Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #6

For me it just comes down to the simple fact that Tyler is a grown man and can be trusted to do what's best for him. He knows his own heart and if he's genuinely still in love with Hannah after all this time, and wants to try again with her, then that's what he should do, regardless of what anyone else thinks or whether he was the "true" F2 or F3 or F4. Maybe they'll work out in the real world, or maybe they'll find that they're incompatible. But if there are still feelings on both sides, IMO they owe it to themselves and each other to fully explore those feelings and either move forward together or go their separate ways. Living with regret is the worst.

Eagle Eye wrote:For me it just comes down to the simple fact that Tyler is a grown man and can be trusted to do what's best for him. He knows his own heart and if he's genuinely still in love with Hannah after all this time, and wants to try again with her, then that's what he should do, regardless of what anyone else thinks or whether he was the "true" F2 or F3 or F4. Maybe they'll work out in the real world, or maybe they'll find that they're incompatible. But if there are still feelings on both sides, IMO they owe it to themselves and each other to fully explore those feelings and either move forward together or go their separate ways. Living with regret is the worst.

well said!

Eagle Eye wrote:For me it just comes down to the simple fact that Tyler is a grown man and can be trusted to do what's best for him. He knows his own heart and if he's genuinely still in love with Hannah after all this time, and wants to try again with her, then that's what he should do, regardless of what anyone else thinks or whether he was the "true" F2 or F3 or F4. Maybe they'll work out in the real world, or maybe they'll find that they're incompatible. But if there are still feelings on both sides, IMO they owe it to themselves and each other to fully explore those feelings and either move forward together or go their separate ways. Living with regret is the worst.

Fully agree!

Amen and Amen!

This second/third choice discussion reminds me of Des and Chris.
Chris never seemed to think that Des “settled” for him. He always knew what they had. Tyler’s behavior on and off the show actually reminds me of Chris, and I don’t think this is an issue for him either.

Something that Joe said to Kendall has stuck with me. “There is a part of me that loves you, but I shut a lot of that out.” “I thought it was over. There is a lot I need to feel again.”
https://youtu.be/NNZ0hYgJE_Y?t=109
Not quite the same situation, but if Tyler is hesitant at this point it could be for similar reasons.

Eagle Eye wrote:For me it just comes down to the simple fact that Tyler is a grown man and can be trusted to do what's best for him. He knows his own heart and if he's genuinely still in love with Hannah after all this time, and wants to try again with her, then that's what he should do, regardless of what anyone else thinks or whether he was the "true" F2 or F3 or F4. Maybe they'll work out in the real world, or maybe they'll find that they're incompatible. But if there are still feelings on both sides, IMO they owe it to themselves and each other to fully explore those feelings and either move forward together or go their separate ways. Living with regret is the worst.

This is super well said. Kudos!!

And I think if Tyler decides he wants to try again, it would even make some sense for this show imo bc of the kind man he is- similar to JP and Chris S, who both has similar experiences also. He actually additionally reminds me of Jason, and I don’t think he was what Kaitlyn thought she wanted either until they actually started dating. So I can see it. I hope it happens! That would be wonderful for the two of them.

I agree. Tyler is a grown man who can decide for himself. But as much as I think he’s the best one for Hannah and the kind of man that she needs, I want Tyler to be chosen just as much as Hannah wanted to be chosen.

I haven’t seen anything that Hannah has done to show that. I know she can’t do anything right now because of the show but from what I’ve seen, read and heard, it didn’t look like she’s that torn about losing him. There’s two or three more episodes so verdict is still to be determined but everything points to Luke and Jed as the last two men if not for the sex talk and the Haley issue. She stayed with Jed even after he disclosed Haley. She only completely broke it off after Haley came out. If Haley stayed in the background and this was just news in the background, IMO, we would have seen a Jillian #2 who stayed with the cheater.

Then, next week, the whole world is also going to see that she’s had sex with Jed (I am betting it’s Jed) even before the FSD. It will just add to the fact that she’s so into him and her relationship is much much further along with Jed. She chose him in a big way. I just think Tyler deserves more than that, much more than feeling someone’s settling with him because the first two choices did not pan out.

That’s why I’m on the “Tyler deserves better train.” Maybe if I see something like a Julia Roberts asking Hugh in Nothing Hill. Maybe.
I need to see and hear some big words from Hannah.  I’m on a wait and see mode until I hear about the windmill thing, how the FRC plays out, how the break up plays out for me to think that Hannah deserves someone like Tyler.

Hannah didn’t deserve to be manipulated either but she has some culpability for how long she dragged on with both Luke and Jed. All my opinion of course.

Okay I looked and don't see this posted but Hannah liked a whole bunch of Cary's IG post of her outfits from the last few episodes about 1 hour ago. She liked a lot including the ones with Tyler, Peter, and 1 of Garrett's 1on1s. But she did not like the few with Jed in them. Just something I took note of.

Diana wrote:Why is everyone saying he was her third chouce? If she wanted Luke more she would have kept him. JMHO

Apparently she was very torn at the end and it doesn't surprise me she went with the guy who litetally said everything right and seemed perfect because he lied.

If Tyler does take Hannah back then great if not oh well but I don't buy he was the third choice

JMHO

. I wouldn’t be surprised if Hannah chose Jed over Tyler because of where he lives which means he would fit in with her lifestyle better

smg2587 wrote:Okay I looked and don't see this posted but Hannah liked a whole bunch of Cary's IG post of her outfits from the last few episodes about 1 hour ago. She liked a lot including the ones with Tyler, Peter, and 1 of Garrett's 1on1s. But she did not like the few with Jed in them. Just something I took note of.

Well, she's angry at him so this should not be surprising. Jmo.

smg2587 wrote:Okay I looked and don't see this posted but Hannah liked a whole bunch of Cary's IG post of her outfits from the last few episodes about 1 hour ago. She liked a lot including the ones with Tyler, Peter, and 1 of Garrett's 1on1s. But she did not like the few with Jed in them. Just something I took note of.

good catch. she's avoiding jed even in digital form like the plague. i think she's being silly now. of course she's entitled to be upset but she's the lead of the show and it's her job to keep everyone guessing about who she picked. specifically excluding all pictures with jed in them is immature.

ilovecarbs wrote:

smg2587 wrote:Okay I looked and don't see this posted but Hannah liked a whole bunch of Cary's IG post of her outfits from the last few episodes about 1 hour ago. She liked a lot including the ones with Tyler, Peter, and 1 of Garrett's 1on1s. But she did not like the few with Jed in them. Just something I took note of.

good catch. she's avoiding jed even in digital form like the plague. i think she's being silly now. of course she's entitled to be upset but she's the lead of the show and it's her job to keep everyone guessing about who she picked. specifically excluding all pictures with jed in them is immature.

Imo it’s highly highly immature to be banging 2-3 “girlfriends” at the same time and then going on tv to cheat on them with yet another girl but that is just me. So I think if Hannah doesn’t “like” him in digital or real life form any longer, that makes her someone with common sense, not someone immature.