Re: Tenley Molzahn Leopold & Taylor Leopold - Bachelor 13 - Discussion

by nd4reality Thu Apr 10, 2014 3:44 pm

I wish there would be more posts in their "couple" thread. Perhaps that could be used as the fan thread instead ?

by Gale1 Fri Apr 11, 2014 6:05 am

Kashathediva wrote:Because this is not a "fan" thread, all discussion whether positive or negative is allowed as long as it follows site rules and is respectful towards other members or posters in this forum.

Oh ok did not know that, but does seem a bit strange don't you think that it only has to be respectful towards other members or posters in this forum & not towards Kiptyn himself, as a few have been darn right rude about him!!

by Gale1 Fri Apr 11, 2014 6:07 am

nd4reality wrote:I wish there would be more posts in their "couple" thread. Perhaps that could be used as the fan thread instead ?

by glazedover Fri Apr 11, 2014 10:45 am

Gale1 wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:Because this is not a "fan" thread, all discussion whether positive or negative is allowed as long as it follows site rules and is respectful towards other members or posters in this forum.

Oh ok did not know that, but does seem a bit strange don't you think that it only has to be respectful towards other members or posters in this forum & not towards Kiptyn himself, as a few have been darn right rude about him!!

Honestly, I do not think that is strange at all. As Kasha said, this is not a fan page and most of this entire site is meant to foster free discussion about these "characters" in a reality TV show, not shut out criticism. Just because we get attached to some of them (me included) does not mean they are immune from criticism. I personally like to hear all posters opinions and don't like to feel censored in mine. It doesn't mean I like the person being discussed any less.

by Kashathediva Fri Apr 11, 2014 10:52 am

glazedover wrote:
Gale1 wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:Because this is not a "fan" thread, all discussion whether positive or negative is allowed as long as it follows site rules and is respectful towards other members or posters in this forum.

Oh ok did not know that, but does seem a bit strange don't you think that it only has to be respectful towards other members or posters in this forum & not towards Kiptyn himself, as a few have been darn right rude about him!!

Honestly, I do not think that is strange at all. As Kasha said, this is not a fan page and most of this entire site is meant to foster free discussion about these "characters" in a reality TV show, not shut out criticism. Just because we get attached to some of them (me included) does not mean they are immune from criticism. I personally like to hear all posters opinions and don't like to feel censored in mine. It doesn't mean I like the person being discussed any less.

Couldn't have said this better.
Anyone who has difficulty with this needs to refresh site rules, this is not meant to be critical towards anyone, just a heads up.
I stay out of fan forums if at all possible because I just don't "get it".

by albean99 Fri Apr 11, 2014 1:22 pm

I really don't think we need a fan thread for Tenley & Kiptyn. We have a perfectly good thread in the couples section and I don't think we have enough posters to warrant a new one.

Gale1, I've worked on developing a thick skin when it comes to my favorites because I'm not much for posting in the fan threads. I may not always agree with all the comments but that's okay. It's hard not to defend the ones you like and have not always been successful but it's a work in progress. :Nod:

by Gale1 Sun Apr 13, 2014 10:52 am

albean99 wrote:I really don't think we need a fan thread for Tenley & Kiptyn. We have a perfectly good thread in the couples section and I don't think we have enough posters to warrant a new one.

Gale1, I've worked on developing a thick skin when it comes to my favorites because I'm not much for posting in the fan threads. I may not always agree with all the comments but that's okay. It's hard not to defend the ones you like and have not always been successful but it's a work in progress. :Nod:

I also need to develop a very thick skin. For your attitude I would like to give you a great big High clap

we need more people like you around so thank you!!

by Gale1 Mon Apr 14, 2014 2:16 am

Gale1 wrote:
albean99 wrote:I really don't think we need a fan thread for Tenley & Kiptyn. We have a perfectly good thread in the couples section and I don't think we have enough posters to warrant a new one.

Gale1, I've worked on developing a thick skin when it comes to my favorites because I'm not much for posting in the fan threads. I may not always agree with all the comments but that's okay. It's hard not to defend the ones you like and have not always been successful but it's a work in progress. :Nod:

I also need to develop a very thick skin. For your attitude I would like to give you a great big we need more people like you around so thank you!!

Unfortunately, heard that I have been insulting to some of the posters on this forum with my above statement so wish to apologise profusely to them. I never meant to be & did not even realise I was insulting them & will now make sure that I stay out of these forums before I upset anyone else, just wish that there was a fan forum for this couple.

by stuckinsc Mon Apr 14, 2014 1:01 pm

Just my opinion. This thread is pretty tame compared to how things used to be here.

It is a growth exercise to learn to read posts that upset you and learn to scroll past. I still work on it, but I feel like everyone should be able to post their opinions in an open thread. So don't go away, just keep saying your opinion. I like Kiptyn and Tenley both, either separate or as a couple. I also don't blame Kiptyn for them not being engaged. So you are not alone here.

by Gale1 Mon Apr 14, 2014 1:12 pm

stuckinsc wrote:Just my opinion. This thread is pretty tame compared to how things used to be here.

It is a growth exercise to learn to read posts that upset you and learn to scroll past. I still work on it, but I feel like everyone should be able to post their opinions in an open thread. So don't go away, just keep saying your opinion. I like Kiptyn and Tenley both, either separate or as a couple. I also don't blame Kiptyn for them not being engaged. So you are not alone here.

Like your thinking & I should be old enough to have learnt to ignore things that I don't like being said. However everyone should be entitled to their own opinion here. Thanks for the reply & keep up the Good Post

by Kashathediva Mon Apr 14, 2014 3:08 pm

It's a wonderful thing that we have multiple mods on board that are here to moderate threads and keep things within site rulez. Hugesmile

I do recommend frequent referencing as postings can, do and will become subjective and heated!! (as sure as the Easter bunny's arrival this Sunday!)

Keep in mind what is one person's trash is another's treasure, but as long as it follows the aforementioned rules trash and treasure are equally cool.
As long as members follow the site rulez things will be kept clean and above board. :Nod:

by **GuardianAngel** Sat Jul 19, 2014 11:06 pm

bleuberry wrote:I hope he's ready to have every.single.thing posted online

She tagged him in both photos

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