Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman and CH's Blog - *Spoilers* - Discussion

Sarah_XV wrote:IKR? He is the least likely of the F4 to be F1 imo. He had some chance in my eye before last night. But that blog was the final nail. Ouch.

Yes ... she definitely made her feelings known that she was totally pissed at Nick during episode 5. Interesting to compare what she said about Nick in blog 3-4-5:

Blog 3:

My first date was with Nick. Obviously, he had made a great impression on me the very first night, and I wanted to get to know him more. Nick had voiced his skepticism about this whole process, so I thought he would enjoy a simple and very realistic date like bike riding and hiking.

During our picnic, I could tell Nick was nervous, but I found it endearing. While we were hiking, I knew I wanted to show Nick this special place to watch the sunset, but what you didn't get to see was that we actually had to climb through a narrow hole in a rock wall to get there.

Once we got through that and were enjoying the sunset, that's when Nick went in for our first kiss and it was so passionate and romantic. Later that night, we met at the beautiful Santa Barbara courthouse for dinner.

Throughout dinner I found myself relating to Nick in so many ways. On a mental level, we were definitely connected, and for many reasons, it was an easy decision to give Nick the rose on the date.

But there were some really sweet and romantic moments during the cocktail party too. Nick sending flowers was romantic, unexpected and yet so simple. I think it showed how realistic Nick was in this process. What I mean by that is, Nick made an effort to make this process feel more like we were dating back in Chicago. I really appreciated that, and as a woman, that's definitely how I want to be treated.

Blog 4:

Nick and I had great chemistry that night and was a perfect follow up to our one-on-one date. Just like in Santa Barbara, I felt like Nick and I continued to have this intense mental and physical connection. The kisses were amazing and he definitely knows how to make me feel like a woman, and I loved how passionate he was.  

Blog 5:

Nevertheless, the guys were great sports as usual – except Nick. I know Nick and I had a great connection from our date in Santa Barbara, and I know it’s hard to adjust back to group dates, but I remember really not liking Nick’s standoffish behavior. Little did I know that that would follow through the evening as well.

As soon as I walked back into the cocktail party I could feel that something was off with the guys. I started talking to them individually and I got the sense that there was some tension between the guys and Nick – specifically that Nick had suggested to some effect that he was the "frontrunner." Obviously I don’t like this term, because it made me feel like this was a competition and that I’m a prize, and like Olivia Pope has said, "I am not a prize at the state fair. You cannot win me!" Needless to say, I was not happy at the turn of events that night.

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With that comparison - such a stark jump from her Blog 3-4 vs. Blog 5, I am going to wait &  see what she says about Nick in Blog 7 after their Venice date and then Blog 8 when he supposedly gets the group rose date and extra alone time/mini date, before I take him totally out of F1 race.

You just never know ...

MVMom39forever wrote:

Sarah_XV wrote:IKR? He is the least likely of the F4 to be F1 imo. He had some chance in my eye before last night. But that blog was the final nail. Ouch.

Yes ... she definitely made her feelings known that she was totally pissed at Nick during episode 5. Interesting to compare what she said about Nick in blog 3-4-5:

Blog 3:

My first date was with Nick. Obviously, he had made a great impression on me the very first night, and I wanted to get to know him more. Nick had voiced his skepticism about this whole process, so I thought he would enjoy a simple and very realistic date like bike riding and hiking.

During our picnic, I could tell Nick was nervous, but I found it endearing. While we were hiking, I knew I wanted to show Nick this special place to watch the sunset, but what you didn't get to see was that we actually had to climb through a narrow hole in a rock wall to get there.

Once we got through that and were enjoying the sunset, that's when Nick went in for our first kiss and it was so passionate and romantic. Later that night, we met at the beautiful Santa Barbara courthouse for dinner.

Throughout dinner I found myself relating to Nick in so many ways. On a mental level, we were definitely connected, and for many reasons, it was an easy decision to give Nick the rose on the date.

