Bachelorette 16 - Clare Crawley & Tayshia Adams - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #2

Tayshia Adams' Ex-Husband Breaks His Silence on Their Divorce and Cheating

https://www.eonline.com/ca/news/1217226/tayshia-adams-ex-husband-breaks-his-silence-on-their-divorce-and-cheating

I am actually fuming reading the recap. This man is basically blaming T for him cheating and say she made more mistakes than him without actually saying anything that would equal that basically that she is lazy and they weren't very intimate. None of that justifies him cheating on her. Man, I am so grossed out. JMO

also I can't at “She called me a cheater but she’s dating 25 guys at the same time”

While I get not liking having private things brought out on national TV, he's trying to downplay what he did by criticizing Tayshia. Being unfaithful isn't a small mistake, imo. Not impressed.

Tayshia's ex was doing so good being quiet. smh.

Just finished listening to this nonsense. 30 minutes of my life I’m never getting back. My thoughts are Tayshia has said the main reason her marriage broke up was due to infidelity and other things. She has never said it was only because he cheated but there were other things that contributed.

Does he (this ex) really think the public/his potential clients are just going to ignore this interview and things are going to settle down? And him blaming Tayshia for stepping out/cheating cause she was lazy, not affectionate made him realize he didn’t want her to be the mother to their kids!?!? Talk about transference. He was looking for smoke but he’s about to get burned in this firestorm he created coming his way.

IMO he comes off as bitter and looking for publicity cause NO ONE was thinking about him

Topazgold wrote:Just finished listening to this nonsense. 30 minutes of my life I’m never getting back.  My thoughts are Tayshia has said the main reason her marriage broke up was due to infidelity and other things. She has never said it was only because he cheated but there were other things that contributed.

Does he (this ex) really think the public/his potential clients are just going to ignore this interview and things are going to settle down? And him blaming Tayshia for stepping out/cheating cause she was lazy, not affectionate made him realize he didn’t want her to be the mother to their kids!?!? Talk about transference.  He was looking for smoke but he’s about to get burned in this firestorm he created coming his way.

IMO he comes off as bitter and looking for publicity cause NO ONE was thinking about him

I think it is pride and revenge. She publicly said on national tv he was a cheater. He should have just be quiet and explained to his entourage whatever the excuses he wanted. Doing an interview will make it worse. JMO

He said, she said usually never ends well for either party.

Norcalgal wrote:He said, she said usually never ends well for either party.

Agree. Here she was in a difficult position to explain why trust is utmost important and cheating not négociable. There was not many ways to say it. IMO

@Norcalgal, @HEA and in this case there are more than two people involved. When it comes to marriage, now we’re talking about families. Josh is about to learn the meaning of “you reap what you sow”.

Norcalgal wrote:He said, she said usually never ends well for either party.

It wasn’t even he said, she said, more like ”yeah I did it, but just one time, and I apologized, and it was her own fault anyway”.

I bet even at twelve, Zac came up with something better after French kissing that girl at the bowling alley.
JMO

Diana wrote:RS seems to really Hate Tayshia for some weird reason. I find this completely uncool on both him and the ex's parts especially considering Tayisha just stood up for him to enews. .

imo

This is just another reason why his spoilers re: Tayshia’s season should’ve been questioned from the jump. He hates Tayshia, has for years, and is always inclined to believe anything negative about her. Jmo.

ReneeM wrote:

Diana wrote:RS seems to really Hate Tayshia for some weird reason. I find this completely uncool on both him and the ex's parts especially considering Tayisha just stood up for him to enews. .

imo

This is just another reason why his spoilers re: Tayshia’s season should’ve been questioned from the jump. He hates Tayshia, has for years, and is always inclined to believe anything negative about her. Jmo.

Years? I thought tayshia was only last year with Colton? Any idea why he hates her?

ETA... must be years as we had Peter after.