Tenley Molzahn Leopold & Taylor Leopold - Bachelor 13 - Discussion

Oooh, yeah, Dan! Part of me is glad they bring some of the contestants that got kicked off early- just cause we get to see how they're really like.

Looking at Ben Z's picture, I wonder why Tenley is in Denver again. We just saw her a couple of weeks ago in a picture with JJ and his daughter. Did she move to Denver or what?

She's on vacation with her family/relatives.

According to her IG, she left for Colorado 6 days ago and posted the picture with JJ and his daughter 5 days ago.  So, she's only been there about a week.

Seems she was at a block party yesterday .. Seems Ben H was at the same one .. And they were at a club last night with Ben V and Jj as well .. In Denver

My take on Tenley is this. She comes across to me as someone who is insecure of themselves. They are afraid of fitting in and not fitting in. In her case her tshirt FOMO Fraid of Missing Out. Like not being invited to or included. What I see is with Kipton they were all over the place with invites. And among big celebrities. But without Kipton there has been very little of that with Tenley by herself. It makes me wonder if Kipton was more of a A list draw than Tenley. Like she was riding on his shirt tail. And loving every minute of it. She strikes me as one of those that can't get enough of the 15minutes of fame. It has worked for some but not others. It also bothers her with her age.
You know great love will come when the timing is right. You can't push it or smother it. When she recently said she had control issues. I can see that. I lost respect with Tenley this time around. I think the Bachelor card has been played enough. She needs to find someone outside of the Bachelor. Like Emily did in church with Tyler. Now that is a perfect fit. I would like to see Tenley turn her direction to people in church. That could be her perfect fit. I wish her the best no matter what she does.

^^^ I couldn't agree with you more. She also really enjoyed hanging with the "cool kids" during and after BiP.

I don't know what Kiptyn does but he always seems to get invitations to celebrity events. I certainly don't blame Tenley for enjoying that. I've been following her for a long time and mostly she's in SD and seems to love the beach so don't really think she's looking for more fame. Obviously everyone who chooses to go on the show is open to that criticism so hoping that's it for her. IA that church might be a better place to find someone to date.

^^^ Correct me if I'm wrong but I believe Kiptyn's company runs charity and perhaps celebrity and/or sporting events. I either read this somewhere or remember it from Jillian's season that I watched earlier this summer.

It seems church is the first place she should look. For someone who has such strong faith and wants that in a partner, doesn't that make sense? Why does she keep thinking that Fleiss and co are her best bets for love?

Tenley was with Kiptyn for a few years so wasn't looking for anyone and then took a year off dating after the breakup. I think she did BIP soon after that so I'm sure she's open to meeting someone however it happens.

loveactually9 wrote:It seems church is the first place she should look. For someone who has such strong faith and wants that in a partner, doesn't that make sense? Why does she keep thinking that Fleiss and co are her best bets for love?

There may not realistically be enough available men going to churches in her area. Most people don't go to church, and of those who do, I think many are married or above the desired age range. It might actually be easier to choose from the non-church goers and hope to work on one of them over time, and hopefully they would convert, especially the agnostics.

What type of Christian is Tenley? Does anyone know? I mean what denomination, type of church?