Bachelorette 16 - Clare Crawley & Tayshia Adams - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #2

Rachel and nick on bachelor party they talked about a lot, Rachel and nick say they both have been talking to Clare and she’s struggling but they just want to help her get through this time which is the only thing they can do right now. Rachel said she had a production issue with them showing certain things Clare has said like can we move this along because they don’t show it for other leads as all have said it as they are tired. Nick said every lead has said it but he thinks they had to show it to explain what’s about to happen. I thought it was interesting at the end what they talked about.
I’m going to do a little summarizing of the end topic they talked about. The gist being that they were saying BN will calm down and come around like they have with others especially considering if this is the only relationship out of this season.
Nick- I hope Clare and dale are still together
Juliet-rumor is there married
Nick- great if they are generally Peter had there critics but people love love. Look at Arie and Lauren, people first at Rachel and Bryan, Jason and molly. People come around. Depending what happens with tayshia, if Clare finds the only relationship out of this season, It’ll work out for Clare. 
Rachel and Juliet say yes that’s the rumor, nick claims he’s spoiler free.(Even though he’s the first to bring it up)
Juliet- I hope dale is helping her get thorough this and they are a team.
Nick quote BN is crazy and nuts but if in a year they are still together people will have moved on. Rachel agreed. Both Rachel and nick say that they are rooting for Clare and dale.

I think one thing is these leads weren’t given the edit that Clare has gotten, I wonder.

So Bennet is on a plane according to his ig stories. What I’m getting at is I think they’re doing a MTA soon. I haven’t looked at everyone’s ig, so maybe others will be on the look out too.

Is there any chance Bennett is F1?

Dahling wrote:So Bennet is on a plane according to his ig stories. What I’m getting at is I think they’re doing a MTA soon. I haven’t looked at everyone’s ig, so maybe others will be on the look out too.

I'm not sure when his interview was recorded, but when Bennett did his interview with Bachelor Happy Hour podcast, he was either going to Atlanta or was already in Atlanta to spend time with his family, but this is as good as time as any to film MTA soon, so he's either done with the family visit or he's coming back in preparation for that.

gabriele wrote:Is there any chance Bennett is F1?

It's funny you should say that b/c I was made aware of something but everything contradicts it, so Ben was maybe trolling.

(EXCLUSIVE) No, maybe not quite the results you were hoping for, but close. Tayshia's finale spoilers now up at: https://t.co/dVP7x674jc including what's going on with the "Men Tell All?" Enjoy...

— RealitySteve (@RealitySteve) November 4, 2020

https://twitter.com/RealitySteve/status/1324057555388289025?s=20

Interesting that there filming the MTA the upcoming week, I think they decided to do it for several reasons. 
1) if they film it closer to bachelorette finale it’ll be in December when the crew normally has off
2) I think they want the Clare drama to be fresh to the guys and Clare for the drama, even though they drudge up stuff that happened in the first few episodes every season at the mta

I think it’s most likely for reason 1

That's interesting news from RS. So according to him, Tayshia wanted Brendan, who made an exit after hometowns (which his family did not attend.) So it came down to Ben and Zac C., and she chose Zac C. because he opened up to her more. Reportedly, people in the know are not optimistic about it lasting.

In Tayshia's shoes, I might have taken a harder look at Ben. He's a nice guy, and from her part of the country. They could have easily given it a chance, and if it didn't work, no harm, no foul, and no serious disruption to either of their lives. As I've gotten older, I've realized that you don't just marry a man (or a woman,) you marry their lifestyle. You marry where they want to live and how they want to live. This is why Chris Soules has had a difficult time finding a mate, and a big factor in why Nick and Vanessa had so many problems. It may (or may not) end up being a significant issue for Clare and Dale. It's very difficult to ask someone to pick up and move thousands of miles from their friends, family, career, and support system. I'm not saying it can't be done, just that it can be a huge hurdle to clear.

Amethyst wrote:That's interesting news from RS. So according to him, Tayshia wanted Brendan, who made an exit after hometowns (which his family did not attend.) So it came down to Ben and Zac C., and she chose Zac C. because he opened up to her more. Reportedly, people in the know are not optimistic about it lasting.

In Tayshia's shoes, I might have taken a harder look at Ben. He's a nice guy, and from her part of the country. They could have easily given it a chance, and if it didn't work, no harm, no foul, and no serious disruption to either of their lives. As I've gotten older, I've realized that you don't just marry a man (or a woman,) you marry their lifestyle. You marry where they want to live and how they want to live. This is why Chris Soules has had a difficult time finding a mate, and a big factor in why Nick and Vanessa had so many problems. It may (or may not) end up being a significant issue for Clare and Dale. It's very difficult to ask someone to pick up and move thousands of miles from their friends, family, career, and support system. I'm not saying it can't be done, just that it can be a huge hurdle to clear.

Totally agree. It can be done...see Sean/Catherine, Jason/Molly, Trista/Ryan...but the people involved have to be committed and willing to work for it. This doesn't really sound like that. I guess we will have to wait and see how it all goes down and if RS is right.

I know there was some question about the status of Clare and Dale's relationship, if they got engaged, etc. RS updated his spoilers about tonight's episode.

Chris talks to both Clare and Dale again. Clare says she feels ready for a proposal, and Chris asks Dale about how he’s feeling and now that he’s done all the steps, the only thing left to do is get engaged. They get Dale a ring, and later that night, he proposes to Clare.

Dale and Clare are still engaged today.

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There's a heavy weight on Clare Crawley's *finger* just ahead of her exit from #TheBachelorette. https://t.co/P4ER7EL2Ro

— Entertainment Tonight (@etnow) November 5, 2020

https://twitter.com/etnow/status/1324414522422034432?s=20

@ReneeM For me, that's good news. I hope they are happy and can tune out whatever negativity she is getting.

I'm sure she will get her chance to explain where she was coming from. The positive is her actions hopefully resulted in her being happily engaged, and it gave Tayshia a chance at being the bachelorette.

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