Jillian Harris & Justin Pasutto - Bachelorette 5 - Discussion

I'm so confused with the video lol. Are those three people actors? They don't actually live in the place they filmed right? It looks like they're inside a mall and people can look in lol.

I'm sorry. I cant stop staring at her nose. :hidingchair It's making me crazy. It just doesn't fit her face.

veg_out wrote:Ed did a number on our girl. Of course, Jill sorta did it to herself by choosing him, but yeah.

I think Jillian's issues existed long before Ed came into the picture. It's been almost two years since they ended so whatever issue that are still there are personal not due to an ex-fiance. IMO.

Actually, I think Jillian is very realistic about her realtionship with Ed and I dont think she is waiting around for him to "change." I dont think she has found anyone with whom she has mutual romantic attraction. She makes friends easily. She has lots of friends and contacts. She meets lots of people. One of these days, something will click.

dee wrote:I'm so confused with the video lol. Are those three people actors? They don't actually live in the place they filmed right? It looks like they're inside a mall and people can look in lol.

LOL I'm glad I'm not the only person confused! Yes those 3 are actors, according to the website that vid came from. So I'm assuming they are living in that space in the mall as some sort of publicity stunt thing. Since they're actors though, what's confusing me is the point of the whole convo with Jillian and why was she there? I thought she was supposed to talk about the design of the space, but they were mostly talking about dating and things like that. So what are we supposed to be taking from this vid??

umngirl wrote:

veg_out wrote:Ed did a number on our girl. Of course, Jill sorta did it to herself by choosing him, but yeah.

I think Jillian's issues existed long before Ed came into the picture. It's been almost two years since they ended so whatever issue that are still there are personal not due to an ex-fiance. IMO.

Of course, but some issues also are a direct result of a relationship. Jill made the error in picking someone who'd never give her what she wanted, and that preference is, yes, her issue.

I hope that she finds love someday. She's so adorable.

As the saying goes "The heart wants what the heart wants." I hope she find someone who appreciates what a wonderful woman Jillian is. She has a lot of wonderful qualities.

Love_Me wrote:As the saying goes "The heart wants what the heart wants." I hope she find someone who appreciates what a wonderful woman Jillian is. She has a lot of wonderful qualities.

As much as I wish Jillian could move on (and I was major JED fan :hidingchair ), I still hear that catch in her voice when she references her ex...listen around the 4:05+ mark...her voice slightly breaks. I think in her head Jill wants to move on, but a part of her heart still hurts. JMO. I wish her nothing but the best.

I'm with Jelle. I think Jillian will find someone special when the time is right. A lot of people had been hurt in a relationship and have moved on. If she stays still long enough it may just happen.

I would hope that Jillian can find someone and be happy (though clearly she is nowhere near unhappy !). However, it still boggles my mind how in touch she is with Ed and that they have kept their long distance friendship going for so strong and so long. Ed really did bring that sparkle to her eyes and it looks like her finding someone that can do the same is hard for her.

I still think her & Reid should hook up!!

nd4reality wrote:I would hope that Jillian can find someone and be happy (though clearly she is nowhere near unhappy !). However, it still boggles my mind how in touch she is with Ed and that they have kept their long distance friendship going for so strong and so long. Ed really did bring that sparkle to her eyes and it looks like her finding someone that can do the same is hard for her.

Word. Jill needs to let go of him. Around New Year's it sounded like she was really trying to break free of his hold over her. I recall reading posts on her site about cleaning house of his pictures. I think, though, that they'll go back and forth until Jill decides that she wants someone else. Her answer on that video sounds like she swung in the other direction: where she once wanted so much to marry and have kids yesterday, now she talks about essentially playing the field, though she doesn't use those exact words. More power to her, but I think it's reactive. She's said that she's much more guarded with her heart post-Ed.