But there were some really sweet and romantic moments during the cocktail party too. Nick sending flowers was romantic, unexpected and yet so simple. I think it showed how realistic Nick was in this process. What I mean by that is, Nick made an effort to make this process feel more like we were dating back in Chicago. I really appreciated that, and as a woman, that's definitely how I want to be treated.

Blog 4:

Nick and I had great chemistry that night and was a perfect follow up to our one-on-one date. Just like in Santa Barbara, I felt like Nick and I continued to have this intense mental and physical connection. The kisses were amazing and he definitely knows how to make me feel like a woman, and I loved how passionate he was.  

Blog 5:

Nevertheless, the guys were great sports as usual – except Nick. I know Nick and I had a great connection from our date in Santa Barbara, and I know it’s hard to adjust back to group dates, but I remember really not liking Nick’s standoffish behavior. Little did I know that that would follow through the evening as well.

As soon as I walked back into the cocktail party I could feel that something was off with the guys. I started talking to them individually and I got the sense that there was some tension between the guys and Nick – specifically that Nick had suggested to some effect that he was the "frontrunner." Obviously I don’t like this term, because it made me feel like this was a competition and that I’m a prize, and like Olivia Pope has said, "I am not a prize at the state fair. You cannot win me!" Needless to say, I was not happy at the turn of events that night.

***

With that comparison - such a stark jump from her Blog 3-4 vs. Blog 5, I am going to wait &  see what she says about Nick in Blog 7 after their Venice date and then Blog 8 when he supposedly gets the group rose date and extra alone time/mini date, before I take him totally out of F1 race.

You just never know ...

ITA, too soon to tell if he crashed and burned already, I think he will redeem himself to get to HTD.

Her blogs are snoozers. She needs to sit with Kelly Travisty then also.

Wow what a shift in her blogs, funny how one week I felt it was Nick Nick Nick, to there is no way she is picking him.

If Nick and Josh are F2, Nick has to come back in some shape/form otherwise with all other clues out there, Josh is the clear frontrunner (both spoiled and non-spoiled) TPTB have something up their sleeves IMO

sbolduc wrote:Wow what a shift in her blogs, funny how one week I felt it was Nick Nick Nick, to there is no way she is picking him.

If Nick and Josh are F2, Nick has to come back in some shape/form otherwise with all other clues out there, Josh is the clear frontrunner (both spoiled and non-spoiled) TPTB have something up their sleeves IMO

  

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Yep, in my @peoplemag I sure did quote Olivia Pope because well she's Olivia Pope... @kerrywashington #Scandal #itshandled #TheBachelorette

jlccaz wrote:Her blogs are snoozers.  She needs to sit with Kelly Travisty then also.  

Agreed! Nothing to work with....

Bahaha I loved how she quoted Olivia Pope.

Steel2009 wrote:
Andi DorfmanVerified account
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Yep, in my @peoplemag I sure did quote Olivia Pope because well she's Olivia Pope... @kerrywashington #Scandal #itshandled #TheBachelorette

Too funny! And just think ... Olivia always gets totally pissed at POTUS but still takes him back. Every. Time.

So, there's hope for you young Nick ...

MVMom39forever wrote:

Steel2009 wrote:
Andi DorfmanVerified account
‏@AndiDorfman
Yep, in my @peoplemag I sure did quote Olivia Pope because well she's Olivia Pope... @kerrywashington #Scandal #itshandled #TheBachelorette

Too funny! And just think ... Olivia always gets totally pissed at POTUS but still takes him back. Every. Time.

So, there's hope for you young Nick ...

She did say that Scandal is one of her favorite shows.

ThankMeLater wrote:Bahaha I loved how she quoted Olivia Pope.

Somewhere i read that Andi likes to envision herself as Olivia Pope so not surprised she quoted her.

docnash14 wrote:

ThankMeLater wrote:Bahaha I loved how she quoted Olivia Pope.

Somewhere i read that Andi likes to envision herself as Olivia Pope so not surprised she quoted her.

I bet she does.