Re: Nick Viall - Bachelorette 10 Contestant - Spoilers - Discussion - Thread #3

by Kashathediva Fri Jun 20, 2014 2:59 pm

I can see her ending up with Josh in the end--especially if she a) does not want to take a risk, change and grow b) she really has not fallen for anyone else and wants to stick with what she has known in the past, what is safe.(like Travis)
This type of relationship is what she is used to. There are reasons they have not worked out in the past. Hopefully, if she chooses Josh she has worked through those reasons... otherwise...pffft.

by notarose Fri Jun 20, 2014 3:09 pm

Nick' s tweet:
Their parents died for us. Let’s show them the thanks of a grateful nation. Please watch & share this quick video: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/camp-hometown-heroes-children-of-fallen-u-s-heroes

10:47am - 20 Jun 14

@camphometown
@viallnicholas28 thanks for caring about kids of fallen US heroes. Your #Bachelorette fans can help! See you at camp?

by albean99 Fri Jun 20, 2014 3:54 pm

What a great cause! I shared it on Facebook.

by Catdwoman50 Fri Jun 20, 2014 4:01 pm

Alanna wrote:
sdmom wrote:
Alanna wrote:Gosh, they're cute together. It would have been a really cool season if sm didn't exist like the olden days.

Admit it, Alanna, you are a closet Nick fan
If Andi picked Josh over Nick, I don't think that means Josh is a better man, just a better fit for her. Both are great guys, and will have no problem finding lovely women if it does not work out with Andi.
Haha I am! Not even closeted!

I can see her with both. Josh the man she's used to who will let her continue being the person she is now and keep her happy, a person and world she's really happy in and IMO will last. Or Nick, something totally new that will show a different side of her. I personally think what she has with Josh (so far) is just untouchable and she's really happy in the world she knows so I see him as the best fit but I think a Nick/Andi pairing would have been interesting, if short lived.

IKR? I want her to keep both - hehe. I can't pick Josh and Nick are so different, I see what each brings to the relationships and how Andi interacts with each of them. #StillTorn

by Cecilia Fri Jun 20, 2014 4:05 pm

I am not satisfied with the Nick sneak peek! It will not tide me over until Monday!

by nutty1 Fri Jun 20, 2014 4:36 pm

sdmom wrote:Sneak peeks are out. Thanks to momoftrips, links are posted in the video thread.
For your viewing pleasure, here's the link to Nick's date.
http://www.bing.com/videos/watch/video/the-bachelorette-sneak-peek-nicks-date/5pdcfsc?cpkey=23430508-924f-4eff-b7f4-00d9473b1547%257c%257c%257c%257c

I when he said " I am going to take advantage of my time with her, not be SALTY". Do you think it's their private joke?

Barely a tease!! :angryemotion

by Guest Fri Jun 20, 2014 5:06 pm

:eyesigh: Nick is way too adorable and that sneak peek was a tease!

by cindebugg Fri Jun 20, 2014 5:50 pm

Kashathediva wrote:I can see her ending up with Josh in the end--especially if she a) does not want to take a risk, change and grow b) she really has not fallen for anyone else and wants to stick with what she has known in the past, what is safe.(like Travis)
This type of relationship is what she is used to. There are reasons they have not worked out in the past. Hopefully, if she chooses Josh she has worked through those reasons... otherwise...pffft.

Why would choosing Josh mean that she was unwilling to take a risk or be adverse to change and growth? Based on her past experiences with "Jocks" Josh would be the biggest risk. She seems to realize that judging him based on nothing more than the fact he was an athlete was selling him short and possibly causing her to miss out on a really great guy. That's changing and growing.

by Guest Fri Jun 20, 2014 5:57 pm

by Guest Fri Jun 20, 2014 5:57 pm

cindebugg wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:I can see her ending up with Josh in the end--especially if she a) does not want to take a risk, change and grow b) she really has not fallen for anyone else and wants to stick with what she has known in the past, what is safe.(like Travis)
This type of relationship is what she is used to. There are reasons they have not worked out in the past. Hopefully, if she chooses Josh she has worked through those reasons... otherwise...pffft.

Why would choosing Josh mean that she was unwilling to take a risk or be adverse to change and growth? Based on her past experiences with "Jocks" Josh would be the biggest risk. She seems to realize that judging him based on nothing more than the fact he was an athlete was selling him short and possibly causing her to miss out on a really great guy. That's changing and growing.

by Ash2214 Fri Jun 20, 2014 6:00 pm

cindebugg wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:I can see her ending up with Josh in the end--especially if she a) does not want to take a risk, change and grow b) she really has not fallen for anyone else and wants to stick with what she has known in the past, what is safe.(like Travis)
This type of relationship is what she is used to. There are reasons they have not worked out in the past. Hopefully, if she chooses Josh she has worked through those reasons... otherwise...pffft.

Why would choosing Josh mean that she was unwilling to take a risk or be adverse to change and growth? Based on her past experiences with "Jocks" Josh would be the biggest risk. She seems to realize that judging him based on nothing more than the fact he was an athlete was selling him short and possibly causing her to miss out on a really great guy. That's changing and growing.

My thoughts exactly. She actually had a lot to push through with Josh. It's not easy falling for someone who is the apparent "type" that has burned her so badly in the past. To work through that and like she said in that E! interview - she came to a realization that not one guy is the same, everyone is different and each guy deserves the right to prove that - is just like you said, changing and growing.

by Kashathediva Fri Jun 20, 2014 6:00 pm

cindebugg wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:I can see her ending up with Josh in the end--especially if she a) does not want to take a risk, change and grow b) she really has not fallen for anyone else and wants to stick with what she has known in the past, what is safe.(like Travis)
This type of relationship is what she is used to. There are reasons they have not worked out in the past. Hopefully, if she chooses Josh she has worked through those reasons... otherwise...pffft.

Why would choosing Josh mean that she was unwilling to take a risk or be adverse to change and growth? Based on her past experiences with "Jocks" Josh would be the biggest risk. She seems to realize that judging him based on nothing more than the fact he was an athlete was selling him short and possibly causing her to miss out on a really great guy. That's changing and growing.

If he is what she is used to and she says he is, then this is not a risk, it's going back to the familiar. Choosing the unfamiliar is a risk. (moving out of her locale, dating someone that is not a "jock"--even though in reality almost all the guys are jocks) In other words dating out of her comfort zone.

Let me personally say--I cringe at the 2 dimensional paper doll roles TPTB label these guy/gals with for the sake of the story. I do believe Josh has a lot more going for him than the term "jock" that was more pertinent in his early 20's. The show really does do the cast a disservice. no no

But--this is the show!

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