Sean Lowe & Catherine Giudici - Bachelor 17 - General Discussion

  thanks I just couldn't connect it. No way although it's nice to dream IMO

Iploeg wrote:

Pia1 wrote:Or they could already be married and we just don't know it (my secret wish). I believe Sean regarding his beliefs and stance and I really find it hard that he would abandon it after staying true for many years.

I too believe Sean has not abandoned/will not abandon his beliefs regardless of their living conditions. He's been celibate since college and I doubt his engagement to Cat has made him compromise his position on the issue. However I do tend to think they do more than just kiss and cuddle.

My feeling is that they live in the same house, they share a bed, they are intimate but stop short of going all the way. I definitely think it's a lot more than just kissing and cuddling. That's just how I feel about it.

I feel that Sean may have kept his belief to wait until marriage, and has found a good common ground with his current situation where they are living under the same roof, and can share all their time together. However, if he did change his mind about waiting for marriage, it could be because this relationship is completely different than any other he has had. Cat is wearing his ring, and is about to become his wife. For this reason, I don't think it's unimaginable that he could change his mind about waiting, although I think the truer scenario is that they're intimate without taking that one final last step. Ultimately, that's between them, and I'm sure they've probably figured out what's best for them and their relationship at this point.

iloveromance wrote:

Iploeg wrote:

Pia1 wrote:Or they could already be married and we just don't know it (my secret wish). I believe Sean regarding his beliefs and stance and I really find it hard that he would abandon it after staying true for many years.

I too believe Sean has not abandoned/will not abandon his beliefs regardless of their living conditions. He's been celibate since college and I doubt his engagement to Cat has made him compromise his position on the issue. However I do tend to think they do more than just kiss and cuddle.

My feeling is that they live in the same house, they share a bed, they are intimate but stop short of going all the way. I definitely think it's a lot more than just kissing and cuddling. That's just how I feel about it.

I feel that Sean may have kept his belief to wait until marriage, and has found a good common ground with his current situation where they are living under the same roof, and can share all their time together. However, if he did change his mind about waiting for marriage, it could be because this relationship is completely different than any other he has had. Cat is wearing his ring, and is about to become his wife. For this reason, I don't think it's unimaginable that he could change his mind about waiting, although I think the truer scenario is that they're intimate without taking that one final last step. Ultimately, that's between them, and I'm sure they've probably figured out what's best for them and their relationship at this point.

You just said everything I was going to say but a million times better.

I do believe that Sean still keeps his belief and stay celibate until marriage.  I do believe that they have two separate bedrooms and probably sleep in one room occasionally together or most of the time.  I do believe that they dont have sex and probably talked to what degree of intimacy they can share.  Honestly, Catherine is the perfect girl for Sean who I believed truly honors his belief because Catherine is in some way or another share the same belief as him. She was brought up in conservative 100% Filipino culture. In Filipino culture in general, we are encouraged and actually expected not to have sex before marriage.  This belief of SEAN is not foreign at all to CAtherine that is why Sean always says their moral values are align. We know Catherine wont openly speak about it and even her religious belief she is not that really open. I observe that she walks her faith and belief. She have shown how modest she is with her dress code and the degree of PDA she can show. I can attest to everyone that 90% of Filipino women is not comfortable wearing bathing suit in the beach or in any public places. I say 90 % coz that's how we are as influenced by our culture.  We respect our body and if possible we try to save it for marriage. She maybe born and raised here but she is surrounded and influenced by her mom's mostly Filipino family.  I could scan my facebook friends accounts all day and all I could see are almost all of my Filipino friends who had pictures in the beach are covered with towels/cover ups in their pictures posted. 

