Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #6

I he felt any real love, he’d have come clean before the proposal. We don’t know yet so it’s still up for debate. If he didn’t come clean until after he gets picked, that’s deception. He was in it to win it and thinking he’d just weather it through and come out as a foundationally a powerful couple in Country Music!  

I expect Jed to water down Haley’s claims.  She just misinterpreted everything. I hope Haley reserved some more evidence that she can reveal if Jed downplays everything.

SarahD wrote:I he felt any real love, he’d have come clean before the proposal. We don’t know yet so it’s still up for debate. If he didn’t come clean until after he gets picked, that’s deception. He was in it to win it and thinking he’d just weather it through and come out as a foundationally a powerful couple in Country Music!  

I expect Jed to water down Haley’s claims.  She just misinterpreted everything. I hope Haley reserved some more evidence that she can reveal if Jed downplays everything.

i agree! how does that saying go "When you really care about someone, their happiness matters more than yours" or "when you love someone set them free" or "when love is REAL,it doesn't lie,cheat,pretend,hurt you or make you feel unwanted. It's supposed to be a cure for all your worries".... JMO

I think at one point forgiveness is in order. This is also in the bible. So keeping grudge forever and ever is for me a sign of immaturity. Growing and moving forward is the right thing to do IMO and maybe Hannah and Jed are both learning separately this... or why not together.

HEA wrote:I think at one point forgiveness is in order. This is also in the bible. So keeping grudge forever and ever is for me a sign of immaturity. Growing and moving forward is the right thing to do IMO

Hannah just posted an Instagram story where a little boy in her family said "Look at my sister again and I'll hurt you" so I don't know if her family is at the forgiveness stage just yet. JMO

HEA wrote:I think at one point forgiveness is in order. This is also in the bible. So keeping grudge forever and ever is for me a sign of immaturity. Growing and moving forward is the right thing to do IMO

100% moving forward....without Jed

Meh. I don't think I should forgive him when these aren't mistakes they are (imo) deliberate decisions he made to put himself first and lie to others and steal this experience from Hannah. He didn't love her or he would have never let it get as far as it did and (imo) considering his post show behavior while ENGAGED to her... He never saw her more than a means to a end and that's pathetic and not something I chose to feel bad for him for.

All IMO ofcourse.

Bleiby527 wrote:

HEA wrote:I think at one point forgiveness is in order. This is also in the bible. So keeping grudge forever and ever is for me a sign of immaturity. Growing and moving forward is the right thing to do IMO

Hannah just posted an Instagram story where a little boy in her family said "Look at my sister again and I'll hurt you" so I don't know if her family is at the forgiveness stage just yet. JMO

That little boy has a sister based on the IG stories. I really don’t think it has anything to do with Jed IMo.

One can forgive, but not forget.

I think it is too fresh for Hannah to forgive. And I disagree, that not forgiving is a sign of immaturity. There are things in my mind that are truly unforgivable, however, this isn't one of them. Nevertheless, it is up to Hannah whether she can forgive him or not and when that can occur. Personally, I don't care if she doesn't and I wouldn't think any less of her if that turns out to be the case.

Tiggerlgh wrote:

Bleiby527 wrote:

HEA wrote:I think at one point forgiveness is in order. This is also in the bible. So keeping grudge forever and ever is for me a sign of immaturity. Growing and moving forward is the right thing to do IMO

Hannah just posted an Instagram story where a little boy in her family said "Look at my sister again and I'll hurt you" so I don't know if her family is at the forgiveness stage just yet. JMO

That little boy has a sister based on the IG stories.  I really don’t think it has anything to do with Jed IMo.  

every insta story of hannahs i link it to her sending bat signals to tyler!!! I mean she is dancing to that ol town road song...which the bacheloretteabc quoted that song with the pic of her and tyler on the horse and she liked it....the next story is about king of the GRILL!.... then telling/teaching the kid to say look at my sister again and ill hurt you ..... i just need to stop actually nah i am loving it please keep it going hannah!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMO, at some points, the information on the media sites including IG stories are as fictional as Jed and Luke P.

Families may désapprouve. Jed’s dad obviously disapproved the engagement. Probably was very vocal at hometown... yet it happened. I am pretty sure many people, including me, did things that my family disagree... yet they continued to love and support me.

At one point this redundant hate and grudges have to give. It is in my opinion a very kindergarten attitude. To do not have the ability to forgive and move on is not showing a grow up attitude. Going thru all stages of sadness, angry, loneliness, etc is normal imo. But at one point if a person remains in the hate and unforgiving, this person will remain unhappy and everyone around her too.

Past cannot be changed. Present can learn from it. To live in the past is unhealthy and to continually remain on the hateful mode is pitiful.

Anyway. Forgiveness doesn’t mean to go back together but can be to find peace and acceptance... or of course accept a second chance.

Jmo

LeapofFaith wrote:

HEA wrote:I think at one point forgiveness is in order. This is also in the bible. So keeping grudge forever and ever is for me a sign of immaturity. Growing and moving forward is the right thing to do IMO

100% moving forward....without Jed

Agree 100%. All signs point to moving forward without Jed, nada, zip, no way! She is over it and happily moving on! Maybe by herself or maybe with a certain someone. ;). Keep dropping the hints Hannah. We love it!!