Re: Bachelorette 10 - Facebook - Twitter - Updates - Discussion * Sleuthing *Spoilers* Thread #2

[emusha]

His baseball career.

Which was something that was very important to him from an early age, a dream he hoped/envisioned that would end in the Hall of Fame.  

HM! How long ago did he stop 7 years? Would it be something he'd be contemplating so consistently and regularly still? Or do you think being on the show opened him up to address past hidden discontent? It seems so long ago for him to still be caught up on this dream...and to keep ruminating about counting current blessings rather than being caught up with what you don't have...    I'm just confused I know many people's tweeting behavior reflects what's immediately on their minds most of the time...

[luvlady345]

^^ the feet picture may be common...  but it's still worth noting that Nick has a number of feet picture on instagram... And this is the second foot picture Andi has tweeted within the last week....  

Do you know how many feet pics I have on my IG? Or even my friends...But you could be right LOL....

[pander3575]

His baseball career.

Which was something that was very important to him from an early age, a dream he hoped/envisioned that would end in the Hall of Fame.  

HM! How long ago did he stop 7 years? Would it be something he'd be contemplating so consistently and regularly still? Or do you think being on the show opened him up to address past hidden discontent? It seems so long ago for him to still be caught up on this dream...and to keep ruminating about counting current blessings rather than being caught up with what you don't have...    I'm just confused I know many people's tweeting behavior reflects what's immediately on their minds most of the time...

It must have been something because he told Andi he hadn't played in a long time and in fact never took anyone to the field to play.

[SueSt]

His baseball career.

Which was something that was very important to him from an early age, a dream he hoped/envisioned that would end in the Hall of Fame.  

HM! How long ago did he stop 7 years? Would it be something he'd be contemplating so consistently and regularly still? Or do you think being on the show opened him up to address past hidden discontent? It seems so long ago for him to still be caught up on this dream...and to keep ruminating about counting current blessings rather than being caught up with what you don't have...    I'm just confused I know many people's tweeting behavior reflects what's immediately on their minds most of the time...

I agree emusha. The quotes Josh has been tweeting seems very philosophical... like he's looking for bigger-picture reasons why things didn't go his way.

[Ash2214]

^ they 100% didn't follow each other at the same time either. I noticed this morning Nick was following Mills and when I went to Mills' Twitter he still wasn't following Nick. That was early this morning. It could be as simple as Mills saw that Nick was following him and he decided to follow him back. Are any of the other guys following Mills?

[luvlady345]

His baseball career.

Which was something that was very important to him from an early age, a dream he hoped/envisioned that would end in the Hall of Fame.  

HM! How long ago did he stop 7 years? Would it be something he'd be contemplating so consistently and regularly still? Or do you think being on the show opened him up to address past hidden discontent? It seems so long ago for him to still be caught up on this dream...and to keep ruminating about counting current blessings rather than being caught up with what you don't have...    I'm just confused I know many people's tweeting behavior reflects what's immediately on their minds most of the time...

Well it could be that it has reopen an old wound, not that he is still longing but with all the focus TPTB is placing on this he probably is feeling some sort of way, especially with Aaron dream of professional being realized, they guy is human so why not reflect......

[barbell]

Andi hanging at the pool today. Not in hiding anywhere.

Ahhhhh the feet picture.
Shout out to Nick anyone??

This picture is very common now, with the feet and all that.  However, it does look like she is at a hotel and not a safe house.  Does anyone know what hotel that may be?

She is at the Petit Hermitage Hotel in West Hollywood - small boutique hotel.

[emusha]

maybe that's the case...being in a relationship opens u up to see and deal with yourself...and it's been about a month a half since finale so maybe if he's with Andi they're getting to a space where it's no longer just butterflies but dealing with real life

his tweets are interesting paralleled with Andi's instagram post
"Some see a glass that's have empty and pretend it's half full. I prefer to just fill it... with red wine"
http://instagram.com/p/qPxEDrTdl7/?modal=true

not really sure what this even means other than i take charge of my life and fill the gap with things that do make me happy it's a bit more proactive than simply being happy with what you have...

Whatevsssss yall      this social media sleuthing it turns your head quite a bit -- super confusing eh??? i might just quit while i'm ahead with it hahaha   

[jen689]

I noticed this morning Nick was following Mills...

Nick has decided to unfollow Millsy.  Millsy is still following Nick  

[sdmom]

It's never boring as a Nick follower!   
But I am going crazy   

[docnash14]

maybe that's the case...being in a relationship opens u up to see and deal with yourself...and it's been about a month a half since finale so maybe if he's with Andi they're getting to a space where it's no longer just butterflies but dealing with real life

his tweets are interesting paralleled with Andi's instagram post
"Some see a glass that's have empty and pretend it's half full. I prefer to just fill it... with red wine"
http://instagram.com/p/qPxEDrTdl7/?modal=true

not really sure what this even means other than i take charge of my life and fill the gap with things that do make me happy it's a bit more proactive than simply being happy with what you have...

Whatevsssss yall      this  social media sleuthing it turns your head quite a bit -- super confusing eh??? i might just quit while i'm ahead with it hahaha   

I believe this to be very accurate. When we are in a committed, intimate relationship, our old unhealed wounds feel safe enough to surface so that healing can occur. As we have discussed in Josh's thread, it seems pretty clear that being with Andi has allowed Josh to face any unresolved feelings about his failed baseball career (and it's obvious that he has some as evidenced by his self-admitted proclivity to avoid going to the baseball field, watch games, etc - anything that might trigger the painful feelings). So hopefully his activities with Andi (visiting his old field, playing ball with Andi and the kids as well as sharing his emotional vulnerability with her) began the healing process and he is continuing that process with his own introspection.

[emusha]

ended up scrolling through Josh's favorited tweets....confusion -Confucius.....sayy whattt josh what's going on in that head of yours??? these are a majority of the "message-heavy" tweets that he favorited...a couple I didn't pick up here are spiritual in the same vain....they're pretty generic...I guess he's drawn to these kind of motivational messages maybe it's not necessary to think too much and read too much into it but i still pick up some conotations

@JoelOsteen  ·  Jul 9
Don't spend time thinking about what’s wrong with you; instead, focus on what’s right about you.

@MotivationDaiIy  ·  Jul 2
Don't ever change just to impress and please someone. Change because it makes you a better person and it leads you to a better future.'

@_joshcarter  ·  Jul 1
I wonder where God could take us if we were completely honest about our current location! #StartingPoints

@Jesus_Calling  ·  Jun 24
"You were not designed to find total satisfaction in the here-and-now...you were crafted in My image." #JesusLives http://bit.ly/12uuB8k

@JoelOsteen  ·  Jun 18
Quit making excuses, dwelling on what you don’t have or why you can’t do something great. You’ve got everything you need.

@MotivationDaiIy  ·  Jun 18
People will judge you no matter what you do... so you might as well do what you want.

@Jesus_Calling  ·  Jun 17
"So learn to laugh at your troubles . . . and you’ll find that they aren’t nearly so troublesome." #JesusCallingKids http://bit.ly/187JKzf

@MotivationDaiIy  ·  Jun 9
Don't pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a hard one.

@MotivationDaiIy  ·  Jun 5
A person who really wants something will find a way; a person who doesn't will find an excuse.

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