Sean and Catherine Lowe - General Discussion

iloveromance wrote:Great post chloep!! 

And I'm one of those people who need to be more thick skinned, I'm way too sensitive and emotional for the internet, I'll be the first to admit that!! 

   

Your post was worth way more than two cents! Thank you!

I think you 2 cents was at least 10 cents. Thanks Chloep for putting it so well.

Great post Chloep!  I've been wondering why SeanCat were allowed 2 sometimes 3 fan threads. :hidingchair

Excellent post, Chloep. It was worth at least 20 cents to me!

Muslady wrote:Great post Chloep!  I've been wondering why SeanCat were allowed 2 sometimes 3 fan threads. :hidingchair

I think each of the fan sections have that.    On the front page there is the link to the WHOLE SeanCat FAN SECTION -> which again is dived into several THREADS(by topics) --> media/general/Twitter-FB-Insta <-- to keep a better check on things, I am fairly certain that those additional threads can be created on a whim(just contact San first)..... I know Des and Chris/Brooks/Drew/Zak/Nikki and JP etc... all have the same system. (section->threads)
SC is just a super busy section that's why we accumulate all the threads posts so freakishly fast..(could you imagine is EVERYTHING went into one thread...  ,)

I've been in and out of the board because of family health issues. I was backreading your posts and I realized that during SeanCat's season I was amongst you "defending" them with other posters with "differing" opinion. I get frustrated when they don't get to see how I see it but I've learned to "agree to disagree". Then the FRC and AFTR happened when SeanCat's stance did not seat well with me. Understandably, you my friends explained very well your perspective on what happened. I understood all your explainations here and at the other thread (special shoutout to chloep and umngirl!). I now see where you guys are coming from. And is plausible that is where SeanCat is indeed coming from. I still disagree. I still saw it differently. I'm still disappointed with them. However, that doesn't change that I'm still a fan. I would not feel that you guys are mad at me for feeling differently. And so far, it hasn't come to a point that I felt you guys are disrespecting me for my differing opinion. I know y'all were doing what I used to do before. Just defending your perspective.

chloep, if you run out of 2 cents, you can borrow from me. I still have some loose change.

Ilove, yes, you are a very sensitive person but I wouldn't want you to change. I think we all need to learn from the Lowes on how to develop thick skin.

Cari wrote:I've been in and out of the board because of family health issues. I was backreading your posts and I realized that during SeanCat's season I was amongst you "defending" them with other posters with "differing" opinion. I get frustrated when they don't get to see how I see it but I've learned to "agree to disagree". Then the FRC and AFTR happened when SeanCat's stance did not seat well with me. Understandably, you my friends explained very well your perspective on what happened. I understood all your explainations here and at the other thread (special shoutout to chloep and umngirl!). I now see where you guys are coming from. And is plausible that is where SeanCat is indeed coming from. I still disagree. I still saw it differently. I'm still disappointed with them. However, that doesn't change that I'm still a fan. I would not feel that you guys are mad at me for feeling differently. And so far, it hasn't come to a point that I felt you guys are disrespecting me for my differing opinion. I know y'all were doing what I used to do before. Just defending your perspective.

That's all what we can hope for, that we see beyond our own thoughts/impressions and understand what is behind differing opinions and at the end of the day ACCEPT EACH and every one of them. We don't have to be all of the same opinion, it's perfectly okay and understandable if we disagree on certain(most:) topics and as frustrating it is to "agree to disagree", sometimes(or actually most of the time) that's all there is left.

Cari wrote:I've been in and out of the board because of family health issues. I was backreading your posts and I realized that during SeanCat's season I was amongst you "defending" them with other posters with "differing" opinion. I get frustrated when they don't get to see how I see it but I've learned to "agree to disagree". Then the FRC and AFTR happened when SeanCat's stance did not seat well with me. Understandably, you my friends explained very well your perspective on what happened. I understood all your explainations here and at the other thread (special shoutout to chloep and umngirl!). I now see where you guys are coming from. And is plausible that is where SeanCat is indeed coming from. I still disagree. I still saw it differently. I'm still disappointed with them. However, that doesn't change that I'm still a fan. I would not feel that you guys are mad at me for feeling differently. And so far, it hasn't come to a point that I felt you guys are disrespecting me for my differing opinion. I know y'all were doing what I used to do before. Just defending your perspective.

