Re: Sarah Moore - Ready For Love - Fan Thread - Discussion

[missmoore]

Thanks for answering my questions Sarah :Smiley:

Someone posted on a different thread about how the editing is using peoples words and adding them into certain scenes to fool the viewer. I wondered if that was the case with Sara and Hailey's conversation. It's so nice to have you here to answer our questions and clear things up!

I'm sorry if my comments about Sara came across the wrong way....by something being "off" I just meant that when I watch her time with Tim it feels different to me than when I see Tim's time with Jenna. As I said in my post from last night, when I see Tim with Jenna there's just something about them that melts my heart, something in the way that they look at one another. Don't get me wrong, Tim has a remarkable way of showing that he truly cares for you all, it's like he's making a conscious effort to protect all of your hearts while simultaneously trying to find his true match. I do see a deep level of caring for Sara, and it does come across that she is a very kind person. But overall, I just keep going back to those eyes....I know it probably sounds ridiculous and it's so hard to explain...but there's just something in his eyes that stands out (to me) when he is with Jenna. Sorry for the long post (again). However, I hope I was better able to convey what I meant by comment of "something being off". No disrespect intended towards who she is as a person bc no matter who is picked in the end I do believe that most people on this forum can agree that given all Sara has been through we absolutely, without a doubt, hope she finds the love she deserves and has been looking for.

i totally get what you are saying ;) only 2 more weeks till we find out if yall are right or not!!

[Iluvbachette]

We all just have to remember. It doesn't matter who Tim picks. What matters is that Tim is very happy and in love. That seals it for me.

[tigertiz]

Oh I have pickier standards than what is best for Tim. I like the Lead to choose someone that I approve of, you know, because it's all about meeeee. Fortunately Tim has put himself in a position to have really good choices. I wouldn't mind being surprised one bit.
What I really want to know about is when exactly did Eva take up with Ernesto?

[Beb]

We all just have to remember. It doesn't matter who Tim picks. What matters is that Tim is very happy and in love. That seals it for me.

And as Sarah said..who best 'fits' and is comfortable/happy in Tim's lifestlye.

I'll bet that a lot of the women may have decided it wasn't for them when they took a step back and understood what it really meant.
None of us are perfect, and as sweet and sexy as Mr. Lopez is....he doesn't get a pass there either.
A rock and roll lifestyle can be intense - maybe too intense for a lot of people.

[Wait-A-Minute]

Here's a question for you guys: why all the interest with Tim and Tim's girls? What makes him more interesting than Ben and Ernesto? Why are you not as invested in their stories? Just curious!

for me it is because tim is easily the most down to earth of the 3 guys and it seems the matchmakers picked women who were also down to earth. you are a great example of that. tim seems to come from a normal middle class family and has basically earned all that he has with his music talent. there doesn't seem to be much pretense when it comes to him. he just seems like a nice normal guy and so do the women in is house. someone else said this about ben and it is a great description - ben comes off as a bit of an arrogant frat boy. i didn't think so at first, but more and more i see that about him. makes it hard to invest in his story. as for ernesto, my BS radar went off right away when he passed off the line about being 33 and never having said i love you to any woman. as for the women in ernesto's house, i do like shandi. at first i thought she was just another beauty pageant queen, but i think she's got much more depth than that.

[cantstopwatchin]

Here's a question for you guys: why all the interest with Tim and Tim's girls? What makes him more interesting than Ben and Ernesto? Why are you not as invested in their stories? Just curious!

Now that's a great question! For me, I knew nothing about Tim other than he sang some songs I like but I know/knew nothing about his personal life. From the get-go, he's seemed the most genuine in actually meeting someone real and down to earth so that got me interested. Add to that, his group of ladies are actually real and down to earth and the type you'd want to hang out with as friends. So, for me, I've been rooting for you all and for Tim to find that someone special. The fact that we know he's still very happy with his chosen F1 all these months later is icing on the cake. No matter who he chose, he's happy and it sounds 'real' and I think that's cool. :Smiley:

As for Ben and Ernesto....well, Ernesto has turned me off since the first episode. He seems totally disingenuous and I can't buy into a guy who says that he doesn't kiss girls often but when he does... I mean, seriously, who says that?! And a guy his age who has never said I love you to a girl has issues (to me); I don't know if he's narcissistic or what but it just seems abnormal to me, so he's turned me off from the get-go. Ben, I don't know - I go back and forth on whether I'm interested in his 'journey' or not.

