Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 8 - HTDs - Jul 07/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Alanna wrote:

Piper61 wrote:

SueSt wrote:When Andi is crying in the previews saying my head and my heart don't match up... she's wearing the same earings as she is on her nighttime FD with Josh... Is Josh the one that's going before the fantasy suite??

No she wasn't.  Her earrings with Josh were a pear shaped blue gem of some sort, and the crying scene earrings were a silver wired shape.  

 
Lmao I'm guessing Josh was always making it to that fs whether he was f3, 2, or 1 based on his hottie level which broke the scale for her. What she decides to do with him after is irrelevant! I joke... kinda

Alanna wrote:

ThankMeLater wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:I am just curious to all the women on this board.  When your girlfriend has deep seated doubts and hesitation about a guy do you tell her that is just nerves or that maybe her gut is trying to tell her something and he isn't the one?

I have nothing against Josh, but something is having Andi hesitate about him and it isn't just the words, she doesn't look thrilled at that dinner.  As someone noted, she was thrilled with his FIL, but she doesn't melt for the ILY which means she is his wife?

Weird.

It could have been the edit...

Right, we need to see her real reaction to his ily. And yeah I do think she's that insecure that she can't help but act nuts.

nannymargie wrote:

Alanna wrote:

ThankMeLater wrote:
It could have been the edit...

Right, we need to see her real reaction to his ily. And yeah I do think she's that insecure that she can't help but act nuts.

I think she is over analyzing her relationship with Josh too much.  She knows he loves her, she has strong feelings for him and she feels unbelievable when she is with him.  She thinks it's too good to be true so she still has her guard up.  She goes back and forth with this. She will finally let it go.  Like the article said she is very happy and the concerns she had...case closed.

atem wrote:No one said you were disturbing anyone.  You asked, I answered.

Alanna wrote:I have to wonder if Andi was always so over analytical, if it's all edit, or if it's halfway true and maybe a part of that has to do with that cheating ex of 4 years. I have to think it's halfway real and she's really been put through the ringer by him.

Piper61 wrote:

nannymargie wrote:

Alanna wrote:
Right, we need to see her real reaction to his ily. And yeah I do think she's that insecure that she can't help but act nuts.

I think she is over analyzing her relationship with Josh too much.  She knows he loves her, she has strong feelings for him and she feels unbelievable when she is with him.  She thinks it's too good to be true so she still has her guard up.  She goes back and forth with this. She will finally let it go.  Like the article said she is very happy and the concerns she had...case closed.

Hence, heart and head don't match up.  Heart wants Josh, but head wants her to believe he is the same as her past type and to ignore her heart.  Her head is probably leaning toward the mental connection, but that silly head of hers has a mental block from fear.  IMO.

gabriele wrote:

Piper61 wrote:

nannymargie wrote:

I think she is over analyzing her relationship with Josh too much.  She knows he loves her, she has strong feelings for him and she feels unbelievable when she is with him.  She thinks it's too good to be true so she still has her guard up.  She goes back and forth with this. She will finally let it go.  Like the article said she is very happy and the concerns she had...case closed.

Hence, heart and head don't match up.  Heart wants Josh, but head wants her to believe he is the same as her past type and to ignore her heart.  Her head is probably leaning toward the mental connection, but that silly head of hers has a mental block from fear.  IMO.

this. it's not head vs. heart for a lasting romantic match. you need both. always. going with only one will give you problems any way you slice it. andi's head will match up with her heart by the time of the FRC. also, one's gut is not one's personal insecurities (fears & anxieties). your gut is your knower. what you know to be the best decision despite your personal insecurities.
/armchair spiritual direction  

Piper61 wrote:
Hence, heart and head don't match up.  Heart wants Josh, but head wants her to believe he is the same as her past type and to ignore her heart.  Her head is probably leaning toward the mental connection, but that silly head of hers has a mental block from fear.  IMO.

Relalou wrote:

soccermom333 wrote:

gabriele wrote:

Or it could be that Andi says this when she chooses to let Chris go (if that happens) because her head knows that Chris is a good match for her in many ways but her heart wants Josh. We TPTB we just never know where they have taken a quote from and where they choose to use it.  IMO her heart is Josh's and has been for some time.

nutty1 wrote:Sorry if this was already posted. An interview with CH about HTD's….

http://www.tvguide.com/News/Bachelorette-Chris-Harrison-1084045.aspx

atem wrote:

b wrote:Rewatched the preview for next wk for anyone who didn't see...

Chris:"where is your gut at right now"
Andi:"I don't know how to answer"

Nick:"..it's just kinda glorified the relationship...I have lied to myself" (I think that's what I heard)
Andi: no response (pouty face)

Andi: "is it just too good to be true"
Josh:"why do you think that? Although looked like voice overs

I don't know how to answer?  Too funny.  

Alanna wrote:So far I don't see any amazing chemistry tbh, but I am biased, no matter how objective I'm trying to be.