in Advocare, she went to several UGA games and even went to 2 KC games to watch Aaron. She even played golf with Josh several times. These are things Josh wanted to do. So to say it was all about her I don't believe it.

by StacyNor Mon Jan 26, 2015 8:33 pm

Ash2214 wrote:^ When did Josh say Nick was beneath him? He's stated he felt Nick and his comments weren't classy and that he doesn't socialize with people like him. Maybe it's just me, but I think Josh had a right to state his opinions about Nick given that Nick told millions of people on live television that his fiancée slept with another man on the show while his family was hosting a charity event, he spoiled the show on an airplane and said some pretty rude things about Josh in that video and Nick pursued his fiancée weeks and months after the show. IMO, after all that, I don't blame Josh for having some negative opinions on Nick given that Josh didn't say anything about Nick until all of that happened.

Since we're on the topic of favoriting tweets and how that's putting things in the public, what's the difference between what Josh did and when Nick favorited tweets during the season that were highly insulting towards Josh? I personally don't see a difference. No one is perfect. People are allowed IMO to have negative opinions of others and state them. Does what Nick did make him passive aggressive as well? I don't think what either of them did or have done on social media makes them passive aggressive.

As for Josh favoriting a few tweets in regards to his brother getting what he thinks is his, back? Tough to have opinions on that since we don't know what happened. Very possible it was asked in private to get it back. At that point if someone is going to play dirty then you should expect it back IMO.

Did you see Nick response about their break up? It was classy and he didn't even insult Josh he even said they might try to connect even after what occurred. Now, that was a classy response.

Josh said

. "Yeah, to be honest, it was very classless and disrespectful," he said. "It just shows the type of person that he really is. I don't associate myself with those kind of people and neither does Andi.

He said almost the same thing about JPG. That just tells me he looks down at people. How can he say he doesn't associate himself with those kind of people when his ex made that decision?

Also about his brother why does he gets involve on something that has nothing to do with him on such a public platform? At least when Nick fav those tweets it was from fans supporting him. Yes! Aaron is his brother but his relationship had nothing to do with him even they were gonna snark at least do it privately. Its like if Andi sister was fav terrible stuff about Josh. I am sure it wouldn't look good on her or Andi. The really was no need for that in his part.

by Ash2214 Mon Jan 26, 2015 8:48 pm

^ Yeah, Nick said some neutral things about their break up 8 months after he chased another man's fiancé, outed that same woman for sleeping with him on live television and trash talked Josh on more than one occasion. He can play nice now, but he wasn't months ago. When he wasn't, Josh called him out on it and shared his opinion of Nick just like Nick shared his opinion of Josh. Both of them are guilty. What's the difference?

Again, for Josh's favorites, I'm not part of that family so I don't know what was done. If he privately asked for the $40,000 ring back and didn't get it then I understand why some people would be angry about that and perhaps they feel making it public will be a last ditch effort to get it back before taking other measures. Josh favorited a few tweets. He didn't tweet them or retweet them. IMO I think people take social media too seriously. Regardless, people will view this differently.

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by sdmom Mon Jan 26, 2015 8:58 pm

I wonder if and how Josh will respond if some fans tell him they don't think it's a good idea for him to fav such tweets?
Personally, I think it's great Josh supports his brother but something should have stayed private. I don't "stalk" his SM, but because this was discussed here so I checked his twitter.
I don't want to get into another Josh vs. Nick debate but let's say both are not perfect and have made mistakes. Nick has moved on and hopefully Josh too and both will find happiness soon.

by mag pie Mon Jan 26, 2015 9:11 pm

Yes Andi did all those events with Josh! It benefited both of them! I just see her as the one that fame became more important than their relationship. As always it takes two committed people to make it work.

by soccermom333 Mon Jan 26, 2015 10:01 pm

Ash2214 wrote:^ Yeah, Nick said some neutral things about their break up 8 months after he chased another man's fiancé, outed that same woman for sleeping with him on live television and trash talked Josh on more than one occasion. He can play nice now, but he wasn't months ago. When he wasn't, Josh called him out on it and shared his opinion of Nick just like Nick shared his opinion of Josh. Both of them are guilty. What's the difference?

Again, for Josh's favorites, I'm not part of that family so I don't know what was done. If he privately asked for the $40,000 ring back and didn't get it then I understand why some people would be angry about that and perhaps they feel making it public will be a last ditch effort to get it back before taking other measures. Josh favorited a few tweets. He didn't tweet them or retweet them. IMO I think people take social media too seriously. Regardless, people will view this differently.

by rc49ers Tue Jan 27, 2015 11:51 am

I haven't been keeping up with the posts , can someone pm me about the ring ? no idea

I don't want to break any rule .
Thank You

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