Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #9

ReneeM wrote:@Soleil it’s gonna go up on YouTube at some point today. You can listen on stitcher or download it from the podcast section on apple.

Ok great. Thank you for all the recaps. Don’t stop

ReneeM wrote:Nick asks what’s next, suggests the bachelor, Tyler doesn’t know about that, says his focus is ABC Food tours. They start pimping Matt to go on the show. They talk about the running thing, a bunch of stuff we already know. He wants to try to hold a 5k in August. Confirms he’s running the Chicago marathon with Dustin. Guys he talks to from the show: Dylan, Mike, and Dustin all the time. He talks to all the guys a little, they’re in a group chat. They ask about Jed. He says he got really close to Jed in the house, and it’s hard for Tyler to see everything go down because he wanted the world for Hannah. Tyler’s disappointed. Jed could have handled a lot of things a lot better. They ask if he was angry at Jed when the story came out. He said he didn’t really read the stories. He’s disappointed because he just wanted Hannah to be happy and when he got down to F3, he knew she’d be in good hands with any of them and he could go home knowing she’d be good. He’s just disappointed. Reiterates that he thinks the world of Hannah and how strong and powerful she is. Nick says Hannah’s his fave bachelorette Tyler says ‘she’s my fave bachelorette’. Nick suggests Hannah as bachelorette again, Tyler wasn’t happy about that. Nick laughs and says that’s up to him (their relationship)

This is all so, so good! Thanks for the recaps! 

Tyler not liking the thought of Hannah being the bachelorette again and Nick telling him that’s up to him is hilarious

So, I did know something was up with Tyler and Hannah about 10 days ago. I almost spilled it during the men tell all group chat, but I wasn't sure if what I was hearing was true. After all the negative that happened, I was hoping for a positive surprise for the group. I even tried to discourage people when they mentioned the two of them getting back together, right up until Hannah asked Tyler out. From what I've heard they have been talking since right after Hannah broke it off with Jed. Tyler reached out to her as a friend. He offered a shoulder ,and an ear, if Hannah wanted to talk. I don't know if they hooked up before last night or not. I'm thinking probably not. As far as I know, they are just friends , taking it slow, and following their hearts. Tyler was rejected and I don't know if he can get past it. I will post updates as I hear them. I would love nothing more than for them to make it as a couple. They both deserve happiness.

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Summerfun1980 wrote:Ugh please no Peter for bachelor.

Matt James is still freaking out about losing access to models, I see. First I thought he was just being protective. Not anymore. He doesn’t need to do all that.

I saw that. What is wrong with Matt??? I mean he is entitled to his opinion but why be so vocal
About it on social media. Ugh. I look at him differently. Hannah just wants a drink and a chance to see where it goes, explore feelings etc. they are great friends. Tyler I think feels the same and told nick just take it one day at a time. Matt is clearly only thinking if himself. Maybe you are right he just wanted to party with some
Models. I don’t know but it’s weird. Not sure Tyler is even going to stay in nyc.

Dude. All I know is I’m about to unfollow Matt. It’s a terrible, terrible look.

 When it comes to reconciling in the future, both Cameron and Brown are on the same page — to take it day by day.

Says Cameron: “I cherish Hannah and value her and our friendship so much, but I don’t think it’s healthy for us to jump into anything right away. I think we need to be friends and see where life takes us. Whatever happens, happens.”

Says Brown: “Tyler will always have a place in my heart no matter what our relationship looks like. The feelings I developed for him were real and they don’t shut off instantly. And it’s hard to say [yet] what the future holds with him, or anyone else.”

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sosleepy wrote:Dude. All I know is I’m about to unfollow Matt. It’s a terrible, terrible look.

I’m surprised he’s so selfish and thirsty for models? Tyler is obvs very complimentary towards Hannah and seems very down with this drinks business. He needs to stay out of it. Such a bad look. I’m surprised!!

