Bachelor 25 - Matt James - Jan 18 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

ReneeM wrote:I think Matt wasn’t/isn’t very considerate at all. I try to give him the benefit of the doubt because he hasn’t done this before but he doesn’t seem to care how the group of women are feeling every time he takes time from them to chase after Sarah. Serena was a good sport about it but making her wait for her 1-1 while he went and got into bed with Sarah and then was so lax with little consideration that someone was waiting for him? Just another reason why I couldn’t go on this show because if I was Serena I would’ve self eliminated right then and there.

I also completely disagree with the Tayshia comparison. She had a unique skill of making all the guys feel comfortable and important and seemed interested in getting to know all of them. Tayshia has emotional intelligence, something I think Matt is really lacking in, so she always seemed to understand how her decisions would affect the house. It’s part of why she would always acknowledge multiple guys when giving out GD roses & why on that one GD where so many guys opened up to her, she opted not to give one out.

All jmo.

pavalygurl wrote:Sarah acknowledged she's struggling with this concept and took herself out of the scenario. The "women" did not see what Matt showed Sarah in terms of his seemingly strong feelings.  Who will they blame now when Matt does not spend a lot of time with them?

How often do we see a lead give their favorite extra time?  It didn't start with Matt.  I have 'suffered' through so many favorites I could not stand...Garrett comes quickly to mind.  I want to say to Victoria that all the women could leave, and Matt is not gonna be with her.  She is cruel and manipulating.

If Sarah acted her way through all this, give her the Emmy now for Reality TV star.  Katie was the only one I had any respect for tonight.   All IMHO.

Ruqibabe wrote:@MiniDiva but how do we know that the other ladies didn't accept Sarah's apology?? Producers edit things to give us their most dramatic cut..

MiniDiva wrote:

Ruqibabe wrote:@MiniDiva but how do we know that the other ladies didn't accept Sarah's apology?? Producers edit things to give us their most dramatic cut..

 You can't make assumptions on what we don't see on camera.  We saw what we saw on camera which was not pretty.  JMO

Ruqibabe wrote:

MiniDiva wrote:

Ruqibabe wrote:@MiniDiva but how do we know that the other ladies didn't accept Sarah's apology?? Producers edit things to give us their most dramatic cut..

 You can't make assumptions on what we don't see on camera.  We saw what we saw on camera which was not pretty.  JMO

The producers edit this thing to fit their narrative to create the most dramatic effect. Yes, some girls went overboard but most girls were only trying to understand what happened and express themselves.. We saw what we saw but we need to understand that we saw only less than 15mins of a 2day encounter. of course its going to be the most dramatic due to copying and pasting..