Re: Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman and CH's Blog - *Spoilers* - Discussion

by rosesrREd Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:28 pm

Bet2Win wrote:Apparently JPG didn't lead Andi on, and she was pissed that he didn't want to know more about her.

It is the nature of the show to string people along to get to the final one. Sometimes the lead gets hurt (Brooks, Graham's and Frank's exits), sometimes the lead gives clues that their heart is elsewhere (Brad with Chantal when he told her to slow down); and sometimes the leads get caught up in the moment (Alex told Trista he was going to choose her and didn't; Andy told Bevin he freaking loved her).

Then sometimes the leads are overjoyed that everyone is falling in love with them (Blob).

Where does Andi fit in? She told Nick she was happy to hear he was in love with her ... was that an in the moment feeling? She didn't have to respond at all if she was so gone for Josh.

I am pretty sure she said "thanks for that" when Josh told her ILY.

by emusha Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:32 pm

she's been literally on the border of giddy every time any guy on this show has confessed his love or "falling in love" status for her no no

she digs and baits hard for these confessions as well - i get that she wants the reassurance but the giddiness is disappointing for me to acknowledge

by beader Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:45 pm

I agree, emusha. Someone several weeks ago mentioned that they may get a bonus for every ILY. Andi makes that sound like a real possibility! Open mouth wide--say "awwww, thank you," and think, "clink clink clink--another $50,000."

She even said about Nick, "If I want him, I'll make a believer out of him." At least that's what I heard. To me, that's has a lot of "yuk" factor--very MeAndI.

by Bet2Win Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:45 pm

emusha wrote:hahahahahah hilarious that Andi's parallel has even a tiny chance to be with BLOB (even to much much lesser extent..still hilarious)

I know, huh. giggling

by MiaHawk Wed Jul 16, 2014 10:15 pm

Deleted here and moved it to the FD thread instead.***

by Jolena Wed Jul 16, 2014 11:37 pm

rosesrREd wrote:
Bet2Win wrote:Apparently JPG didn't lead Andi on, and she was pissed that he didn't want to know more about her.

It is the nature of the show to string people along to get to the final one. Sometimes the lead gets hurt (Brooks, Graham's and Frank's exits), sometimes the lead gives clues that their heart is elsewhere (Brad with Chantal when he told her to slow down); and sometimes the leads get caught up in the moment (Alex told Trista he was going to choose her and didn't; Andy told Bevin he freaking loved her).

Then sometimes the leads are overjoyed that everyone is falling in love with them (Blob).

Where does Andi fit in? She told Nick she was happy to hear he was in love with her ... was that an in the moment feeling? She didn't have to respond at all if she was so gone for Josh.

I am pretty sure she said "thanks for that" when Josh told her ILY.

IMO the lead will ask and say similar or the same things to the F2 just so she can say and do the same with her true F1. The F1 is the one she really wants those answers from and the one that she wants to say certain things to, but in order to raise doubt with the viewing audience she has to do it with both. Example: Nick.. Raising kids, kind of parent he would be, leaning up against him, pulling him in for kisses, telling him " I'm so glad that your here" ect. Then she can do and say all the same things to and with Josh. Nick connection was built up in the beginning to ( make him a believer in all of this), but once she knew Josh was " all in" and falling in love with her, no more melt downs or fears that it would end in heartbreak JMHO

by ironcat Thu Jul 17, 2014 6:28 am

But how exactly should a lead respond when her F2 or F3 tells her he's in love with her? This season, those ILYs came really early, and Andi can't let on that she was anything but thrilled by it, especially if she still had to drag the poor guy through another couple of episodes. Is there any reaction that she could have given at that point that wouldn't tip off Nick that she wasn't so happy to hear it?

by Guest Thu Jul 17, 2014 6:56 am

^^^ So true Ironcat. Just revisit the seasons of any of the 'happily married' from this show and you'll see the lead acting believably 'into' the F2. There must be doubt till the last moment.

by Spencer81 Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:11 am

I am sure they are coached by the producers..

by Guest Sat Jul 19, 2014 5:08 pm

SueSt wrote:
MiaHawk wrote:I've enjoyed reading everyone's input on the topic of Andi. It's good to hear different perspectives.

I'm a firm believer that each individual and each couple are unique. If Andi decides she never wants to return to law, that is her prerogative. If she wants to change jobs, that is her prerogative. If she does not wish to return to work and Josh is on board with that, then that is their decision as a couple. I believe that the Women's Liberation Movement of decades ago was all about women having more opportunities in how they wish to live their lives. The choices, however, are still up to the individuals. I don't think any one from the outside can say what is or isn't going to work for another couple.

or if she chooses to move to CHI to have babies with Nick!!

Yes, about 12 of them! whipped

by Alanna Tue Jul 22, 2014 6:58 am

Blog is up

http://www.people.com/article/andi-dorfman-bachelorette-blog-facing-the-exes

by BachfanNY Tue Jul 22, 2014 10:27 am

BKay wrote:^^^ So true Ironcat. Just revisit the seasons of any of the 'happily married' from this show and you'll see the lead acting believably 'into' the F2. There must be doubt till the last moment.

This is too true. How do you all of the sudden turn those feelings off? There has to be a point when you know before the LCDs happen. And if they didn't, every season would end like Jason's, with confusion and then a switch. Or Brad 1.0, picking no one, or Jen Scheft's season.

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