Re: Bachelorette 8 - Media - Thread #2

by Pierz Wed May 23, 2012 2:49 pm

Is he implying Emily is into Jef because of his money? scratch

by anders Wed May 23, 2012 2:56 pm

Pierz wrote:Is he implying Emily is into Jef because of his money?

IMO He’s implying that Em would prefer her men rich. which I don't disagree with.

by LaureanT Wed May 23, 2012 3:01 pm

anders wrote:
Pierz wrote:Is he implying Emily is into Jef because of his money?

IMO He’s implying that Em would prefer her men rich. which I don't disagree with.

BINGO! There is a pattern here.... :hidingchair

by marloon Wed May 23, 2012 3:13 pm

He's a fairly direct fellow, isn't he.

by BachfanNY Wed May 23, 2012 3:26 pm

veg_out wrote:
momoftrips wrote:
Rejected Bachelor Joe speaks out

Finally, he's pulling for Jef to win the thing. He feels like Jef is a great guy, and it seems like they'd be compatible because "he's got some money."
Check back tomorrow for the full transcript of Jeff's call.

-Bill King

http://www.cominguprosesblog.com/2012/05/rejected-bachelor-joe-speaks-out.html

Wow. Glad to hear that production continues to roll with the "All Jef, All the Time" campaign. Sad that Joe thinks that money is the primary basis for Emily's choice.

Totally, i'm sure its a plus but she's not going to marry someone "just for money" that's low.

by jlccaz Wed May 23, 2012 3:29 pm

anders wrote:
Pierz wrote:Is he implying Emily is into Jef because of his money?

IMO He’s implying that Em would prefer her men rich. which I don't disagree with.

Not a crime. Or even morally deserving of criticism or condescension. The first rule of finding a mate: KNOW THYSELF. If you need a certain lifestyle, or need to feel supported and secure financially, or maybe are looking to walk away from any dependency on the Hendrick or Maynard families' $$$, or whatever her heart desires, that's a HUGE factor in long term successful coupling. I don't know if she cares about money or not. Having reached middle age, I do know that "for richer or poorer" is largely aspirational, not operational, language in the marriage vows of many, many couples.

by si si Wed May 23, 2012 3:30 pm

I don't nesessarily think that Emily is only looking for someone tha's rich. I hope I not villified for saying this ,but i believe that she has some control issues.I hear people jumping up and down about Jef.but iwonder how long before she sabotage this realtionship.Remember her telling Brad that she sabotage relationship withpeople she likes.

by lavenderred Wed May 23, 2012 3:31 pm

skitts wrote:Finally, he's pulling for Jef to win the thing. He feels like Jef is a great guy, and it seems like they'd be compatible because "he's got some money."Check back tomorrow for the full transcript of Jeff's call.

:shocked!: Ouch!

So I guess Jef talked about what he does/money to the guys? Gee, I'm glad I didn't buy into Jef's BS comment during the M&G when he said he hoped Emily wasn't impressed by material things. Rolling Eyes

by anders Wed May 23, 2012 3:34 pm

jlccaz wrote:
anders wrote:
Pierz wrote:Is he implying Emily is into Jef because of his money?

IMO He’s implying that Em would prefer her men rich. which I don't disagree with.

Not a crime. Or even morally deserving of criticism or condescension. The first rule of finding a mate: KNOW THYSELF. If you need a certain lifestyle, or need to feel supported and secure financially, or maybe are looking to walk away from any dependency on the Hendrick or Maynard families' $$$, or whatever her heart desires, that's a HUGE factor in long term successful coupling. I don't know if she cares about money or not. Having reached middle age, I do know that "for richer or poorer" is largely aspirational, not operational, language in the marriage vows of many, many couples.

did I do that?

by jlccaz Wed May 23, 2012 3:36 pm

Maybe family money? Doubt People Water is throwing off much cash / wealth to founders yet.

NO, Anders, my post quoted yours but wasn't directed at you, sorry if gave wrong impression.

by nutty1 Wed May 23, 2012 3:46 pm

lavenderred wrote:
skitts wrote:Finally, he's pulling for Jef to win the thing. He feels like Jef is a great guy, and it seems like they'd be compatible because "he's got some money."Check back tomorrow for the full transcript of Jeff's call.

:shocked!: Ouch!
So I guess Jef talked about what he does/money to the guys? Gee, I'm glad I didn't buy into Jef's BS comment during the M&G when he said he hoped Emily wasn't impressed by material things.

We certainly don't know that! He may have googled him. I am sure there is also plenty of conversation during down time. Or Joe could have even assumed it.
I really hate when people always think the worst right away.

by anders Wed May 23, 2012 3:48 pm

it's not like Jef doesn't have money - it's not like it's a secret.

I'm sure 95% of the contestants google themselves and others when they're sent packing - how hard would it have been to find this site discussing Jef's ability to provide for Em?

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