And why are we invested in Tim's gals versus the others - because you ladies are down-to-earth and drama-free. Believe it or not (this is for you producers!), viewers don't care for girl drama and it's been refreshing to see gals who comport themselves with dignity and don't feel the need to put others down to make themselves look better. I may see Tim with one girl more than another but it's very easy to see the great qualities all of you bring to the table. I def. can't say that about all the other girls in the other houses...

[Wait-A-Minute]

Here's a question for you guys: why all the interest with Tim and Tim's girls? What makes him more interesting than Ben and Ernesto? Why are you not as invested in their stories? Just curious!

Now that's a great question! For me, I knew nothing about Tim other than he sang some songs I like but I know/knew nothing about his personal life. From the get-go, he's seemed the most genuine in actually meeting someone real and down to earth so that got me interested. Add to that, his group of ladies are actually real and down to earth and the type you'd want to hang out with as friends. So, for me, I've been rooting for you all and for Tim to find that someone special. The fact that we know he's still very happy with his chosen F1 all these months later is icing on the cake. No matter who he chose, he's happy and it sounds 'real' and I think that's cool. :Smiley:

As for Ben and Ernesto....well, Ernesto has turned me off since the first episode. He seems totally disingenuous and I can't buy into a guy who says that he doesn't kiss girls often but when he does... I mean, seriously, who says that?! And a guy his age who has never said I love you to a girl has issues (to me); I don't know if he's narcissistic or what but it just seems abnormal to me, so he's turned me off from the get-go. Ben, I don't know - I go back and forth on whether I'm interested in his 'journey' or not.

And why are we invested in Tim's gals versus the others - because you ladies are down-to-earth and drama-free. Believe it or not (this is for you producers!), viewers don't care for girl drama and it's been refreshing to see gals who comport themselves with dignity and don't feel the need to put others down to make themselves look better. I may see Tim with one girl more than another but it's very easy to see the great qualities all of you bring to the table. I def. can't say that about all the other girls in the other houses...

that was said so perfectly. really couldn't agree more!

[MVMom39forever]

in reference to Sara's conversation with Hailey, I believe that was some magical work by editing. Sara, Hailey, Jenna and I have a group text and when that episode aired, Sara explained that she was talking about how she wants something more deep with Tim, not something on the surface. I don't remember the verbiage used, but Sara explained that they weren't talking negatively about Jenna, but that's how the editing worked. So...take that for what it's worth I don't really remember what else is said.

I wish I had gotten to know Sara better while on the show. Sara and Hailey were in the same room as were Jenna and I. So it just so happened that we would retreat to our bedrooms and spend more time with our roommates. I don't have a single bad thing to say about Sara, as I wouldn't expect anyone to ever...she is the kindest, most tenderhearted person on the planet who wouldn't hurt a fly. She and I are VERY similar in a lot of ways, but we went into the process from two very different perspectives. She was completely open and ready for love and ready to fall for Tim. I was guarded. I was ready to meet Tim, get through the process, and then start real life and fall in love in a real way. After years of watching the Bach/ette, I knew what I was getting myself into with producer tricks and editing...Sara was blissfully happy through the whole thing and just along for the ride, which is good because she was never looking for an alternate motive. I'm not sure what you mean by "something was off" -- she has been so true to herself throughout what Ive seen on tv. She one of the most stunningly beautiful women, inside and out, that has ever graced this planet!

Wow! What an endorsement! You are so darn sweet and obviously see the best in everyone, which is just a great way to live life. Sara, Jenna, Hailey, Beth and all the other women you grew close to on RFL are lucky to have you in their lives.

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective on Sara. I have been one of those on forum who has been a bit suspicious of Sara as she's coming across almost too "perfect." However, based on your feedback, she just might be .

Now I am even more excited for the finale. I still think RFL producers were hoping there was going to be a RFL2 and they gave Sara such a fantastic edit to prime her for being the next lead. But, if Tim did pick Sara, I am so happy to read (thanks to you!) that she was there "for the right reasons" and not just to further her singing career. I am sure that they will have a wonderful life together.

