Re: Shandi Finnessey - Ready For Love - Fan Thread - Discussion

[iamreal2u]

In a video posted earlier with the Ernesto, Tim, and Ben, the interviewer asked what did they took away from the show. Ernesto said happiness.

Can you post the link to this video. Thanks so much!

Np. It is on here somewhere. Will try to find it.

[gasuz]

I found it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8i9xqBhui60

(was in Ben's thread I think)

[iamreal2u]

I found it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8i9xqBhui60

(was in Ben's thread I think)

Sweet..thanks.

[Love_Me]

I found it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8i9xqBhui60

(was in Ben's thread I think)

Sweet..thanks.

Thank you both!

[Love_Me]

[gasuz]

thanks LoveMe for posting the picture :Smiley:

I am looking forward to Tuesday!

[tealeafs]

She's so well-spoken and sweet! So many gems in this: https://youtu.be/onoBgONdqq4

[gasuz]

She's so well-spoken and sweet! So many gems in this: https://youtu.be/onoBgONdqq4

I watched last night when it aired. She is very sweet! She had nice things to say about many of the girls.

[iamreal2u]

My love for Shandi went from 1 to 9 during the show. Saving the extra point for screw ups. She is the poster child for not judging a book by it's cover. She is so funny and personable.

[Litta123]

She's so well-spoken and sweet! So many gems in this: https://youtu.be/onoBgONdqq4

Thanks, tealeafs, for posting this...it's a great listen. iamreal2u, loved your comment. I really liked Shandi after listening to her. She seems much more real to me now. I'm so glad Shandi did the interview and changed my perspective.

[jojo47]

She's so well-spoken and sweet! So many gems in this: https://youtu.be/onoBgONdqq4

Would you be able to summarize the highlights for us? Thank you!!!

[happygolucky]

I can't see the whole video, because it keeps "crashing down" and so I missed the whole last part, when Shandi supposedly talks about her part of the episode and experience. (now it works better - so I'll write the summary)
I could see the part when she was saying that we (women) should not compare to each other and put ourselves down because someone else is better looking, younger, smarter, ..., that we should accept ourselves the way we are, love ourselves and then we can do whatever we want with what we have and own. (not exact words, paraphrasing)

Sarah, answering our questions, mentioned that all girls moved to the Ben's girls' house (Rihanna's), because they are down the numbers.
Shandi gave the insight of each girl, she talked nicely about
Renea (realness, genuineness, energy and will to connect with people) and
Tarryn (spunky, laughing, vivacious, like sorority girl),
Hailey (aka Cameron Diaz, down to earth girl and wonderful artist) and
Jenna (good cook, wise, good advice giver, ... like I felt, she has really good and healthy approach to [love] life),
Siham (commented on the gifts Siham bought for Tim's family in Hawaii, their bed were next to each other),
she talked about the energetic twins, Allie and Mandy (that they are transparent, no hidden agenda, fun little bubbles, difficult to "contain")
and about her "drama" with Alba (that she doesn't know why it happened, because at the beginning they started as being friendly and close, because of shared experience).

Talking about the editing:
She never called Mandy a greased pig - it was taken out of context from her confession of experiencing pig chase in Missouri local fare.
She was swimming in the lake with Ernesto, even though the editing showed like she didn't want to get in the water (she didn't jump).

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