Finale - November 21st - Discussion - Spoilers

Please do post spoilers I want to know..

Whitney tells Brad that her behavior at the last RC was her weak side and that Brad needs to help her over it... Brad VOs that every time they struggle they come out stronger

Now they're golfing, and he's teaching her

Also - he apologized to her for putting her in that position at the F3 RC - wait WHAT?!

Picnic set up on the course

Brad and Whit at the golf course discussing her outburst. Is she ready to get engaged?

It was just me expressing my feelings. He feels responsible for the way she is acting. The idiot is apologizing because he feels he forced her to open up all the time as it happens and act the way she did. She says she is there for the right reasons. He buys it. Dumb, dumb. This is what happens when a man thinks with the wrong head.

They still want to be together. Kissing on the couse and off to play golf.

She is getting pissed off playing golf.

He thinks everything is natural. Chemistry is effortless. They have weathered the bumps and come out of it.

Off to a picnic on the course. Asks him what he thinks they will ask him. They talk over each other and you need to speak up. Will ask her how she feels about the process. They are giggly. Hopes nothing goes wrong tonight.

Off to meet the folks who live about 300 feet from the course.

Interesting that Whit is meeting the parents first..

He seems to be pretty kissy - kissy with her - calls her babe

Meeting mom Leesa, dad Larry, sister Ashley, sister's hubby and two kids.

Mom VOs that they think they're going to meet someone Brad's really comfortable with, sis is concerned that her brother might be proposing to someone (these seem to be taken on the day of Bianka's date, clothes don't seem to match)

Mom asks Whit what she's attracted to in Brad... she VOs that she wasn't quite comfortable in front of the family.

She dodges the question... can't find words to answer
Things are REALLY awkward... sister looks not impressed - she asks, "how do you create a relationship when you're spending so much time apart?"

Brad covers for her, Whit is yet to talk... stares at the ground and stays quiet, Brad still answers. She's not able to answer why she came onto the show

Brad VOs that he feels like he needs to protect Whit when she's closed off because she's an unbelievable person - he tells his family that she needs time to process before she answers questions

meeting the folks first, typical of f2?

Whit talks to sister and mom - she tells them she's not particularly nervous, and she likes it when Brad takes charge. Mom tells Whit that's not fair and that relationships have to be a partnership, and sister Ashley VOs that she doesn't know how things are going to go forward.

This has probably got to be the most awkward MTP I've ever seen - don't they usually edit it to be super close??

Enjoying this thanks ninu and sprite

They arrive. Wants family to see the unbelievable person.

Meets mom, sister and her husband and boy. Also dad.

Mom feels will meet someone he is comfortable with. Sister wants to help him and she is concerned. Everyone complements Whit after they change.

He is like his dad. Mom is the toughest critic.

Mom asks if there is one thing that she is the most attracted to. Whit is at a loss for words. Brad is answering for her. She is uncomfortable. Seriously. They are wondering why she is not answering and Whit looks miserable.

Sister asks if she is so guarded and private why she came on the show?

They ask why is she so guarded? They think she is nervous and very, very intense.

Brad is almost fighting with his friend Mike? saying she won't answer questions until she has thought out her answers and can answer truthfully.

They want her to speak for herself when mom and sis are talking to her in the kitchen. Sister is concerned what Brad is turning into around her. Will he always be the protector, the facilitator...it should be a partnership.

He doesn't know what to think. Doesn't know if he can handle her because she is so much work. Hello!!! Wake up and smell the roses Brad....This would be your miseraable life with this woman. Think with the head...on your shoulders!

Brad finally says, "With Whitney, it's just so much work."