Re: Chris Bukowski - Bachelorette 8 - Thread #2

[4health]

Emily would be naive to not consider the financial stability of her potential future mate. Everyone should consider how their lifestyles fit with those they chose to be in a relationship with, and if their lifestyles match now or have the potential to in the future. I honestly think that Emily will think about what lifestyle she wants and if who she picks can afford her the lifestyle she wants. Some guys may be okay with her supporting them or pulling more of the weight in the financial area, but others may can issue with that which could cause problems. JMO of course.

Emily isn't recently reeling from the loss of Ricki ... if she were in a rebound situation, then I think she may overlook certain things from an intellectual POV and go merely with an emotional connection (most rebound situations are based on emotions).

She has been on her own for many years, and is independant from a man's influence not only in her daily life, but also in the raising of her daughter. Hence her discussions with Brad about what daily life is really like with a child.

She should be looking at these men as to how they fit into her current life, which includes social, economical, parental values, parental methodology (discipline styles, etc), compatible lifestyles, compatible basic personality traits and so on. This isn't her first dance at the rodeo ...

Hopefully she'll keep her wits about her in the bachelor bubble.

I hope Emily is ready to truly move forward with someone....on Brad's season she said that she always sabotaged her relationships when she got scared......it will be interesting to watch if Emily remains the same in everyone eyes after this season is said and done.....most leads are viewed differently after their seasons good or bad.....

[skitts]

Emily would be naive to not consider the financial stability of her potential future mate. Everyone should consider how their lifestyles fit with those they chose to be in a relationship with, and if their lifestyles match now or have the potential to in the future. I honestly think that Emily will think about what lifestyle she wants and if who she picks can afford her the lifestyle she wants. Some guys may be okay with her supporting them or pulling more of the weight in the financial area, but others may can issue with that which could cause problems. JMO of course.

Emily isn't recently reeling from the loss of Ricki ... if she were in a rebound situation, then I think she may overlook certain things from an intellectual POV and go merely with an emotional connection (most rebound situations are based on emotions).She has been on her own for many years, and is independant from a man's influence not only in her daily life, but also in the raising of her daughter. Hence her discussions with Brad about what daily life is really like with a child.

She should be looking at these men as to how they fit into her current life, which includes social, economical, parental values, parental methodology (discipline styles, etc), compatible lifestyles, compatible basic personality traits and so on. This isn't her first dance at the rodeo ...

Hopefully she'll keep her wits about her in the bachelor bubble.

^^^You mean Brad...she might rebound after Brad, right?

Now you know I didn't mean Brad :P One has to be emotionally invested before the rebound affect comes into play.

Say it isn't so....I'm shocked...no emotional investment???! Just havin fun! :WAVEY: :WAVEY: :WAVEY:

[Iam4UGA]

So sorry for your troubles. God Bless and I hope things turn around very soon for you and your family.

So sorry to hear that. Sending positive thoughts your way & hope things turn around for you and your family.

Thank you ladies!

I appreciate the positive thoughts. I don't want to give the impression that I don't love my husband, but I really wish I had fallen for a rich guy!

[jello1592]

So sorry for your troubles. God Bless and I hope things turn around very soon for you and your family.

So sorry to hear that. Sending positive thoughts your way & hope things turn around for you and your family.

Thank you ladies!

I appreciate the positive thoughts. I don't want to give the impression that I don't love my husband, but I really wish I had fallen for a rich guy!

Not sure what happened Iam4UGA, but if you need to talk you know you have a ton of people here who will listen!!

[Love_Me]

So sorry for your troubles. God Bless and I hope things turn around very soon for you and your family.

So sorry to hear that. Sending positive thoughts your way & hope things turn around for you and your family.

Thank you ladies!

I appreciate the positive thoughts. I don't want to give the impression that I don't love my husband, but I really wish I had fallen for a rich guy!

Not sure what happened Iam4UGA, but if you need to talk you know you have a ton of people here who will listen!!

Call me dumb but I really think she is in it for love . cutesmile!

You are not dumb! I am a romantic at heart and when it comes to this show I always want to think that two people can find someone special.

[happyvalleygirl]

So sorry for your troubles. God Bless and I hope things turn around very soon for you and your family.

So sorry to hear that. Sending positive thoughts your way & hope things turn around for you and your family.

Thank you ladies!

I appreciate the positive thoughts. I don't want to give the impression that I don't love my husband, but I really wish I had fallen for a rich guy!

Not sure what happened Iam4UGA, but if you need to talk you know you have a ton of people here who will listen!!

Call me dumb but I really think she is in it for love . cutesmile!

You are not dumb! I am a romantic at heart and when it comes to this show I always want to think that two people can find someone special.

I am with y'all. True love

[poohbear]

It's funny that on Team Chris' facebook page, it's recently posted the article about Arie texting a gf back home hahaha saying "another bites the dust".

[lstiff]

It's funny that on Team Chris' facebook page, it's recently posted the article about Arie texting a gf back home hahaha saying "another bites the dust".

[DMBFan]

It's funny that on Team Chris' facebook page, it's recently posted the article about Arie texting a gf back home hahaha saying "another bites the dust".

Funny! I'm thinking that's what they want us all to believe...

[christinemega]

My heart was torn equally between Arie and Chris, but today my heart is 75% Chris and 20% Arie. =)

[lstiff]

I am now hoping for a Chris/Sean F2. We have not yet been able to find anything regarding recent, horrible or related to the show ex girlfriends. There are not many recent pictures of these guys out drinking and we know they are both good uncles. At this point with all of the Jef/Arie drama or non drama I am hoping we have a drama free finale with these 2 cuties. I am torn equally btwn them until I see the show and learn more!!

[poohbear]

I am now hoping for a Chris/Sean F2. We have not yet been able to find anything regarding recent, horrible or related to the show ex girlfriends. There are not many recent pictures of these guys out drinking and we know they are both good uncles. At this point with all of the Jef/Arie drama or non drama I am hoping we have a drama free finale with these 2 cuties. I am torn equally btwn them until I see the show and learn more!!

I think we've found ex's for both of them saying not so good things about them already. It might not be true, could be just sore grapes, but if they end up being F1, sure tabloids will dig up stuff and people would come forward to say stuff.

The reason why these two are so quiet at the moment is largely due to most people don't think they're F1.

Remember all reports of Emily was positive when RS said Chantal's the F1? and how many ridiculous reports we have of Chantal? Until they found out Emily's actually the true F1, stuff about emily all started to come out, i'm sure it's the same thing this time.

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