Bachelor 25 - Matt James - Mar 15 (Finale) - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Listening to Rachel talk about God and praying, means nothing to me. Irks me actually.

Is it wrong that I want to laugh every time I hear someone so young talk about as "I've gotten older I want"...whatever. You're a baby! Maybe it's because I feel she is trying to talk herself into something and I just don't believe her. They feel so high school puppy love to me.

I didn't watch Rachael's part. She actually said that?

@Sprite You're laughing and I'm shaking my head.

It's everything she's prayed for. She just got out of college in 2019, she's been praying for a husband??

and another thing, blaming the Dad is really ticking me off. How old is Matt? Does he not know by now he doesn't want the same thing to happen to him? Does he not know his parents aren't the only ones that separated???

My ex's father was an alcoholic. He didn't want to be like his father. I never saw him take one drink in the 15 yrs we were married. You do what you think is right in life, based on what you learned.

Why does he keep blaming his father???

And they never showed Patty saying “ Love is not enough” even though we saw that in a preview....

Matt is just flip flopping all over the place. One minute he is ready for an engagement and the next he isn't. Listen to your mother and brother Matt. Pump the brakes. Ignore those pushy producers and just go and date.

How often have we had a lead’s family questioning whether they should get engaged??

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— The Bachelor (@BachelorABC) March 16, 2021

So, when you were asked to be TB you were so humbled by that, and I'm at my laptop going oh brother, he's the last person who wants to get married, you should have given me a call.

Feelings fade, yeah even those married for 30 years, feelings fade. So don't ever date anyone because "feelings fade". You're not some special snowflake. OH man, I can't take this crap. I'm so disappointed this season, however I absolutely knew this was going to happen.

Geeze...If you are so torn and have to think about it so much, you are not ready.

That old chestnut: "A relationship is being able to take a leap of faith with someone". Just stop!!!

Michelle is a lot better at this than Matt. He nearly took a header and then nearly did a face plant into the building.