Re: Juan Pablo & Nikki Ferrell Facebook - Twitter Updates - Fan Forum -Discussion - Thread #4

by chinita Tue Jul 01, 2014 12:03 am

They were just together less than a week ago! We also know Nikki's whereabouts so it's not that she was missing in action

by stuckinsc Tue Jul 01, 2014 12:50 am

Most of the times they are apart Nikki is working and while a couple of cute pics from the hospital is nice, I like that she takes her profession seriously and is actually caring for people not spending her time on SM while she works.

Her devotion to nursing reminds me of Ashley's devotion to dentistry. Makes me like both of them even more.

by Iam_arielle Tue Jul 01, 2014 11:31 am

Although ash and jp "were together most of the time while she tried to complete her dentistry course ". While these two "are not most together ". That is the difference between ash and nikki situation ." Smiley

by FLChica Tue Jul 01, 2014 11:43 am

Yes, there are several interesting similarities between Ashley & Nikki. Both are strong, intelligent women that continued to pursue careers in the medical field after appearing on this silly show.

JP was touted as being jealous, having a bad temper and Ash's sister was adamant that he wasn't the right one for Ashley. No need to point out what's been said about JPG.

Both couples focused on their relationships and what worked best for them after the show ended, blending their very full lives /schedules in spite of viewer's opinions. Good for them!

by notarose Tue Jul 01, 2014 12:07 pm

FLChica wrote:Yes, there are several interesting similarities between Ashley & Nikki. Both are strong, intelligent women that continued to pursue careers in the medical field after appearing on this silly show.

JP was touted as being jealous, having a bad temper and Ash's sister was adamant that he wasn't the right one for Ashley. No need to point out what's been said about JPG.

Both couples focused on their relationships and what worked best for them after the show ended, blending their very full lives /schedules in spite of viewer's opinions. Good for them!

as much as I like to hear couple news, I don't think either of them aspire to a career in tv (although apparently JPG did something sports related on tv after retiring from soccer) and neither seems to be endorsing any products so the whole "fan" aspect must be complicated for them. It is great that we get to see what they do individually or as a couple on SM but it must be complicated for couples once they are off the show to figure out how to create a balance between what they normally post and the whole "fan" aspect.

I too like that Nikki just goes about her routine as she continues to build on her relationship with JPG. It's just normal for her and because as JPG is accustom to travelling for work, she is just his best flight of the week giggling

so it works for them.

by Iam_arielle Tue Jul 01, 2014 12:27 pm

I think you have all point but sometimes in a relationship is about sacrificing something . I am not saying what nikki or Jpab doing for not liking to settle in one place to be together is bad at all. Of course at the end that is their life and now the bachelor is over . Their set up seems to be okay and make them happy and contented in long distance relationship in the same country . I think their relationship is doing okay despite their time of being together . I just don't know if this is going to getting married thing in the future . Because it looks like now they are together for about six months now including the time they hide their relationship . I think it is good he said they are getting to know each other outside camera but it seems their time together is not backing up of what he said because they are away most of the time . I understood their reasons but I think Juan might be just contented with this set up . Just having a girl on his side supporting him and for nikki is okay with it and in the same page. Well who knows what this relationship holds in the future . For now Juan priority first is his daughter, then of course nikki . And this is for now . Just saying .

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Jul 01, 2014 12:32 pm

I hope they continue in this manner for many more months. At this point in time, it's too early to make any decisions on who should move where. I would imagine it's Nikki that would likely move. Six months is not a long time IMO to be making drastic changes, add to that it's not six months straight of being together.

I hope they just keep taking it slow. However I feel that whatever decisions they make, they would make them after putting some very detailed thought into it.

by chinita Tue Jul 01, 2014 1:31 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:I hope they continue in this manner for many more months. At this point in time, it's too early to make any decisions on who should move where. I would imagine it's Nikki that would likely move. Six months is not a long time IMO to be making drastic changes, add to that it's not six months straight of being together.

I hope they just keep taking it slow. However I feel that whatever decisions they make, they would make them after putting some very detailed thought into it.

I so agree with you to the bolded. Having a long distance relationship needs a lot of sacrifice and I think JPG is doing his best to have Nikki by his side whenever it's possible. He even flew her in to where he was for a day or two only. Eg. NY and last week in Miami. I think their plans of moving in together will come soon but for now they are doing great IMO

by stuckinsc Tue Jul 01, 2014 1:54 pm

I like how they are handling their relationship as well. Moving is a big deal and since Camilla is in Miami, I would expect Nikki to move. I like that she and he are both taking the time to make sure it is right before jumping into something and putting added stress on a growing relationship that isn't needed.

by Iam_arielle Tue Jul 01, 2014 2:35 pm

I think to me six months is a long time to know better but since they are barely together and since they chose being in a long distance relationship and seems working out. Since they never engaged after the final rose too. They are just with their typical bf/gf relationship because he wants to know nikki . I agreed with that but how long it takes for him to know the woman he is with and how does it works of getting to know the person you are with if they can't even manage to be together . Don't get me wrong this is his one reason why he never give nikki a ring at the end aside from having a daughter and thinking her family too. Well if six months is still not a long period of being in a relationship . How long supposed to be getting to know each other better? Yeah they are in a long distance relatiosnship for six months and it is doing good. But i think it makes it better if they will get closer more to each other as they build their future together.

by Mommyof2 Tue Jul 01, 2014 2:39 pm

Hi everyone! Does this guy ever stay in one place? I would be exhausted with all the traveling he does. Good to hear that JPG and Nikki are going strong! :yes:

I believe most thought their relationship would fizzle by now.

Off topic, but my baby girl (almost 14 months) just learned to walk! So exciting!! :cutesmile!:

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Jul 01, 2014 2:54 pm

Iam_arielle wrote:I think to me six months is a long time to know better but since they are barely together and since they chose being in a long distance relationship and seems working out. Since they never engaged after the final rose too. They are just with their typical bf/gf relationship because he wants to know nikki . I agreed with that but how long it takes for him to know the woman he is with and how does it works of getting to know the person you are with if they can't even manage to be together . Don't get me wrong this is his one reason why he never give nikki a ring at the end aside from having a daughter and thinking her family too. Well if six months is still not a long period of being in a relationship . How long supposed to be getting to know each other better? Yeah they are in a long distance relatiosnship for six months and it is doing good. But i think it makes it better if they will get closer more to each other as they build their future together.

I don't think there is or should be a certain timeframe when someone decides to propose or make decisions with their future. It is the same when a couple is dating, everyone asks when are they getting engaged, then when are they getting married, then when are they having children. Some people date for years, get married, only to break up shortly after. Some people on this show get engaged, and break up two months later. I have always agreed with JPG with not getting engaged and waiting till they dated in the real world. (Although their lives are not normal) I don't think it should be soley dependant on "time". The time will be when it's right for them. My son dated a girl for 13 yrs, then they split. I was devastated but it was their choice. As they say, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Maybe they have it all figured out, timeframe and all! Smiley

Mommyof1 wrote:Hi everyone! Does this guy ever stay in one place? I would be exhausted with all the traveling he does. Good to hear that JPG and Nikki are going strong! I believe most thought their relationship would fizzle by now.

Off topic, but my baby girl (almost 14 months) just learned to walk! So exciting!! :cutesmile!:

Off Topic response: Congrats BabyMommyof1! those are precious moments! :yes:

She's so adorable!

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