Re: Hailey Clark - Ready For Love - Fan Thread - Discussion

by MVMom39forever Wed May 15, 2013 8:39 pm

happygolucky wrote:CHO, on NBC.com - web only
http://www.nbc.com/ready-for-love/video/haileys-gift-for-tim/n35668/

Wow ... this is interesting! The Bachelor/Bachelorette frequently puts deleted scenes of the F1 on their website. If you look at Emily's season, there were so many deleted scenes of Jef. For Sean's season, Catherine was originally part of the night 1 introductions but mysteriously got cut out and they added her intro video to deleted scenes on website.

That's a good sign IMO for folks wanting Hailey to be F1.

High clap

by dd77 Wed May 15, 2013 8:59 pm

Week 28 on IG someone quick go look both Hailey and Tim both of picks of Lake Austin!!! Can someone post it I dont know how but wow!!! She is probably F1!!! THIS IS HUGE EVIDENCE. its has to be Hailey.

by 2observe Wed May 15, 2013 9:00 pm

boogie wrote:Tim made a comment this last ep about hailing "getting" him the most. That statement is indicative of having spent some time together. We just didn't get to see it.

There's no doubt that Tim had extra time with Hailey in the Garden, after Tim's eliminations. And, the last time that Tim and Hailey came up from elimination, they seemed more intimate to me, and they definitely held hands walking back to the group.

by Litta123 Wed May 15, 2013 9:04 pm

dd77 wrote:Week 28 on IG someone quick go look both Hailey and Tim both of picks of Lake Austin!!! Can someone post it I dont know how but wow!!! She is probably F1!!! THIS IS HUGE EVIDENCE. its has to be Hailey.

Hailey has been to Austin...probably a couple of times since filming...once in Nov and once in Feb. I think that's one of the reasons she and Jenna seem to be so close now.

by 2observe Wed May 15, 2013 9:08 pm

dd77 wrote:Week 28 on IG someone quick go look both Hailey and Tim both of picks of Lake Austin!!! Can someone post it I dont know how but wow!!! She is probably F1!!! THIS IS HUGE EVIDENCE. its has to be Hailey.

DD77, welcome aboard. I don't have Instagram, but I do know that Hailey was at Lake Austin before both Jenna and Sara.

by dd77 Wed May 15, 2013 9:20 pm

Not sure if it means anything but also on danielle duffs IG and Haileys IG they were both in same hotel on I think its a New Years pic but I could be wrong, Not sure if that means anything but in IG pics its just them in pic but hotel room looks identical. Like I said I know they are just friends and simply hanging out on New Years wonder where Tim was for New Years.

by 2observe Wed May 15, 2013 9:21 pm

I was reading some of the post in the "Archive Discussion" thread, noticed that Tim's mom followed Hailey before she started following Jenna. I thought was really interesting if Jenna was F1.

by happygolucky Thu May 16, 2013 5:51 am

I've been having this dilemma for a long time...

Do you believe in true, open honest and intimate friendship between a woman and a man, just like the friendship between two best girlfriends, without any sexual tension, romancing or one at some point falling for the other one?
(without discrimination lets exclude arguments of gay people in this particular situation)

If yes - Why? Do you know any experience of? (are you sure?)

If no - Why? What is the trigger or issue of this kind of friendship?

If one had feelings for a friend and then acted out, eventually been rejected or never express them and tried to repress them
- do you think their friendship can continue, can it last?
- can their friendship be the same as before?

and also, what happens to male+female friendship once one of them starts a love relationship/get a partner/marries/gets children?

If you are up to write something down, so that I could gather different POVs, to ponder upon mine.

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
― Dave Matthews Band

by CHO Thu May 16, 2013 8:33 am

Happy -
I am probably in an older bracket relatively so my thoughts are from my point of view... I think you can have a guy as a very good friend in every sense of the word - but I think at least one of the two is probably interested in more than a friendship at some point. When the relationship crosses that line - then if both partners are not willing to proceed - pressure and guilt develop - and of course this changes the dynamics of the original friendship. Watch Valentine's Day with Jennifer Garner and Brad Cooper - good movie on this. Other thing is that once one of you gets very involved with/married to someone else - I think it's very very difficult to have a close friendship. 1) Does the unattached one still have hopes - still trying to fill some void in the other's life ? 2) Shouldn't the married one be confiding etc with his/her spouse - and not divulging to a friend? So I think it is complicated when one is attached to someone else. Certainly there can be some levels of friendship and having fun together -- but not real deep - imo.

by tigertiz Thu May 16, 2013 8:57 am

Happy, I'd answer no. Watch the movie - When Harry Met Sally. It's a hilarious classic.

When Harry Met Sally… is a 1989 American romantic comedy film written by Nora Ephron and directed by Rob Reiner. It stars Billy Crystal as Harry and Meg Ryan as Sally. The story follows the title characters from the time they meet just before sharing a cross-country drive, through twelve years or so of chance encounters in New York City. The film raises the question "Can men and women ever just be friends?" and advances many ideas about relationships that became household concepts, such as those of the "high-maintenance"[1] girlfriend and the "transitional person".[

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by happygolucky Thu May 16, 2013 9:01 am

Cho, thanks for your input, I agree with you. It's kind of funny, that I usually was put in a friend zone, so it got me thinking how can those relationships continue for me, but also in general how people look and what they might have experienced that could help me see the signs clearly early on.

“Of course it hurt that we could never love each other in a physical way. We would have been far more happy if we had. But that was like the tides, the change of seasons--something immutable, an immovable destiny we could never alter. No matter how cleverly we might shelter it, our delicate friendship wasn't going to last forever. We were bound to reach a dead end. That was painfully clear.”
― Haruki Murakami, Sputnik Sweetheart

by happygolucky Thu May 16, 2013 10:10 am

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
― Diane Von Furstenberg

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
― Sarah Dessen, Along for the Ride

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
― Pandora Poikilos, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

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