Re: Drew Kenney - Bachelorette 9 Contestant - Discussion - Thread #4

[ImeldaMarcos]

I think he goes...on his own or by Des cutting him. Either way, I do not see the passion with Des and Drew. I think she is very comfortable with him...but no love. MOO sorry guys. He is very attractive and cut like nobody's business but not my type. Actually there is no one left of Des's men that are my type. LOL vive le difference.

[misticia]

Since it's a slow morning...
Does Drew leave after his emotional conversation with Des or does he stay?
Discuss....

We don't have facts so this is going to be a whole bunch of speculation. I saw nothing in the clip that leads me to believe he left. 
He wasn't in a raging temper just extremely confused about something. I read Des' bl as pleading with him. My opinion - he stays.  I could be wrong therefore it is an opinion only :winkie:

ETA : What's yours ?

thanks nd... I'm very torn.  

On the one hand it looks like Des' acknowledged something (she's in love with someone else???) that has her crying for shame (reminded me of Allie's conversation with Chris at LC date when she acknowledged she was in love with Roberto)... Drew's body language, per the analysis Mystica already did, suggests that he's closed down and in protective mode... and if this is the case, it's very possible he leaves.

On the other hand, considering the crazing editing, etc... I always like to consider the opposite, something like she's sharing her feelings about something (like she thought she was in love with some else??) and is trying to work it through with Drew, looking for his support and understanding.  If this is the case, then his comments about it not working out would be about the other person... and his protective mode is temporary while he works out in his head the information she just shared....

Whatever it is I'm pretty sure it's critical to the storyline.  This scene in addition to her emotional interaction with Brooks are the two scenes that have been presented thus far that are obviously going to drive the story... we'll see!!  :-)

Suest, you're pointing something that is totally likely (bolded). Emotions are movable and you can feel upset one minute before a word which puts you in the biggest happiness one minute later. So body language reading is just valid for the second emotions are felt.
And your storyline is not more critical than others. In fact, I love it and I would be happy for both Drew and Des because I think Drew has qualities that feed the Des' needs.

Thanks, misticia.
I love your last comment in bold!  YES!  
Drew actually seems much different from many of the guys on the Bach/Bachelorette shows, such a depth and dignity.  Not sure Des is ready for him, actually.  But if she is, I don't think she'll ever regret choosing him.

I agree.
She feels very comfortable with Brooks, with his sense of humor, his relaxing personnality...
Drew is more challenging for her : he is ridiculously handsome, he lived in Europe, he puts moral values on high level, etc. Plus he is awfully self-controled in front of camera (because his modeling job I guess).

[SueSt]

Since it's a slow morning...
Does Drew leave after his emotional conversation with Des or does he stay?
Discuss....

We don't have facts so this is going to be a whole bunch of speculation. I saw nothing in the clip that leads me to believe he left. 
He wasn't in a raging temper just extremely confused about something. I read Des' bl as pleading with him. My opinion - he stays.  I could be wrong therefore it is an opinion only :winkie:

ETA : What's yours ?

thanks nd... I'm very torn.  

On the one hand it looks like Des' acknowledged something (she's in love with someone else???) that has her crying for shame (reminded me of Allie's conversation with Chris at LC date when she acknowledged she was in love with Roberto)... Drew's body language, per the analysis Mystica already did, suggests that he's closed down and in protective mode... and if this is the case, it's very possible he leaves.

On the other hand, considering the crazing editing, etc... I always like to consider the opposite, something like she's sharing her feelings about something (like she thought she was in love with some else??) and is trying to work it through with Drew, looking for his support and understanding.  If this is the case, then his comments about it not working out would be about the other person... and his protective mode is temporary while he works out in his head the information she just shared....

Whatever it is I'm pretty sure it's critical to the storyline.  This scene in addition to her emotional interaction with Brooks are the two scenes that have been presented thus far that are obviously going to drive the story... we'll see!!  :-)

Suest, you're pointing something that is totally likely (bolded). Emotions are movable and you can feel upset one minute before a word which puts you in the biggest happiness one minute later. So body language reading is just valid for the second emotions are felt.
And your storyline is not more critical than others. In fact, I love it and I would be happy for both Drew and Des because I think Drew has qualities that feed the Des' needs.