Sorry to hear of family health issues. That can be rough. Hope things look up for you. Yes, we will always go head to head with each other as everyone on this board have strong opinions but as long as we keep it civil, we will be fine. I think more people will come out of lurkdom and realize they don't have to agree on everything our couple does. I used to hold back on certain things but am feeling more open to speaking my mind. You can disagree with something Sean or Catherine does and that doesn't make you a bad fan. We won't bite (I think).

chloep wrote:

Cari wrote:I've been in and out of the board because of family health issues. I was backreading your posts and I realized that during SeanCat's season I was amongst you "defending" them with other posters with "differing" opinion. I get frustrated when they don't get to see how I see it but I've learned to "agree to disagree". Then the FRC and AFTR happened when SeanCat's stance did not seat well with me. Understandably, you my friends explained very well your perspective on what happened. I understood all your explainations here and at the other thread (special shoutout to chloep and umngirl!). I now see where you guys are coming from. And is plausible that is where SeanCat is indeed coming from. I still disagree. I still saw it differently. I'm still disappointed with them. However, that doesn't change that I'm still a fan. I would not feel that you guys are mad at me for feeling differently. And so far, it hasn't come to a point that I felt you guys are disrespecting me for my differing opinion. I know y'all were doing what I used to do before. Just defending your perspective.

That's all what we can hope for, that we see beyond our own thoughts/impressions and understand what is behind differing opinions and at the end of the day ACCEPT EACH and every one of them. We don't have to be all of the same opinion, it's perfectly okay and understandable if we disagree on certain(most:) topics and as frustrating it is to "agree to disagree", sometimes(or actually most of the time) that's all there is left.

This. If only all of us take this to heart! Haha this is what we should remember with our cyber relationships on this board or any other message forums!

Poppycorn wrote:

Cari wrote:I've been in and out of the board because of family health issues. I was backreading your posts and I realized that during SeanCat's season I was amongst you "defending" them with other posters with "differing" opinion. I get frustrated when they don't get to see how I see it but I've learned to "agree to disagree". Then the FRC and AFTR happened when SeanCat's stance did not seat well with me. Understandably, you my friends explained very well your perspective on what happened. I understood all your explainations here and at the other thread (special shoutout to chloep and umngirl!). I now see where you guys are coming from. And is plausible that is where SeanCat is indeed coming from. I still disagree. I still saw it differently. I'm still disappointed with them. However, that doesn't change that I'm still a fan. I would not feel that you guys are mad at me for feeling differently. And so far, it hasn't come to a point that I felt you guys are disrespecting me for my differing opinion. I know y'all were doing what I used to do before. Just defending your perspective.

Sorry to hear of family health issues.  That can be rough.  Hope things look up for you.  Yes, we will always go head to head with each other as everyone on this board have strong opinions but as long as we keep it civil, we will be fine.  I think more people will come out of lurkdom and realize they don't have to agree on everything our couple does.  I used to hold back on certain things but am feeling more open to speaking my mind.  You can disagree with something Sean or Catherine does and that doesn't make you a bad fan.  We won't bite (I think).

Thank you, poppycorn! A lot is better now at the home front )  

The couples I like, SeanCat, Chres especially Jash, they are not perfect. I was shocked with what I heard from SeanCat the other night. But made them "human" for me!  Even my beloved Jash "agreed" with Chris Harrison that night. One or two "differences" do not make me love them less!

With that, I know you guys are so over the AFTR incident!  Haha #MovingOnAsWell

Happy that Cat got a "hosting" stint! Hope they make her a regular!  

i think what catherine meant was..it is okay not to find love but why should the lead create tension or kind of being mad at the production. juan pablo can still stick with his decision and at the same time maintains friendly/family/business relationship with the production..why acted like that...so defensive, a bit angry some time..look at brad womack's season 1 - he did not choose anyone but his relationship with the production was fine and was even asked for the second chance...