scarre_me wrote:I do believe that Sean still keeps his belief and stay celibate until marriage.  I do believe that they have two separate bedrooms and probably sleep in one room occasionally together or most of the time.  I do believe that they dont have sex and probably talked to what degree of intimacy they can share.  Honestly, Catherine is the perfect girl for Sean who I believed truly honors his belief because Catherine is in some way or another share the same belief as him. She was brought up in conservative 100% Filipino culture. In Filipino culture in general, we are encouraged and actually expected not to have sex before marriage.  This belief of SEAN is not foreign at all to CAtherine that is why Sean always says their moral values are align. We know Catherine wont openly speak about it and even her religious belief she is not that really open. I observe that she walks her faith and belief. She have shown how modest she is with her dress code and the degree of PDA she can show. I can attest to everyone that 90% of Filipino women is not comfortable wearing bathing suit in the beach or in any public places. I say 90 % coz that's how we are as influenced by our culture.  We respect our body and if possible we try to save it for marriage. She maybe born and raised here but she is surrounded and influenced by her mom's mostly Filipino family.  I could scan my facebook friends accounts all day and all I could see are almost all of my Filipino friends who had pictures in the beach are covered with towels/cover ups in their pictures posted. 

  

umngirl wrote:

iloveromance wrote:

Iploeg wrote:

Pia1 wrote:Or they could already be married and we just don't know it (my secret wish). I believe Sean regarding his beliefs and stance and I really find it hard that he would abandon it after staying true for many years.

I too believe Sean has not abandoned/will not abandon his beliefs regardless of their living conditions. He's been celibate since college and I doubt his engagement to Cat has made him compromise his position on the issue. However I do tend to think they do more than just kiss and cuddle.

My feeling is that they live in the same house, they share a bed, they are intimate but stop short of going all the way. I definitely think it's a lot more than just kissing and cuddling. That's just how I feel about it.

I feel that Sean may have kept his belief to wait until marriage, and has found a good common ground with his current situation where they are living under the same roof, and can share all their time together. However, if he did change his mind about waiting for marriage, it could be because this relationship is completely different than any other he has had. Cat is wearing his ring, and is about to become his wife. For this reason, I don't think it's unimaginable that he could change his mind about waiting, although I think the truer scenario is that they're intimate without taking that one final last step. Ultimately, that's between them, and I'm sure they've probably figured out what's best for them and their relationship at this point.

You just said everything I was going to say but a million times better.

All of you have interesting input and ideas on the subject of Cat and Seans lovelife and me as well.The cultural information is so informative, thank you.
I wonder however if Cat and Sean do sometimes look at this forum and say....Those ladies are SO NOISY  

^Oh for sure. Talking about this makes me uncomfortable. Heck, I don't even like it when my roommates and I talk about this kind of stuff. Just TMI for me. Whatever anyone wants to do behind closed doors ain't none of my business.

lipsis wrote:

umngirl wrote:

iloveromance wrote:

lipsis wrote:I know what you're saying about living together in Texas but I think Sean justifies the living together in California and on trips by using terms like "crashing" "staying" and "camping out".  I just wonder if he could do that if they settle together into his/their place in Dallas.

You have really good insight lipsis. I think you might be right about this. He does use those words about them living together in L.A. He would have a hard time saying that if they were in Dallas, that's for sure. In L.A. he gets to have Cat all to himself, and to live with her. It's a good deal for Sean lol.

I'm not convinced they sleep in separate bedrooms. They're already living in the same house, and didn't deny that there are other forms of intimacy they share, so I don't see why they would sleep in separate beds, but of course this is jmo, and my romantic fan fic writer frame of mind lol.

I'm definitely not convinced of that either. And I've thought that for quite some time.

Same here. I believe they share a bed. First off, as best as we know, the place wasn't furnished when they moved in. They would have had to buy, rent or borrow two bedrooms of furniture. Secondly(and this makes me squeamish to talk about) after all this time, I believe they have set some boundaries or limits as to how much loving is too much, especially in bed. Like maybe the bed is to cuddle and sleep with only kisses goodnight and good morning? Not sure but I really do think they aren't in separate rooms. Glad I'm not alone in that thought.

My opinion. IF they share a bed, I don't believe they could possibly not have sex. I am a normal woman and if I shared a bed with Sean, believe me, I could not only cuddle and sleep. And it would be very hard to keep boundaries and not go all the way!! I would rather sleep in a separate room than torture myself that way.

