Re: Bachelorette 10 - Media Thread - *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion Thread #2

[Kashathediva]

Thanks. I was primarily wondering if anyone other than RS had come out with Josh being F1. This is interesting.

[MVMom39forever]

I've been checking pretty frequently, and nope, it appears this is the only one - although, Wetpaint is running the story too, but at the bottom it says their source and it's from Hollywoodlife. Hollywoodlife isn't even a magazine - it's just an online website that posts unreliable stories on celebs.

Hollywoodlife's source could just be Andi's spoiler thread on this site. Members were recently speculating that Andi's job resignation was due to DWTS and pretty sure someone threw out idea of Josh being invited to join her.

During Emily's season I know that many bloggers used member posts as basis for news.

[SueSt]

It's amazing that the tabloids don't even care if the story is true... just that they have a scoop that sells mags and clicks...

[Bet2Win]

It's amazing that the tabloids don't even care if the story is true... just that they have a scoop that sells mags and clicks...

Just to put it in perspective, Jennifer Aniston should have a gazillion children by now with the amount of times she's been reported as pregnant.

[Relalou]

It's amazing that the tabloids don't even care if the story is true... just that they have a scoop that sells mags and clicks...

Just to put it in perspective, Jennifer Aniston should have a gazillion children by now with the amount of times she's been reported as pregnant.

Some of them probably by aliens if the National Enquirer is to be believed!

[Aunties_Love]

^ I personally think they had it when they each spoke about how they were cheated on and the different effects it took on them.

After this past episode, it's pretty clear to me at least that she wants him to say he's falling for her hence why when he said he liked her she snapped back and said "give me something else other than like." Quite a few of the guys have said they were falling in love with her or that they were in love with her. She seemed frustrated that she was getting that out of Josh.

So reminiscent of the Des/Brooks running/walking talk. Can't help but think it may end up in the same manner.

[nannymargie]

^ I personally think they had it when they each spoke about how they were cheated on and the different effects it took on them.

After this past episode, it's pretty clear to me at least that she wants him to say he's falling for her hence why when he said he liked her she snapped back and said "give me something else other than like." Quite a few of the guys have said they were falling in love with her or that they were in love with her. She seemed frustrated that she was getting that out of Josh.

So reminiscent of the Des/Brooks running/walking talk.  Can't help but think it may end up in the same manner.

The difference in Brooks and Josh is that Josh is into Andi where as Brooks was not into Des.

[Aunties_Love]

^ I personally think they had it when they each spoke about how they were cheated on and the different effects it took on them.

After this past episode, it's pretty clear to me at least that she wants him to say he's falling for her hence why when he said he liked her she snapped back and said "give me something else other than like." Quite a few of the guys have said they were falling in love with her or that they were in love with her. She seemed frustrated that she was getting that out of Josh.

Which in turn likely frustrated Josh given the extent to which they discussed trust on their date.  If I were Josh, I would be wondering how well Andi had listened to me particularly when I had explicitly told her that I was not prepared to say Ily until it was to the person whom he planned to marry.  While I see Andi as someone who needs to feel special (heck, that's not any different than most of us) I would hope that her adult self would be able to recognize it was just a tad too soon to be professing undying love  - circumstances notwithstanding.

doc this bugged me too.  He specifically said he only wanted to say ILY to one more woman his wife and at this point, she is dating 7 other men and she has not even met his family that is so important to him.  To me Josh has told her, I am in this for you and I want you and I won't break your heart.  To me Andi would go a long way by not pushing him on the ILY, let him say it when he is ready because then it truly means to him you will be his wife.  If you have to force him to say it doesn't that decrease its value and also show that Andi doesn't respect him enough to be a little uncomfortable for something that he told her was so important to him.  Reasons like this are why I don't want her with Josh, she keeps pushing and pushing him and then when he finally gets frustrated treats him like he did something wrong.

See, this is what I have been trying to say so unsuccessfully....

Regarding the bolded...it's a two way street. In the situation that Andi's in, if Josh can't/won't give her what she needs, then of course things aren't going to work and she will try to make the other relationships work. I am thinking we aren't given the screencaps as something happens this season to make everything different than what RS has spoiled and they don't want to let it out before they absolutely have to.

[Aunties_Love]

Chris is so mad in the preview and throwing some "...." left and right, like Andi said the nicest guy is mad so something is wrong with Nick

Yup. Something definitely wrong.

IMO, Nick is the one chasing Andi...who's Andi chasing??

[sbolduc]

^ I personally think they had it when they each spoke about how they were cheated on and the different effects it took on them.

After this past episode, it's pretty clear to me at least that she wants him to say he's falling for her hence why when he said he liked her she snapped back and said "give me something else other than like." Quite a few of the guys have said they were falling in love with her or that they were in love with her. She seemed frustrated that she was getting that out of Josh.

So reminiscent of the Des/Brooks running/walking talk.  Can't help but think it may end up in the same manner.

The difference in Brooks and Josh is that Josh is into Andi where as Brooks was not into Des.  

IMO I don't think Andi and Josh are anything like Des and Brooks. I see both Andi and Josh equally into one another, where as Brooks was not in love with Des.

To me there is nothing wrong with Josh not saying I love you at this stage, in fact it makes him normal, I don't like that the other guys have already said it (which is so early). I say good on Josh for not saying it. I don't agree though with his "the next person I say it to I am going to marry" you can be in love and have a relationship and it not lead to marriage, that is life and it is one of the best ways to learn and grow as a person.

I really don't think Andi was looking for Josh to say I love you either. I think she wanted more than his generalized statements about her i.e. "I like you" "I like everything" "I wouldn't be here if I didn't feel something", I know there are reasons why Josh likes her but he just has a hard time articulating what those are, that is what I think Andi is fishing for.

[nannymargie]

sbolduc, I agree with your above post but I do wish Josh would use other words. He could say I am crazy about you, I loved the day we had together. That would give Andi something more than just like. He may have been still taking it slowly because it looks like next week he steps it up.

[Ash2214]

Can I ask how that was reminiscent of the Brooks/Des running and walking talk? Brooks had no interest in Des. I found that to be visible from their very first date. I think this was blind to some people because of the spoilers and also because of the gushing Des did about him. Brooks never gushed about his feelings for Des. You could easily tell the guy wanted out. Heck, when Des told him she was "running" Brooks nearly had a heart attack. We saw him struggle from early on.

I don't see a struggle of feelings between Josh and Andi. They clearly both seem very into each other. The same goes for her relationship with Nick. These two relationships do have "hurdles" to jump over though, but in my eyes there are zero questions in regards as to whether or not Josh/Andi or Nick/Andi care for each other.

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