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happygolucky wrote:With Jenna I had a feeling Tim liked her voice when she introduced herself first, was intrigued who this girl from Austin was and was pleasantly relieved and genuinely happy when he saw her (see embrace). By the end of ep1 he had 9 girls - all beautiful, but as a guy - or girl - when you have to choose from 9 different people - you must feel attraction for someone more that another (physical and energy) - so, I believe the attraction for Jenna is there (specially after Christina goes away) higher than for other girls.
Now to direct yourself to someone else, to find someone else more beautiful (inside out) and sexually stimulating you have to connect with that person on very intimate level, that prevails the initial attraction for first person. I don't know if they had time for that and if he was even willing to do, cuz if the 1st person you feel attracted to doesn't give you any bad vibe or something to be concerned about - why would you question them then? -
was I anywhere near of being clear with my explanation how I believe this situation went down?

ETA: btw, sorry for the mistakes I make while writing and also - how wrong is it when I don't write "i" with a capital letter?

So would Jenna's storyline relate to being the Tim's hometown girl???? I need storyline for Jenna for her to be F1. Sara and Tim has a storyline of finding love after losing love. So my question remains the same. What is Jenna's storyline???

2observe wrote:
So would Jenna's storyline relate to being the Tim's hometown girl???? I need storyline for Jenna for her to be F1. Sara and Tim has a storyline of finding love after losing love. So my question remains the same. What is Jenna's storyline???

Why does there have to be a storyline, I guess I'm not following. Two people fall in love, it just happens as you get to know another, why does there have to be a story with it?

2observe, I understand what you're asking ... but all I think of is just an attraction - explainable or not - physical, state of mind (a little bit of a kid inside of every man, that grow up with "delay", ehehe) - so that means his sense of adventure/spontaneity/possibility of packing up and leaving with no destination planned (meaning no work-restriction)... these are my guesses

happygolucky wrote:With Jenna I had a feeling Tim liked her voice when she introduced herself first, was intrigued who this girl from Austin was and was pleasantly relieved and genuinely happy when he saw her (see embrace). By the end of ep1 he had 9 girls - all beautiful, but as a guy - or girl - when you have to choose from 9 different people - you must feel attraction for someone more that another (physical and energy) - so, I believe the attraction for Jenna is there (specially after Christina goes away) higher than for other girls.
Now to direct yourself to someone else, to find someone else more beautiful (inside out) and sexually stimulating you have to connect with that person on very intimate level, that prevails the initial attraction for first person. I don't know if they had time for that and if he was even willing to do, cuz if the 1st person you feel attracted to doesn't give you any bad vibe or something to be concerned about - why would you question them then? -
was I anywhere near of being clear with my explanation how I believe this situation went down?

ETA: btw, sorry for the mistakes I make while writing and also - how wrong is it when I don't write "i" with a capital letter?

In one interview I watched (Huffington Post?), Tim talked about feeling guilty getting physical with someone else after he had made that connection with one of the girl's. Jenna was the first girl he kissed...so right there he was forming some kind of attachment to her...his loyalty was kicking in. So, yes, I can see your point, happygolucky.

Also, I'm wondering if there's another aspect one might interpret Jenna's remarks about being territorial. She said it's a jealousy, but not from insecurity, but from being protective. I wonder if, to some degree, it also has a characteristic of loyalty in it.

In one interview , when asked what he was looking for, the first thing Tim said was, "I am hoping to find somebody that is very loyal, that I can trust with my whole heart -- trust completely."

Now, clearly Sara has also shown that quality in how she stood by her fiance. So I'm not saying this proves anything, I'm only pointing out a sense of safety and protection might appeal to Tim...based on how he was hurt before. He might see that in Jenna's self confession of being territorial and protective.

ETA: I found in another interview Tim said he wanted someone who supports what he does, whose got his back-- again, protective comes to mind.

Lost17 wrote:

2observe wrote:
So would Jenna's storyline relate to being the Tim's hometown girl???? I need storyline for Jenna for her to be F1. Sara and Tim has a storyline of finding love after losing love. So my question remains the same. What is Jenna's storyline???

Why does there have to be a storyline, I guess I'm not following. Two people fall in love, it just happens as you get to know another, why does there have to be a story with it?

It has to do with how a show like this is edited to show a lovestory. The way I see it now is that Sara and Tim have a story of finding love after losing love. Like Fantasia say in her new single, sometime you Lose to Win Again. At this point, I don't see any of the girls having a storyline. So it look to me like Sara is Tim's F1.

Now, clearly Sara has also shown that quality in how she stood by her fiance. So I'm not saying this proves anything, I'm only pointing out a sense of safety and protection might appeal to Tim...based on how he was hurt before. He might see that in Jenna's self confession of being territorial and protective.