Methinks Tyler is not as forgiving as he says he is. It must hurt to be dumped in Greece and chosen as 2nd best. Tyler's face said it all on AFTR. Now, his friend is being shady on SM? Plus, he said he doesn't know about being the next lead? Sounds to me he would consider it. A man in love would say, "absolutely not, I want to be with Hannah." Yep, Tyler is friend zoning Hannah. All imo.

Mommyof2 wrote:Methinks Tyler is not as forgiving as he says he is.  It must hurt to be dumped in Greece and chosen as 2nd best.  Tyler's face said it all on AFTR.  Now, his friend is being shady on SM?  Plus, he said he doesn't know about being the next lead?  Sounds to me he would consider it.  A man in love would say, "absolutely not, I want to be with Hannah." Yep, Tyler is friend zoning Hannah.  All imo.  

After everything that @ReneeM has posted from Tyler’s podcast with Nick, I 100% don’t get the vibe that he’s friend zoning Hannah. He made it pretty clear that he wants to spend time with her away from the cameras and see what happens... a realistic approach.

Ash2214 wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:Methinks Tyler is not as forgiving as he says he is.  It must hurt to be dumped in Greece and chosen as 2nd best.  Tyler's face said it all on AFTR.  Now, his friend is being shady on SM?  Plus, he said he doesn't know about being the next lead?  Sounds to me he would consider it.  A man in love would say, "absolutely not, I want to be with Hannah." Yep, Tyler is friend zoning Hannah.  All imo.  

After everything that @ReneeM has posted from Tyler’s podcast with Nick, I 100% don’t get the vibe that he’s friend zoning Hannah. He made it pretty clear that he wants to spend time with her away from the cameras and see what happens... a realistic approach.

I agree. I also don’t think he is friend zoning at all. Maybe they end up as just good friends, but not yet. I also don’t think he wants the bachelor gig at all. Time will tell.

Unpopular opinion but I saw Matt's IG stories and I don't think they're that big of a deal. I'm also not seeing all the "he's disappointed to not be with models" stuff. I think the first few stories was genuine concern from a friend who feels like his amazing friend got dumped for a loser and when the loser turned out to be the loser most suspected he was, Hannah's coming back to his friend as some consolation.

Now do I think that is what Hannah is doing, no. But I can't say I don't understand a friend of Tyler's feeling that way and not being "woo hoo" over the whole thing. Fact is Matt doesn't know Hannah. He knows Tyler and probably sees his friend as this amazing catch who doesn't deserve being someone's second choice. Again, not saying that is what Hannah is doing but true facts, it's not unreasonable for Matt to feel that way about things. There are many comments all over social media of people who feel the same and are essentially, "Tyler can do better".

Now I think that was the reason behind the first few stories. The last couple, I think that's a "f**k you" to the reddit posters ranting about his first few stories. I think it was confirmed some weeks back that he either checks out or knows about Reddit. And posters were outraged and ranting last night about his stories. So I feel like his last few are like, "okay, ya'll want to be pissed about those, I can make it worse".

Again I understand why some may be bothered by the Stories and like I said I don't think the worse of Hannah but I do see how from the perspective of someone who only cares about Tyler, they may not be thrilled about how things worked out.

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 When it comes to reconciling in the future, both Cameron and Brown are on the same page — to take it day by day.

Says Cameron: “I cherish Hannah and value her and our friendship so much, but I don’t think it’s healthy for us to jump into anything right away. I think we need to be friends and see where life takes us. Whatever happens, happens.”

Says Brown: “Tyler will always have a place in my heart no matter what our relationship looks like. The feelings I developed for him were real and they don’t shut off instantly. And it’s hard to say [yet] what the future holds with him, or anyone else.”

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and this resume exactly what I think both are at now

Tyler : "need to be friend" "our friendship" "not healthy to jump into anything right away" "whatever happens"
Hannah: "relationship" "feelings" "real" "future"

the message is miles away from each other IMO

Hannah wants Tyler
Tyler don't want her anymore

JMO