Sean Lowe & Catherine Giudici - Bachelor 17 - General Discussion

lipsis wrote:

blessed66 wrote:I just do not see them moving back to Dallas without being married but with these two you will never know

I tend to agree. I've always felt they would hang out here until they are married and then settle down in Dallas. Although, they may have had an earlier wedding date in mind when they decided to stay through the summer. They've surprised me before though so who knows.

See and I can see them moving back before they're married. Mainly because they are already living together and they've already stayed at his place, which will be their place until they get a new one.

I've decided to believe they are getting married no earlier than late November/early December, that way I cant be disappointed when it doesn't happen til then or after and I can be surprised if it happens earlier.

My questions is how long can they live under the same roof and sleeping in different bedrooms? That is a huge punishment for both of them.

umngirl wrote:

lipsis wrote:

blessed66 wrote:I just do not see them moving back to Dallas without being married but with these two you will never know

I tend to agree. I've always felt they would hang out here until they are married and then settle down in Dallas. Although, they may have had an earlier wedding date in mind when they decided to stay through the summer. They've surprised me before though so who knows.

See and I can see them moving back before they're married. Mainly because they are already living together and they've already stayed at his place, which will be their place until they get a new one.

I've decided to believe they are getting married no earlier than late November/early December, that way I cant be disappointed when it doesn't happen til then or after and I can be surprised if it happens earlier.

I know what you're saying about living together in Texas but I think Sean justifies the living together in California and on trips by using terms like "crashing" "staying" and "camping out". I just wonder if he could do that if they settle together into his/their place in Dallas. Like I said though, the dude has surprised me before.

And I agree on the wedding date. Our window for anything earlier than late November is rapidly closing. Juan Pablo starts filming mid September and goes through mid November. Thereby sending the wedding production team to all parts of the world. Dont know about Cassie though and whether she will skip this season and possibly be available for wedding stuff.

That said, there is always the possibility that they could break from tradition and announce the wedding date earlier than usual just to get people all hyped up. (as if) With S&C being so popular they could deem it easier just to let the public know and then they (S&C) are free to plan and film around LA openly.

lipsis wrote:I know what you're saying about living together in Texas but I think Sean justifies the living together in California and on trips by using terms like "crashing" "staying" and "camping out".  I just wonder if he could do that if they settle together into his/their place in Dallas.

You have really good insight lipsis. I think you might be right about this. He does use those words about them living together in L.A. He would have a hard time saying that if they were in Dallas, that's for sure. In L.A. he gets to have Cat all to himself, and to live with her. It's a good deal for Sean lol.

I'm not convinced they sleep in separate bedrooms. They're already living in the same house, and didn't deny that there are other forms of intimacy they share, so I don't see why they would sleep in separate beds, but of course this is jmo, and my romantic fan fic writer frame of mind lol.

iloveromance wrote:

lipsis wrote:I know what you're saying about living together in Texas but I think Sean justifies the living together in California and on trips by using terms like "crashing" "staying" and "camping out".  I just wonder if he could do that if they settle together into his/their place in Dallas.

You have really good insight lipsis. I think you might be right about this. He does use those words about them living together in L.A. He would have a hard time saying that if they were in Dallas, that's for sure. In L.A. he gets to have Cat all to himself, and to live with her. It's a good deal for Sean lol.

I'm not convinced they sleep in separate bedrooms. They're already living in the same house, and didn't deny that there are other forms of intimacy they share, so I don't see why they would sleep in separate beds, but of course this is jmo, and my romantic fan fic writer frame of mind lol.

I'm definitely not convinced of that either. And I've thought that for quite some time.

I don't know much about the Bach franchise handling a wedding so I'm curious why it's such a hush hush regarding wedding dates. I don't understand why announcing the wedding date is such a big deal. Even if the date is a long time from now which is normal in real life (my goddaughter announced her wedding date 2 years prior). This gives the family and friends time to prepare. Wouldn't it be to the franchise's advantage to announce it as soon as they can so people can plan to watch it when it airs? Even if they're spotted filming it, that's only a few people. The majority will watch on TV. I guess I don't understand the secrecy.

I'm eagerly anticipating that announcement. It must be frustrating for Seancat to have to defer to ABC when it comes to the wedding.

We should also keep in mind that they may get married first and announce it after the wedding. It is very possible for them to have a wedding as early as this month.

Or they could already be married and we just don't know it (my secret wish). I believe Sean regarding his beliefs and stance and I really find it hard that he would abandon it after staying true for many years.

I agree with you Pia1, I think they either married quietly somewhere and will have the large wedding "soon" or they pledge their life to each other in front of a clergy..ie grandfather, father, pastor from church they are attending. They seem to be on another level of happiness lately...In Catherines words..Completely giving themselves to one another... jmo...I'm always wrong...so there you go...haha

umngirl wrote:

iloveromance wrote:

lipsis wrote:I know what you're saying about living together in Texas but I think Sean justifies the living together in California and on trips by using terms like "crashing" "staying" and "camping out".  I just wonder if he could do that if they settle together into his/their place in Dallas.

You have really good insight lipsis. I think you might be right about this. He does use those words about them living together in L.A. He would have a hard time saying that if they were in Dallas, that's for sure. In L.A. he gets to have Cat all to himself, and to live with her. It's a good deal for Sean lol.

I'm not convinced they sleep in separate bedrooms. They're already living in the same house, and didn't deny that there are other forms of intimacy they share, so I don't see why they would sleep in separate beds, but of course this is jmo, and my romantic fan fic writer frame of mind lol.

I'm definitely not convinced of that either. And I've thought that for quite some time.

Same here. I believe they share a bed. First off, as best as we know, the place wasn't furnished when they moved in. They would have had to buy, rent or borrow two bedrooms of furniture. Secondly(and this makes me squeamish to talk about) after all this time, I believe they have set some boundaries or limits as to how much loving is too much, especially in bed. Like maybe the bed is to cuddle and sleep with only kisses goodnight and good morning? Not sure but I really do think they aren't in separate rooms. Glad I'm not alone in that thought.

I cannot imagine a more torturous situation sleeping in the same bed and not being intimate. LOL! More power to them because I could never do that. I will be dragging him to the Courthouse Pronto!  

To Pia or any of my Filipino friends, What is your culture say about the woman's last name once she marries? Is it customary to take the man's last name or optional like here? How would Cat's name be? Catherine Ligaya Mejia Giudici Lowe? Catherine Ligaya Giudici Lowe? Catherine answered someone on twitter that Ligaya is the second part of her first name. Mejia (Cynthia's maiden name) is her middle name.