Re: Sarah Moore - Ready For Love - Fan Thread - Discussion

[Litta123]

These are more of a personal type question for you.

You're an elementary teacher, right? What grade level? How did your students react to seeing you on tv? Did any of them comment on seeing you kiss Tim? Was it awkward for you?

5th grade they love it and make fun of me regularly!

This is my first year of retirement after teaching high school math. I would have rather died a thousand slow deaths (sound familiar?) than go on national tv and then have to face my students. Obviously, it would have had to have been my younger days and, of course, my single days.

Kudos for you in having the guts to do it...and I'm glad that you're getting your own love story out it.

[Spencer81]

Miss Moore, so glad you joined us! I also think you are a beautiful girl and your eyes are gorgeous! I am the one who commented on your hot kiss! LOL! I really wish they wouldn't have to edit the show so much that we miss a lot of what is really happening! I'll be glad when it is over! As I am sure the ppl on the show will be too!

[missmoore]

ETA: I've looked through all your posts and I don't see it. Perhaps, it didn't go through. I've had that happen and it gets particularly aggravating when you've typed up a long answer. Thanks for trying though.

dangit. I wrote a lot too! i'll try to remember.

ok so Siham and Jenna. I didn't say anything on stage because I was afraid of creating tension in the house (I hate confrontation). We always had pow wows before stage about how it is us against the match makers and how we would never let them put us against each other. So, for Siham to blow up at Jenna was a total surprise. I believe she felt threatened, so I wasn't going to jump in and I knew Jenna could hold her own. She's a sassy, tough girl. But after watching the episode and seeing how they edited it, I wish I had backed Jenna up. Sure, things had been happening off camera that should've been a red flag (rumous of so and so talking crap about so and so to someone in another house), but I was under the impression that on stage, we were a united house.

Jenna and I had many late night conversations about love and we agreed that it would be impossible to fall in REAL love on a show. I mean, sure, you can fall in love with the idea of someone, but not true love. True love to us is too big of a thing to happen under false circumstances like a reality show -- i mean, do you really know someone after 4 weeks and 3 dates, none of those dates being real-life-grab-a-drink-and-apps kinda dates, all while basically competing for his attention? We didn't think so. So, it was annoying hearing, so soon, about girls falling in love. I'll never talk trash about any of these girls because we are bonded together forever, but it was obvious from day 1 who was there for the right reasons and who were not. And it was clear early on who would be a good, real life, fit for Tim, and who wouldn't be. So, it got increasingly frustrating when a few were there longer than we thought they should have been. I'm not saying you can't find love on a reality show, because clearly you can, but I'd bet money that in each of those relationships, they didn't TRULY fall in love until after the cameras were put away ;)

[missmoore]

This is my first year of retirement after teaching high school math. I would have rather died a thousand slow deaths (sound familiar?) than go on national tv and then have to face my students. Obviously, it would have had to have been my younger days and, of course, my single days.

Kudos for you in having the guts to do it...and I'm glad that you're getting your own love story out it.

haha great quote -- must have been a brilliant mind who said that ;)

High school wow! You have balls bigger than mine! Congrats on retirement! I'm working on my Master's degree now! When I decided to do the show, I figured my students were too young to watch it. Boy was I wrong! It was hard seeing them everyday for 9 months and not being able to talk about Eddie in to them! Especially on Valentines Day and he sent flowers to my school!

[2observe]

Gosh Sarah...Thank you so much for taking the time to answer our questions! I'm so happy to know that you have found love and remain friends with the girls :Smiley:

Out of curiosity, you just mentioned that the show helped in bringing you and your boyfriend together? How did that happen?

well, he had I have always been close friends. He was one of the few people I told about the show. While I was filming, he'd email me to check up on me and make sure I wasn't falling in love. I told all the girls about my "super hot friend who was the perfect mix of Ryan Gosling and Ryan Reynolds" hahaha. When I got back, being gone had kicked his tail into high gear and he said the risk of losing me forever made him realize that he wanted to be with me. As for my end, I went on RFL because I had gone through a very hard break up and needed something to get me out of Charlotte and out of "my life" for a bit. The show totally gave me the strength and the confidance to find who I am and who I want in my life. As I was in Cali filming the final show, he was in Chicago for work and asked me to meet him, so I did and the rest was history!

Nowthat's a lovestory.

[missmoore]

Miss Moore, so glad you joined us! I also think you are a beautiful girl and your eyes are gorgeous! I am the one who commented on your hot kiss! LOL! I really wish they wouldn't have to edit the show so much that we miss a lot of what is really happening! I'll be glad when it is over! As I am sure the ppl on the show will be too!

thank you! I wish they would put more videos online! So much is left out! Like my time with Tim after I won Ready for Lopez!

