After The Final Rose - 3/11 - Bachelor 17 - Discussion - Spoilers

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

I disagree with you, dahlin! Chris wasn't a douchebag.... Overnight... He had been through tout Sean's season!

Ha ha, Cari. Couldn't agree more. Must be going through a mid-life crisis.

I'm now thinking perhaps Sean read my angsty tweet about Chris throwing him and his F1 under the bus! I've this feeling, he din't like his question right before Cat came out! Oh, dear Lord, please, please do not let SeanCat be persuaded to have Chris officiate their wedding! #IWouldHangMyself #HaraKiri

I finally figure out why Chris is dissing Cat it is because Cat is so much more intelligent, and more articulate than him. He could never have measure up in Cat eye.

Beeleever wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

Beeleever wrote:Okay...here are my thoughts on the AFR tonight:

Lindsey handled herself like a class act and showed so much maturity. She was clearly blind-sided and had much more reason to be than AshLee.

I'm confused at how distant Catherine seemed. I'm not saying it was a disconnect with Sean, but there was something definitely going down. I wonder how she felt listening to Sean tell Lindsey he loved her, just minutes before Cat arrived at the FRC.

I understand she is a private person, but she could not contain her giddiness on the show and I expected to see that same giddiness now that they could finally be together in public. I was disappointed.

If her being reserved had to do with Chris Harrison or being upset about her edit, it will be interesting to see how she reacts when they do the interviews tomorrow.

Cat's bags are packed and she's ready to move. Does that mean she is moving to LA?

Where were Sean and Cat's family members? Aren't they usually in the audience?

I really hope they make it in the real world. I really do.

Bee, I don't think they could say about where Catherine was going since the announcement about DWTS won't happen until the morning. But I thought Sean made it clear that whatever was in store for them they would do it together.

As far as Catherine being reserved, I wonder if she heard Chris' question to Sean right before she came on asking Sean if he was sure - she may have been thinking WTH - I was watching Sean walk over and embrace Catherine so I didn't catch if she hugged Chris or not. And I know there's disagreement on the board about this but I think Chris has made several remarks that I found very suspect about Catherine and about them as a couple - so if I were Catherine, I wouldn't be feeling all warm and fuzzy about him. As I have already said, I thought Chris' questions to them as a couple were off.

I wonder the same thing, doc. I am with you that several comments Chris has made have bordered on disrespect. I don't blame her one bit, I'm just disappointed that we didn't see the giddy girl she was every time she saw Sean on the show. It makes me feel bad for her and I wonder if the last few weeks may have been harder on her than we think.

I appreciate your thoughts, Bee! :WAVEY: Missed ya.

Much of your impression resembled my own regarding the state of things. If Cat is emotional and struggles in relationships, I can see these past weeks being challenging, but Sean really wasn't as engaged with Lindsay as he was with her; small comfort but some none the same.

I think the move will be to accommodate DWTS, a compromise as they figure things out. Was it Cat or Lindsay who said that they didn't want to live together before marriage? Anyway, I am curious where the parents were. Ash and Ben's families were there.

I hope that they don't rush a wedding; there was no need for that announcement. I hope that they just enjoy and learn about each other. I see Cat slowing things down since she has such concern about marriage, and I think it's wise for them to take their time.

Re. Chris H., no clue about the bug in his tush, but it's confusing. Sean gave them everything that they wanted. Are they not happy that he chose Cat? Why? Sometimes, I think that a decent amount of negative portrayal bonds the couple as they lean on each other for support ( Ash and Japes) but this feels different.

I wish them the best. I hope the interviews showcase their feelings better.

I haven't read the thread so dont know if its been said but does anyone else think Des looks ALOT better with bangs?! She's still pretty without but with the bangs she stood out way more. They fit her face shape perfectly. I thought they were as cute on her as they are on Zooey Deschanel which is REALLY cute. Maybe Im bias because I love those straight across chinese style bangs but not everyone can pull them off as well as she did.

ThankMeLater wrote:wow but that would have been a crazy atfr if he did change his mind. but at the same time that be a douche move. Anyways did Cat watch the episode with everyone? because they had to show the proposal again so I guess she didn't see it. But when she does I guess she won't be too happy about what he says to Lindsay.

If their relationship is as strong as they say, I'm sure Sean has told Catherine all about that - way before that article came out, way before we saw it. Heck, she probably knew about it before they left Thailand, and he did tell her/us tonight that their love grows stronger each day. I think they'll be fine - and if they break up, it won't be because of that comment.