That said ... my money is still on Jenna & Tim! She's just as cute as a button and so spunky. Producers would not have hidden that personality in her edit and they would have shown us their date in Hawaii.

[MVMom39forever]

Here's a question for you guys: why all the interest with Tim and Tim's girls? What makes him more interesting than Ben and Ernesto? Why are you not as invested in their stories? Just curious!

Now that's a great question! For me, I knew nothing about Tim other than he sang some songs I like but I know/knew nothing about his personal life. From the get-go, he's seemed the most genuine in actually meeting someone real and down to earth so that got me interested. Add to that, his group of ladies are actually real and down to earth and the type you'd want to hang out with as friends. So, for me, I've been rooting for you all and for Tim to find that someone special. The fact that we know he's still very happy with his chosen F1 all these months later is icing on the cake. No matter who he chose, he's happy and it sounds 'real' and I think that's cool. :Smiley:

As for Ben and Ernesto....well, Ernesto has turned me off since the first episode. He seems totally disingenuous and I can't buy into a guy who says that he doesn't kiss girls often but when he does... I mean, seriously, who says that?! And a guy his age who has never said I love you to a girl has issues (to me); I don't know if he's narcissistic or what but it just seems abnormal to me, so he's turned me off from the get-go. Ben, I don't know - I go back and forth on whether I'm interested in his 'journey' or not.

And why are we invested in Tim's gals versus the others - because you ladies are down-to-earth and drama-free. Believe it or not (this is for you producers!), viewers don't care for girl drama and it's been refreshing to see gals who comport themselves with dignity and don't feel the need to put others down to make themselves look better. I may see Tim with one girl more than another but it's very easy to see the great qualities all of you bring to the table. I def. can't say that about all the other girls in the other houses...

that was said so perfectly. really couldn't agree more!

Exactly! I agree with everything you said and especially about the NO DRAMA stuff. It actually hurts my stomach to see all the female cattiness and backstabbing. I HATED Ben's season of Bachelor and was truly ticked off that they chose to show us Tierra so much on Bachelor instead of the quirky, adorable Catherine (and her BFF Lesley).

[Guest]

Thanks for answering my questions Sarah :Smiley:

Someone posted on a different thread about how the editing is using peoples words and adding them into certain scenes to fool the viewer. I wondered if that was the case with Sara and Hailey's conversation. It's so nice to have you here to answer our questions and clear things up!

I'm sorry if my comments about Sara came across the wrong way....by something being "off" I just meant that when I watch her time with Tim it feels different to me than when I see Tim's time with Jenna. As I said in my post from last night, when I see Tim with Jenna there's just something about them that melts my heart, something in the way that they look at one another. Don't get me wrong, Tim has a remarkable way of showing that he truly cares for you all, it's like he's making a conscious effort to protect all of your hearts while simultaneously trying to find his true match. I do see a deep level of caring for Sara, and it does come across that she is a very kind person. But overall, I just keep going back to those eyes....I know it probably sounds ridiculous and it's so hard to explain...but there's just something in his eyes that stands out (to me) when he is with Jenna. Sorry for the long post (again). However, I hope I was better able to convey what I meant by comment of "something being off". No disrespect intended towards who she is as a person bc no matter who is picked in the end I do believe that most people on this forum can agree that given all Sara has been through we absolutely, without a doubt, hope she finds the love she deserves and has been looking for.

i totally get what you are saying ;) only 2 more weeks till we find out if yall are right or not!!

Sarah - thank you for everything! I am on pins and needles waiting for the finale!

Can you share your favorite off-camera memory from the show? Something we didn't get to see? I can only imagine the crazy/fun things you girls got into together. I am sure it was a hoot!

[Guest]

Good question beetims!

Sarah, did you girls know that there would be a live audience? Tim, or was it Ben, said they weren't expecting it. I'm really surprised no one spoiled anything!

[happygolucky]

That's the biggest surprise, of all the people in the audience after 8/9/10 months nobody uttered a single thing online. I recall people coming here or on official FB page, posting "final choice", but they never left any explanation to make me trust them that they know anything for sure.

Sarah, thanks for the time you dedicated to this forum, to us and if you have any more question yourself, please voice them. Right now I'm clueless on what to ask you, since there are things you cannot reveal - maybe after Tuesday ... that's gonna be fun. Hope the next eliminated girl joins us too. (and good night)

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