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Re: After The Final Rose - 3/11 - Bachelor 17 - Discussion - Spoilers
As someone who has moved several times- mostly because of my husband's very well paid work- and who knows many people who've relocated across the country (and believe me, it's often like going to a new country), I will weigh in on Catherine leaving her Seattle life behind and joining Sean.
If the priority is their relationship (which I believe it is) it is best to approach the move as an adventure and to jump in with both feet. Actually DWTS makes it an adventure for them both which I think is a very positive thing. Though Sean has been in LA quite a bit over the past year, it's been in a very controlled way. They are looking this as an opportunity to explore, to spend time together, for Catherine to "find something of my own" so they have something to talk about over dinner.
To enter into this adventure in halves is far less effective and can cause resentment and regret. They have already been on quite an adventure- this is just the next step.
If the priority is their relationship (which I believe it is) it is best to approach the move as an adventure and to jump in with both feet. Actually DWTS makes it an adventure for them both which I think is a very positive thing. Though Sean has been in LA quite a bit over the past year, it's been in a very controlled way. They are looking this as an opportunity to explore, to spend time together, for Catherine to "find something of my own" so they have something to talk about over dinner.
To enter into this adventure in halves is far less effective and can cause resentment and regret. They have already been on quite an adventure- this is just the next step.
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I don't know about anyone else, but frankly, I have been shocked by all the concern. I understand that we all see and interpret things differently, but I just do not see the distance, something seems off, etc. that so many keep commenting on. This may just be one of those situations where it's darned if you and darned if you don't.
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jcrbil wrote:Actually DWTS makes it an adventure for them both which I think is a very positive thing.
When my wife and I married we left within days for an extended job assignment to - of all places - LA where we lived out of a basic hotel room and suitcases for about two months; I worked 12 hour days. I learned on that trip that she breaks about any mechanical device she lays her hands on and that she loves Haagen-Dazs ice cream. She learned that I like Haagen-Dazs ice cream as much as she does and that pretty much whatever she breaks - I can fix. We both learned that Hawaii can be romantic even if it rains every day that you're there and that a cool dip in the hotel pool after a hot August day is totally refreshing and probably leads to something else. It was one of the best times of our life and we look back on that adventure decades later with fond memories.
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clueless wrote:I don't know about anyone else, but frankly, I have been shocked by all the concern. I understand that we all see and interpret things differently, but I just do not see the distance, something seems off, etc. that so many keep commenting on. This may just be one of those situations where it's darned if you and darned if you don't.
Excellent post!!!
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What do you think of Shay's comments in reference to Possessionista tweets, one of them being that either way Catherine will not get married. Not sure how to take the family's reaction. I pray for Sean and Cat that they will beat the odds and have a beautiful marriage.
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Catherine is smart and Sean will deal with his sister in due course. His happiness is most important, jealousy should be no factor and I see jealousy coming from sister.
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Shay seems like a big fan of the franchise, so maybe she's enjoying the last bit of attention as Sean's sister before Nate steals her thunder.
I'm just not getting warm and fuzzy feelings from her though. Seems like this is "her" journey.
I'm just not getting warm and fuzzy feelings from her though. Seems like this is "her" journey.
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Not being critical towards Shay, but just getting a weird vibe and hope that she believes that everything will work out for her brother and new fiancee. At least he said his mom is onboard.
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More importantly, she has Jay in her corner! :Smiley: If he was going to be my F-I-L, everyone else in the family could suck it, TBH.iamreal2u wrote:Not being critical towards Shay, but just getting a weird vibe and hope that she believes that everything will work out for her brother and new fiancee. At least he said his mom is onboard.
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I think the Lowe family likes to laugh at itself. Just because Shay appreciates Possessionista's sarcasm doesn't mean she believes its true!
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Shay is probably just unsettled that Sean went from asking and consulting her on everything to his earth revolving around Cat- saying she's his primary concern, asking her about doing DWTS, and it sounds like she's not aware that SeanCat want a wedding ASAP, etc. She'll probably get used to this new way of life, assuming Cat sticks around and Sean continues focusing on her/their relationship. Maybe Chrystie can give her some counseling on this topic; Nate can definitely enter their clique as needed too.
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Archer23 wrote:More importantly, she has Jay in her corner! :Smiley: If he was going to be my F-I-L, everyone else in the family could suck it, TBH.iamreal2u wrote:Not being critical towards Shay, but just getting a weird vibe and hope that she believes that everything will work out for her brother and new fiancee. At least he said his mom is onboard.
Very true. Give me a FIL like Jay anytime.
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