Thanks, misticia.
I love your last comment in bold!  YES!  
Drew actually seems much different from many of the guys on the Bach/Bachelorette shows, such a depth and dignity.  Not sure Des is ready for him, actually.  But if she is, I don't think she'll ever regret choosing him.

I agree.
She feels very comfortable with Brooks, with his sense of humor, his relaxing personnality...
Drew is more challenging for her : he is ridiculously handsome, he lived in Europe, he puts moral values on high level, etc. Plus he is awfully self-controled in front of camera (because his modeling job I guess).

Interesting point about self-control.  I particuarly noticed it when he was arguing with James.  His control was very very impressive, actually.  But I think his self control (and I'm just projecting wildly here) may steam from his upbringing.  Child of divorce with alcholic father and special needs sister.  Not enough time for Drew when he was growing up, not enough focus on his needs as a child... so maybe he learned to hold them back.  Amazingly, he doesn't seem bitter about his past at all, rather he seems to have found a way to 'make it work' in the world.  Of course his blinding beauty doesn't hurt!  Still, to me at any rate, he retains this child-like innocence which, beyond his physical beauty, is amazingly attractive!

[nd4reality]

Since it's a slow morning...
Does Drew leave after his emotional conversation with Des or does he stay?
Discuss....

We don't have facts so this is going to be a whole bunch of speculation. I saw nothing in the clip that leads me to believe he left. 
He wasn't in a raging temper just extremely confused about something. I read Des' bl as pleading with him. My opinion - he stays.  I could be wrong therefore it is an opinion only :winkie:

ETA : What's yours ?

thanks nd... I'm very torn.  

On the one hand it looks like Des' acknowledged something (she's in love with someone else???) that has her crying for shame (reminded me of Allie's conversation with Chris at LC date when she acknowledged she was in love with Roberto)... Drew's body language, per the analysis Mystica already did, suggests that he's closed down and in protective mode... and if this is the case, it's very possible he leaves.

On the other hand, considering the crazing editing, etc... I always like to consider the opposite, something like she's sharing her feelings about something (like she thought she was in love with some else??) and is trying to work it through with Drew, looking for his support and understanding.  If this is the case, then his comments about it not working out would be about the other person... and his protective mode is temporary while he works out in his head the information she just shared....

Whatever it is I'm pretty sure it's critical to the storyline.  This scene in addition to her emotional interaction with Brooks are the two scenes that have been presented thus far that are obviously going to drive the story... we'll see!!  :-)

Suest, you're pointing something that is totally likely (bolded). Emotions are movable and you can feel upset one minute before a word which puts you in the biggest happiness one minute later. So body language reading is just valid for the second emotions are felt.
And your storyline is not more critical than others. In fact, I love it and I would be happy for both Drew and Des because I think Drew has qualities that feed the Des' needs.

Thanks, misticia.
I love your last comment in bold!  YES!  
Drew actually seems much different from many of the guys on the Bach/Bachelorette shows, such a depth and dignity.  Not sure Des is ready for him, actually.  But if she is, I don't think she'll ever regret choosing him.

I agree.
She feels very comfortable with Brooks, with his sense of humor, his relaxing personnality...
Drew is more challenging for her : he is ridiculously handsome, he lived in Europe, he puts moral values on high level, etc. Plus he is awfully self-controled in front of camera (because his modeling job I guess).

Interesting point about self-control.  I particuarly noticed it when he was arguing with James.  His control was very very impressive, actually.  But I think his self control (and I'm just projecting wildly here) may steam from his upbringing.  Child of divorce with alcholic father and special needs sister.  Not enough time for Drew when he was growing up, not enough focus on his needs as a child... so maybe he learned to hold them back.  Amazingly, he doesn't seem bitter about his past at all, rather he seems to have found a way to 'make it work' in the world.  Of course his blinding beauty doesn't hurt!  Still, to me at any rate, he retains this child-like innocence which, beyond his physical beauty, is amazingly attractive!

