Jillian Harris & Justin Pasutto - Bachelorette 5 - Discussion

I'm such a cynic, but the first thing I thought after seeing all those exclamation marks was that this does not seem like it's written by Justin. It actually seems a lot like jillian's voice on her blog.

And, I really wish Jillian would stop including pictures of Justin's bare butt. I think I've unfortunately seen it now three different times on her various SM platforms.

If he loves her so much, then why won't he just marry her? She's gonna be in a hurry soon, if she wants kids.

Former Bachelorette Jillian Harris Opens Up about finding Happiness After Her Public Breakup: 'I've Learned a Lot'

It may have led to a painful and very public breakup, but Jillian Harris says she has no regrets about doing The Bachelorette.

"I've become more patient, and more understanding," Harris tells PEOPLE. "I think that's opened my heart to love more."

The interior decorator, who was dumped by Bachelor Jason Mesnick in 2009, went on to find love – and a fiancé in Ed Swiderski –on the Bachelorette. When she discovered that Swiderski had allegedly been cheating on her, "I was so devastated."

Says Harris: "I was under 90 pounds, I would have to pull over to the side of the road and have anxiety attacks. There were blogs about me and my relationships. It was crazy."

Still, the 36-year-old says she doesn't have hard feelings about her ex nearly six years after their split.

"I look back now, and I understand that relationships are really difficult," she says. "People annoy you, they frustrate you and they hurt you, and sometimes they don't mean to hurt you. I've seen the highs and lows. I'm more realistic now."

And a lot happier. "When I met Justin [Pasutto, her boyfriend of four years], there were so many things I'd learned and so many things I'd gotten out of my system. It's so hard when you're going through a tough time, you just want to punch people when they say things are going to work out. But they really do!"

http://www.people.com/article/jillian-harris-bachelorette-breakup

mindless wrote:If he loves her so much, then why won't he just marry her? She's gonna be in a hurry soon, if she wants kids.

If Jillian really wants marriage/children and Justin doesn't she should move on. Easier said than done especially since they've been together 4 years  JMO

I love Jilly. Her fashion sense IMO is always flawless. She is very tiny, but, what the heck is up with this dress? She looks huge in it???

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carlywad Man. This is a BEAUTIFUL BUNCH! #bachelor #bachelor20

Yeah, not her best look, but I think all the women in that photo are wearing not their best looks. (except for their smiles!)

I love Jillian too, but that dress does nothing for her. I was happy to see how attentive Justin seemed in a few shots of them in last night's special. I just wish she would get engaged if that's what she wants, as she has said in the past. I'm sure a Jillian wedding would be spectacular!

I was very surprised to see Justin holding and loving Jill last night. Almost like he loves her or something along those lines. Color me shocked, friends.

He's not a big SM person but he is sweet to her when he does post. Here's a recent one.

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Something wonderful is in Bach Nation water. Congrats Jill and Justin!!!! Mazel tov!

That is such great news.... congrats to them both.

I thought Jill was a little pudgy in that dress. And now we know why. I though it was just the dress. hee hee. She still looked great though.