I think this is what they both have in common as far as Tim's concerned. They project a sense of loyalty and comfort in a devoted sort of way. He really was wondering why a 23 year old would be on this show. I'm not sure Jenna ever answered that question, but he probably just decided to set it aside and thank his lucky stars that she decided to do it.

tigertiz wrote:

Now, clearly Sara has also shown that quality in how she stood by her fiance. So I'm not saying this proves anything, I'm only pointing out a sense of safety and protection might appeal to Tim...based on how he was hurt before. He might see that in Jenna's self confession of being territorial and protective.

I think this is what they both have in common as far as Tim's concerned. They project a sense of loyalty and comfort in a devoted sort of way. He really was wondering why a 23 year old would be on this show. I'm not sure Jenna ever answered that question, but he probably just decided to set it aside and thank his lucky stars that she decided to do it.

I think she said something like all her friends ask her why she wants to get married now. She said she wanted to have her adventures with her husband instead of having her adventures before getting married and settling down. As someone who got married young I related to that and liked what she said. Maybe Tim did too?

tiger! I think so 2

2observe - maybe then the storyline is: adventure/playfulness - like riding bike, play in the pool, play pool (another scene we have to see) ... and that is a connection to Tim who stated to be a little bit of a dork and have strange sense of humor and needs someone to get him out of the bed (meaning more energetic than himself)

FWIW, in an After Buzz recap, one of the commentators is a girl from Texas. She said that getting married young isn't that uncommon from there...so Jenna's desires didn't seem that off to her.

I can't speak to that since I'm from the Chicago area, but maybe someone else can.

This probably doesn't belong in this thread, but just wanted to mention. Maybe Tracy's advices actually help the girl get a guy, but I have a sense, that Amber's success is in "pairing" 2 people who can make it last long distance. Now whoever Tim chose, is the right one, and what kind of relationship it is, nobody can know how long it's gonna last, because at the end only "heart" (or gut) can decide till when it feels right.

sgjsnow wrote:

tigertiz wrote:

Now, clearly Sara has also shown that quality in how she stood by her fiance. So I'm not saying this proves anything, I'm only pointing out a sense of safety and protection might appeal to Tim...based on how he was hurt before. He might see that in Jenna's self confession of being territorial and protective.

I think this is what they both have in common as far as Tim's concerned. They project a sense of loyalty and comfort in a devoted sort of way. He really was wondering why a 23 year old would be on this show. I'm not sure Jenna ever answered that question, but he probably just decided to set it aside and thank his lucky stars that she decided to do it.

I think she said something like all her friends ask her why she wants to get married now. She said she wanted to have her adventures with her husband instead of having her adventures before getting married and settling down. As someone who got married young I related to that and liked what she said. Maybe Tim did too?

Love everyone's thoughts on this. I got married at 19 and was thinking people that think Jenna at 23 is to young was beyond me, lol. I'm glad Tim asked her the questions he did...he seemed to like them well enough, he did kiss her, there's def. some chemistry going on there. I'm curious to see how it plays out with Sara.

2observe wrote:

Lost17 wrote:

2observe wrote:
So would Jenna's storyline relate to being the Tim's hometown girl???? I need storyline for Jenna for her to be F1. Sara and Tim has a storyline of finding love after losing love. So my question remains the same. What is Jenna's storyline???

Why does there have to be a storyline, I guess I'm not following. Two people fall in love, it just happens as you get to know another, why does there have to be a story with it?

It has to do with how a show like this is edited to show a lovestory. The way I see it now is that Sara and Tim have a story of finding love after losing love. Like Fantasia say in her new single, sometime you Lose to Win Again. At this point, I don't see any of the girls having a storyline. So it look to me like Sara is Tim's F1.

They presented Jenna with alot of conflict last episode. He's attracted to her, but he doubts her big time. I don't think he was totoally satisfied with the answers she gave but it's obvious their sexual chemistry is through the roof - it would stupid of him not to explore that, especially from someone who rarely connects with someone. She's going to spend the entire season trying to prove to him that she wants something serious because right now he is questioning that in her.

Her storyline is pretty much what you would expect from a contestant who is 23. Is she there for the right reason? Is she in it long term? They have alot of kinks to work out IMO. All we know is they light each other's fire. LOL

I agree with you Lost, that sometimes it's just as simple as two people meet, fall in love, and that's it... most of the time it might not even make sense (such as age). This wouldn't surprise me since the relationship with his wife started in a similar fashion and lasted for 11 years.

PS I got married young as well (23) and DH and I are enjoying all of the crazy adventures life throws our way! :Smiley:

As far as Sara goes, it's too early to tell how I feel about their relationship since we really only heard the story about (other) Tim last week. Not a whole to go on yet. JMO

I also have no doubt that Sara or Jenna would both be loyal women to him. I haven't seen pics from any of the girls hinting that the might be dating someone else. That's the other thing, how long does say someone like Hailey have to wait before dating someone!?! That's insane to me! haha