Re: Bachelorette 10 - Media Thread - *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion Thread #2

[provenceguy]

Saw a poster with Andi advertising shampoo in the hair care products aisle at the grocery store this week...

[docnash14]

^^ Cute. Glad to know that Andi is happy regardless of who she picked. They are all great men.

Can you post the conflict with each man please ?

Nick is the first person discussed with the heading - Just a game? (His is the longest.) Talks about how Andi got concerned that all of the guys seemed to dislike Nick which made her question if she was missing something. Goes on to say that Nick is just misunderstood. For instance, Nick's roommate at Univ. of Wisconsin is quoted as saying "He's confident and speaks his mind." "A second Bachelorette insider agrees ["Nick had an all's fair in love and war attitude"] and adds that "Nick wasn't there to make friends - his main goal was Andi."

Second discussion is Josh entitled Missed Connection. Captured Andi's attention from the outset. Upon meeting him, Andi exclaimed "he's my type." According to one insider, "therein lay the problem." According to a second insider, Josh scared her the most as he was most similar to previous boyfriends who had broken her heart." "Fidelity wasn't the only issue - Murray wasn't exactly effusive when it came to his feelings." " Murray did his best to prove her wrong. "Sensing a distance, Murray knew he had to change his behavior explains a source. On the June 30th show he finally declared he was falling in love - the very words she was longing to hear. As Andi beamed, she said it's very very comforting for me to know how you feel."

Chris is next (his by the way is the shortest) and is headed with the words Different Worlds. Talks about the size of his small town. "It's in the middle of nowhere he told Dorfmann." "That fact spooked her." "His background was different from hers which was certainly a concern" says the show's source. "Soules who pitches in on his family's 6,000 acre farm was anxious about the city - country divide too. He tells Us, "It's definitely something that was weighing heavily on both of our minds."

Last is Marcus - entitled Cold Feet (his is the second shortest). In Grodds' case maybe honest was not the best policy. He surprised Andi with his confession that he nearly quit the show because his feelings for her were so intense."Ever since he told me that he thought about leaving, I have been a little hesitant to get close to him" admitted Andi. Equally important: figuring out if she wanted him to stick around at all. Grodd was so devoted early on - according to the insider, "Marcus fell head over heels" - Dorfmann needed to be sure that her feelings were on par with his. "It really made her think" continues the insider "The one thing she didn't want to do was hurt this guy. If she wasn't certain, she didn't want to lead him on."

[sbolduc]

^^ thanks for the summary. Doesn't really tell us anything new ...

[docnash14]

^^ thanks for the summary. Doesn't really tell us anything new ...

Nope, it really doesn't other than I think it does gives us more clarity about why Andi let Marcus go when she purportedly did.

[docnash14]

Something else the article did say was that the reason she quit her job was because she "wants to settle down and have kids right away" explains a show source. "She's still working out how her professional aspirations will fit into all of that."

Also she says she "overcame her worries to commit wholeheartedly to one man."

I realize to take all of this with a grain of salt but it does give me pause and make me wonder if she and her F1 are planning a wedding sooner than later.

[Alanna]

Something else the article did say was that the reason she quit her job was because she "wants to settle down and have kids right away" explains a show source.  "She's still working out how her professional aspirations will fit into all of that."

Also she says she "overcame her worries to commit wholeheartedly to one man."

I realize to take all of this with a grain of salt but it does give me pause and make me wonder if she and her F1 are planning a wedding sooner than later.

As long as she's not trying to move to LA and do who knows what, I'm happy. I wonder if she'll ever really go back to the public sector and being an ADA though. I wonder what her parents and now fiancé really think of a career which seemingly includes car chases running down gang bangers, but then who knows what is true in how her job was portrayed!!

[bilolo]

Something else the article did say was that the reason she quit her job was because she "wants to settle down and have kids right away" explains a show source.  "She's still working out how her professional aspirations will fit into all of that."

Also she says she "overcame her worries to commit wholeheartedly to one man."

I realize to take all of this with a grain of salt but it does give me pause and make me wonder if she and her F1 are planning a wedding sooner than later.

Maybe this is why the other article talked about Andi being pregnant  

[soccermom333]

Something else the article did say was that the reason she quit her job was because she "wants to settle down and have kids right away" explains a show source.  "She's still working out how her professional aspirations will fit into all of that."

Also she says she "overcame her worries to commit wholeheartedly to one man."

I realize to take all of this with a grain of salt but it does give me pause and make me wonder if she and her F1 are planning a wedding sooner than later.

Josh has mentioned he wants to start a family. Hmmmm, maybe more will come out on this. Interesting!!

[soccermom333]

Something else the article did say was that the reason she quit her job was because she "wants to settle down and have kids right away" explains a show source.  "She's still working out how her professional aspirations will fit into all of that."

Also she says she "overcame her worries to commit wholeheartedly to one man."

I realize to take all of this with a grain of salt but it does give me pause and make me wonder if she and her F1 are planning a wedding sooner than later.

As long as she's not trying to move to LA and do who knows what, I'm happy. I wonder if she'll ever really go back to the public sector and being an ADA though. I wonder what her parents and now fiancé really think of a career which seemingly includes car chases running down gang bangers, but then who knows what is true in how her job was portrayed!!

Exactly! I doubt Josh or any man would want her doing this. Hmmm, this gives me pause.

[ThankMeLater]

Something else the article did say was that the reason she quit her job was because she "wants to settle down and have kids right away" explains a show source.  "She's still working out how her professional aspirations will fit into all of that."

Also she says she "overcame her worries to commit wholeheartedly to one man."

I realize to take all of this with a grain of salt but it does give me pause and make me wonder if she and her F1 are planning a wedding sooner than later.

As long as she's not trying to move to LA and do who knows what, I'm happy. I wonder if she'll ever really go back to the public sector and being an ADA though. I wonder what her parents and now fiancé really think of a career which seemingly includes car chases running down gang bangers, but then who knows what is true in how her job was portrayed!!

Exactly!  I doubt Josh or any man would want her doing this.  Hmmm, this gives me pause.

I think Josh gets turned on from what she does 

[Guest]

i saw something online (maybe tmz?) that said andi does want to go back to her job, and her leaving was because she knew she just wouldn't be able to return sooner with her current commitments. something to that effect. who knows? i do hope she doesn't try to get into entertainment but sticks with her career in law.

[SueSt]

Good and relatively impartial article (except for the ABC supplied picture, of course!):

http://bostonherald.com/entertainment/television/television_news/2014/07/bachelorette_andi_dorfman_chucks_her_job_and

The line that resonated most for me...
"I worry that the thing I have with Josh is solely physical."

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