Cari wrote:

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

I disagree with you, dahlin! Chris wasn't a douchebag.... Overnight... He had been through tout Sean's season!

Ha ha, Cari. Couldn't agree more. Must be going through a mid-life crisis.

I'm now thinking perhaps Sean read my angsty tweet about Chris throwing him and his F1 under the bus! I've this feeling, he din't like his question right before Cat came out! Oh, dear Lord, please, please do not let SeanCat be persuaded to have Chrismofficiate their wedding! #IWouldHangMyself #HaraKiri

I really doubt there's any chance of Chris officiating the wedding - Ash and JP had an interfaith marriage with Celtic traditions thrown in for kicks. They're both spiritual as opposed to religious, and to them it was more about the words themselves and their family , as opposed to god. SeanCat are both overtly religious and I'm sure they would want an official ordained minister saying the words that bind them together and to god, the way they see it - I doubt they'd choose Chris even if he'd been supportive and respectful of the couple up to this point (which, of course, he hasn't, and wasn't even on ATFR)

Cari wrote:

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

I disagree with you, dahlin! Chris wasn't a douchebag.... Overnight... He had been through tout Sean's season!

Ha ha, Cari. Couldn't agree more. Must be going through a mid-life crisis.

I'm now thinking perhaps Sean read my angsty tweet about Chris throwing him and his F1 under the bus! I've this feeling, he din't like his question right before Cat came out! Oh, dear Lord, please, please do not let SeanCat be persuaded to have Chrismofficiate their wedding! #IWouldHangMyself #HaraKiri

I think we can trust that Sean would want to have someone of deep faith perform that ceremony. Although he did say he would be happy going to the courthouse... :shock:

That ATFR was awkwardddd

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

I disagree with you, dahlin! Chris wasn't a douchebag.... Overnight... He had been through tout Sean's season!

Ha ha, Cari. Couldn't agree more. Must be going through a mid-life crisis.

I'm now thinking perhaps Sean read my angsty tweet about Chris throwing him and his F1 under the bus! I've this feeling, he din't like his question right before Cat came out! Oh, dear Lord, please, please do not let SeanCat be persuaded to have Chrismofficiate their wedding! #IWouldHangMyself #HaraKiri

I think we can trust that Sean would want to have someone of deep faith perform that ceremony. Although he did say he would be happy going to the courthouse... :shock:

Sean's dad actually could marry them- he officiated at Sean's cousin's wedding a year ago.

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

I disagree with you, dahlin! Chris wasn't a douchebag.... Overnight... He had been through tout Sean's season!

Ha ha, Cari. Couldn't agree more. Must be going through a mid-life crisis.

I'm now thinking perhaps Sean read my angsty tweet about Chris throwing him and his F1 under the bus! I've this feeling, he din't like his question right before Cat came out! Oh, dear Lord, please, please do not let SeanCat be persuaded to have Chrismofficiate their wedding! #IWouldHangMyself #HaraKiri

I think we can trust that Sean would want to have someone of deep faith perform that ceremony. Although he did say he would be happy going to the courthouse... :shock:

Haha I think he's so totally in love with Catherine he just wants to be MARRIED! No, I'm sure the Christian ceremony is important to both of them, though

ETA: It would be the cutest thing ever if Papa Jay did wind up officiating

jcrbil wrote:

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

Beeleever wrote:

Cari wrote:

I disagree with you, dahlin! Chris wasn't a douchebag.... Overnight... He had been through tout Sean's season!

Ha ha, Cari. Couldn't agree more. Must be going through a mid-life crisis.

I'm now thinking perhaps Sean read my angsty tweet about Chris throwing him and his F1 under the bus! I've this feeling, he din't like his question right before Cat came out! Oh, dear Lord, please, please do not let SeanCat be persuaded to have Chrismofficiate their wedding! #IWouldHangMyself #HaraKiri

I think we can trust that Sean would want to have someone of deep faith perform that ceremony. Although he did say he would be happy going to the courthouse... :shock:

Sean's dad actually could marry them- he officiated at Sean's cousin's wedding a year ago.

Oh, can you seriously imagine anything more heartfelt? There would not be a single dry eye in the world!

^^^^ THAT would be AWESOME! I would probably concentrate on Papa Jay and forget SeanCat!!

I can't wait to see Catherine and Sean both on GMA. You gotta know she'll be there.