[Litta123]

ETA: I've looked through all your posts and I don't see it. Perhaps, it didn't go through. I've had that happen and it gets particularly aggravating when you've typed up a long answer. Thanks for trying though.

dangit. I wrote a lot too! i'll try to remember.

ok so Siham and Jenna. I didn't say anything on stage because I was afraid of creating tension in the house (I hate confrontation). We always had pow wows before stage about how it is us against the match makers and how we would never let them put us against each other. So, for Siham to blow up at Jenna was a total surprise. I believe she felt threatened, so I wasn't going to jump in and I knew Jenna could hold her own. She's a sassy, tough girl. But after watching the episode and seeing how they edited it, I wish I had backed Jenna up. Sure, things had been happening off camera that should've been a red flag (rumous of so and so talking crap about so and so to someone in another house), but I was under the impression that on stage, we were a united house.

Jenna and I had many late night conversations about love and we agreed that it would be impossible to fall in REAL love on a show. I mean, sure, you can fall in love with the idea of someone, but not true love. True love to us is too big of a thing to happen under false circumstances like a reality show -- i mean, do you really know someone after 4 weeks and 3 dates, none of those dates being real-life-grab-a-drink-and-apps kinda dates, all while basically competing for his attention? We didn't think so. So, it was annoying hearing, so soon, about girls falling in love. I'll never talk trash about any of these girls because we are bonded together forever, but it was obvious from day 1 who was there for the right reasons and who were not. And it was clear early on who would be a good, real life, fit for Tim, and who wouldn't be. So, it got increasingly frustrating when a few were there longer than we thought they should have been. I'm not saying you can't find love on a reality show, because clearly you can, but I'd bet money that in each of those relationships, they didn't TRULY fall in love until after the cameras were put away ;)

Thanks for that answer, Sarah, because what you describe shows Jenna's maturity...at least to me. I remember Tracy saying at the beginning that Jenna was wise beyond her years. I think Jenna's got a good head on her shoulders (and adorable too!)...so even if Tim doesn't choose Jenna (which would be shocking to me), she's going to be just fine...much like you! One of my favorite quality in a friend is loyalty. I'm glad Jenna has that in you...glad you came here to help set the record straight. Thanks sooo much!

ETA: Seriously?! You won Ready for Lopez?! I thought that was a joke when you posted the scorecard. How/why did you girls let Jenna get away with that if you really won?

[Guest]

What is the penalty if you give away the ending? Can you just tell me in a PM?

Do the producers talk to you all about how we will look for clues in every little thing you tweet out? Do they ask you to send things that confuse viewers to the ending... like is Hailey really moving to Austin and is Sara really recording the song she wrote for Tim? Sara said, "we" are almost done with the song, which some took to mean her and Tim.

Thanks for answering questions today. I hope you'll come back again.

[MatchMaker]

Sarah, what was the process like for getting on the show? Did Tracy interview you more than once, like over the phone, then in person? Did other people interview you? How long did it take? How did you find out you were chosen?

[Litta123]

haha great quote -- must have been a brilliant mind who said that ;)

High school wow! You have balls bigger than mine! Congrats on retirement! I'm working on my Master's degree now! When I decided to do the show, I figured my students were too young to watch it. Boy was I wrong! It was hard seeing them everyday for 9 months and not being able to talk about Eddie in to them! Especially on Valentines Day and he sent flowers to my school!

I LIKE this guy! And "Eddie" -- love that name! Is he in NC nearby you? What's he do? I'm nosy...ignore me if I'm pushing you with questions you don't want to answer.

[missmoore]

Thanks for that answer, Sarah, because what you describe shows Jenna's maturity...at least to me. I remember Tracy saying at the beginning that Jenna was wise beyond her years. I think Jenna's got a good head on her shoulders (and adorable too!)...so even if Tim doesn't choose Jenna (which would be shocking to me), she's going to be just fine...much like you! One of my favorite quality in a friend is loyalty. I'm glad Jenna has that in you...glad you came here to help set the record straight. Thanks sooo much!

ETA: Seriously?! You won Ready for Lopez?! I thought that was a joke when you posted the scorecard. How/why did you girls let Jenna get away with that if you really won?

Even though Jenna is young, she is one of my favorite people to go to when I need advice. I always forget that she is so much younger than me because she is so mature and such an old soul. I hope you will get to see more of that as the show comes to a close. i've told her several times that she handles difficult situations better than I do!

Yes, I did win Ready For Lopez! I found the score card in the bathroom as I was changing for the 1on1! I had my alone time right after the game, and then Jenna had time, then Christina interrupted it, then I THINK Hailey interrupted Christina's time. I could be wrong! So, there is a lot you never got to see! It's cool to have 3 bachelors, but a bummer at the same time!

[missmoore]

What is the penalty if you give away the ending? Can you just tell me in a PM?

Do the producers talk to you all about how we will look for clues in every little thing you tweet out? Do they ask you to send things that confuse viewers to the ending... like is Hailey really moving to Austin and is Sara really recording the song she wrote for Tim? Sara said, "we" are almost done with the song, which some took to mean her and Tim.

Thanks for answering questions today. I hope you'll come back again.

Penalty: a lot of money haha.

No, the producers haven't really said anything to us, especially since the show is only online now. Hailey and Sara's tweets are definitely not meant to confuse you...it's the truth! The ambiguity in tweets isn't meant to confuse you as much as it is we don't want to ruin the ending for you guys because it is still fun to watch!

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