Drew has a silver lining from his difficult childhood. Yes his father was alcoholic but he is recovered and is doing a lot of good from what he learned during his recovery process. He has turned into someone to be proud of for his family.
What I admire most is Drews sense of right and his protectiveness of that. That is something rare.

[misticia]

Since it's a slow morning...
Does Drew leave after his emotional conversation with Des or does he stay?
Discuss....

We don't have facts so this is going to be a whole bunch of speculation. I saw nothing in the clip that leads me to believe he left. 
He wasn't in a raging temper just extremely confused about something. I read Des' bl as pleading with him. My opinion - he stays.  I could be wrong therefore it is an opinion only :winkie:

ETA : What's yours ?

thanks nd... I'm very torn.  

On the one hand it looks like Des' acknowledged something (she's in love with someone else???) that has her crying for shame (reminded me of Allie's conversation with Chris at LC date when she acknowledged she was in love with Roberto)... Drew's body language, per the analysis Mystica already did, suggests that he's closed down and in protective mode... and if this is the case, it's very possible he leaves.

On the other hand, considering the crazing editing, etc... I always like to consider the opposite, something like she's sharing her feelings about something (like she thought she was in love with some else??) and is trying to work it through with Drew, looking for his support and understanding.  If this is the case, then his comments about it not working out would be about the other person... and his protective mode is temporary while he works out in his head the information she just shared....

Whatever it is I'm pretty sure it's critical to the storyline.  This scene in addition to her emotional interaction with Brooks are the two scenes that have been presented thus far that are obviously going to drive the story... we'll see!!  :-)

Suest, you're pointing something that is totally likely (bolded). Emotions are movable and you can feel upset one minute before a word which puts you in the biggest happiness one minute later. So body language reading is just valid for the second emotions are felt.
And your storyline is not more critical than others. In fact, I love it and I would be happy for both Drew and Des because I think Drew has qualities that feed the Des' needs.

Thanks, misticia.
I love your last comment in bold!  YES!  
Drew actually seems much different from many of the guys on the Bach/Bachelorette shows, such a depth and dignity.  Not sure Des is ready for him, actually.  But if she is, I don't think she'll ever regret choosing him.

I agree.
She feels very comfortable with Brooks, with his sense of humor, his relaxing personnality...
Drew is more challenging for her : he is ridiculously handsome, he lived in Europe, he puts moral values on high level, etc. Plus he is awfully self-controled in front of camera (because his modeling job I guess).

Interesting point about self-control.  I particuarly noticed it when he was arguing with James.  His control was very very impressive, actually.  But I think his self control (and I'm just projecting wildly here) may steam from his upbringing.  Child of divorce with alcholic father and special needs sister.  Not enough time for Drew when he was growing up, not enough focus on his needs as a child... so maybe he learned to hold them back.  Amazingly, he doesn't seem bitter about his past at all, rather he seems to have found a way to 'make it work' in the world.  Of course his blinding beauty doesn't hurt!  Still, to me at any rate, he retains this child-like innocence which, beyond his physical beauty, is amazingly attractive!

This is called a resilient personnality which is a great strenght in life.
His child-like innocence, as you call it, comes from the fact he had to mature his affectivity at an early age.

[misticia]

Drew has a silver lining from his difficult childhood. Yes his father was alcoholic but he is recovered and is doing a lot of good from what he learned during his recovery process. He has turned into someone to be proud of for his family.
What I admire most is Drews sense of right and his protectiveness of that. That is something rare.

[SueSt]

Drew has a silver lining from his difficult childhood. Yes his father was alcoholic but he is recovered and is doing a lot of good from what he learned during his recovery process. He has turned into someone to be proud of for his family.
What I admire most is Drews sense of right and his protectiveness of that. That is something rare.

Agree... he is a special one!!  :-)

[momoftrips]

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he's my coach's brother & he came to our tournament!

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he's my coach's brother & he came to our tournament!

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Wow. Thanks so much for posting these, Mom. Such a beautiful smile; such a beautiful soul!

[brittany4400]

Drew looks so good! So happy!!!!

[Guest]

Hey no fair - you guys have to answer the question (just a speculation !!!)
Stays or goes ?

Goes.

[Guest]

Goes.

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