Tenley Molzahn Leopold & Taylor Leopold - Bachelor 13 - Discussion

But wasn't she pining for and dying to marry Kip?

Yeah I think Tenley is just a little "damaged" (for lack of a better word) from the ex and the show and the Kiptyn and needs some help before she can conceivably be ready to marry anyone. There's just too many issues running around right now to corral them imo

Oh and JJ? The hero who cheated on his pregnant wife?? That's the last thing she or any woman in this world needs ever for any reason imo.

I think Tenley is a bit too set on finding all her desired qualities in a guy, and most likely will never find them in one person. Or she might find them in someone, but that person won't be into her.

What's this, Tenley thinking she's too good for someone? It must be a day ending with 'y'.

Fingersandtoes wrote:I think Tenley is a bit too set on finding all her desired qualities in a guy, and most likely will never find them in one person. Or she might find them in someone, but that person won't be into her.

This exact scenario played out with Ben

Fingersandtoes wrote:I think Tenley is a bit too set on finding all her desired qualities in a guy, and most likely will never find them in one person. Or she might find them in someone, but that person won't be into her.

I agree  

Tenley made need to try (reverse) polygamy to find all of the qualities she wants in a husband(s)-multiple "brother husbands"

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Fingersandtoes wrote:

This exact scenario played out with Ben

That was the situation I had in my mind too.

^^^ She needs to learn that while a guy may check off all those per-requisites on her wish list and be nice to her, it doesn't mean he is looking for a relationship with her.
There is a concept like compromise and adjustment which is not familiar to her. Reality TV is way different from real life. Not just her but so many that are part of this franchise over the years.

Alanna wrote:Yeah I think Tenley is just a little "damaged" (for lack of a better word) from the ex and the show and the Kiptyn and needs some help before she can conceivably be ready to marry anyone. There's just too many issues running around right now to corral them imo

Oh and JJ? The hero who cheated on his pregnant wife?? That's the last thing she or any woman in this world needs ever for any reason imo.

Many man cheat on their wife even pregnant ones.  That does not mean he can't find love again. JJ seems to be a great guy and a great father. We all have regrets in our lives especially when we do not know the facts. JMO

whit90 wrote:

Alanna wrote:Yeah I think Tenley is just a little "damaged" (for lack of a better word) from the ex and the show and the Kiptyn and needs some help before she can conceivably be ready to marry anyone. There's just too many issues running around right now to corral them imo

Oh and JJ? The hero who cheated on his pregnant wife?? That's the last thing she or any woman in this world needs ever for any reason imo.

Many man cheat on their wife even pregnant ones.  That does not mean he can't find love again. JJ seems to be a great guy and a great father. We all have regrets in our lives especially when we do not know the facts. JMO

Sure, lots of men do really bad stuff all the time, doesn't mean I need to root for any other woman to get punished with him again. Good for Tenley for staying far away imo.

Alanna wrote:Yeah I think Tenley is just a little "damaged" (for lack of a better word) from the ex and the show and the Kiptyn and needs some help before she can conceivably be ready to marry anyone. There's just too many issues running around right now to corral them imo

Oh and JJ? The hero who cheated on his pregnant wife?? That's the last thing she or any woman in this world needs ever for any reason imo.

And then he dumped his girlfriend to go on BIP to repair his reputation and was pissed when she wouldn't take him back The guy might be a good friend, but he obviously doesn't treat the women he's in relationships with well. I agree that Tenley could do much better. One cheating husband was probably enough for her.

IA Sprite. Some people regret huge mistakes in their lives but the important issue is when they turn themselves around. Tenley seems to spend a lot of time with him, he can't be all that bad in her eyes. JMHO