I'm not sure but I think Sean's faith is so strong that he would not "give it all up" at this late stage. He's waited this long to find the woman he's wanted to share his life with and has repeatedly said he would wait for marriage so I THINK they have not had sex. I really don't know but this is my feeling for now. I may think otherwise later as you just never know.

So I think if they ARE having sex, they may have already gotten married. Oh, boy, I hope they are not reading this and blushing that we are all talking about them in this manner. Oh, to be a fly on the wall of the Lowes' household!! hee hee

smartcat wrote:

umngirl wrote:

iloveromance wrote:

Iploeg wrote:

Pia1 wrote:Or they could already be married and we just don't know it (my secret wish). I believe Sean regarding his beliefs and stance and I really find it hard that he would abandon it after staying true for many years.

I too believe Sean has not abandoned/will not abandon his beliefs regardless of their living conditions. He's been celibate since college and I doubt his engagement to Cat has made him compromise his position on the issue. However I do tend to think they do more than just kiss and cuddle.

My feeling is that they live in the same house, they share a bed, they are intimate but stop short of going all the way. I definitely think it's a lot more than just kissing and cuddling. That's just how I feel about it.

I feel that Sean may have kept his belief to wait until marriage, and has found a good common ground with his current situation where they are living under the same roof, and can share all their time together. However, if he did change his mind about waiting for marriage, it could be because this relationship is completely different than any other he has had. Cat is wearing his ring, and is about to become his wife. For this reason, I don't think it's unimaginable that he could change his mind about waiting, although I think the truer scenario is that they're intimate without taking that one final last step. Ultimately, that's between them, and I'm sure they've probably figured out what's best for them and their relationship at this point.

You just said everything I was going to say but a million times better.

All of you have interesting input and ideas on the subject of Cat and Seans lovelife and me as well.The cultural information is so informative, thank you.
I wonder however if Cat and Sean do sometimes look at this forum and say....Those ladies are SO NOISY   

Oh for sure. That's why I've said all that I'm going to say (and more than I intended) on the matter.

Maybe I should post another video?  

Hahahaha keep talking ladies . Promise wifey and hubby won't get mad    


I would think  each of them might be each others bedroom . Not surely saying they might be each others bedroom to do suspicious things like have sex. Maybe just lying together , cuddling, kissing and snuggling , touching or talking together . But I dare you if you see your partner lying in bed and joining him/her just to snuggle and cuddle with her/him especially if hubby is topless lying in bed . Damn! Good for them can resist it and it goes to hubby too    . I remember during the DWTS . There was a paparazzi vid of them and wifey went to hubby and touched his booty. That was funny wifey is so hilarious  I think I agreed they honor each other and that's why they could stay celibate for this long:)

I think Sean's used to people talking about his love life by now lol!!

I'm sure whatever they have between them, it is perfect for them and the life they have built together. They both seem extremely happy, so whatever they are doing, it seems to be working for them lol!

I was just imagining this board when they actually do get married and we all speculate about the wedding night lol!! Now that's going to get interesting lol!!

lovebites8727 wrote:Hahahaha keep talking ladies . Promise wifey and hubby won't get mad    


I would think  each of them might be each others bedroom . Not surely saying they might be each others bedroom to do suspicious things like have sex. Maybe just lying together , cuddling, kissing and snuggling , touching or talking together . But I dare you if you see your partner lying in bed and joining him/her just to snuggle and cuddle with her/him especially if hubby is topless lying in bed . Damn! Good for them can resist it and it goes to hubby too    . I remember during the DWTS . There was a paparazzi vid of them and wifey went to hubby and touched his booty. That was funny wifey is so hilarious  I think I agreed they honor each other and that's why they could stay celibate for this long:)

I remember the video and Sean turned and hugged Catherine. I also remember Sean saying in one interview that it is the hardest thing to do to hold on but they try to keep each other accountable. I am sure the keep the boundaries and make sure that everyone is comfortable about not crossing over. Sean and Catherine are touchy feeling people and that can product it's on challenges but I am confident that they are holding on. They are glowing but not that glow.

All I have to say is they should just get married and live is freedom. They love each other and they are doing well right now and we have no doubt that they will have a great marriage. I am keeping my fingers cross for sometime this month or next month for the wedding.