Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Sharnee wrote:

misslurking wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Julie81 wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:Are they just going to ignore Jed like he fell off the face of the earth?    This is odd to me.  Really odd.  

Who? Hannah?

Yeah, I’d say she is to the point of ignoring him. I’m not questioning your opinion as to why you think it’s odd, so please don’t think I am, but I will tell you why I don’t think it’s odd if she is ignoring him...

She just found out who he really is. He lied to her. She ain’t down with that and she don’t have to ever acknowledge him again if she doesn’t want to. JMO

No, I was mainly referring to The Bachelorette Twitter account.  Seems they are really trying to push Tyler now...and Jed is nowhere to be found.  

Jeds celtics 1on1 date with Hannah from ep4 was heavily promoted while Tyler's didn't even get to see the light of the day. The logical part of my brain thinks it was probably planned ahead in time like this but the romantic part of my brain is telling me this is TPTB trying to tell us all to trust them and stay tuned !  

You mean like “It will all make sense in the end?” Hannah was duped and then unduped herself .
They might have filmed Monday but it was probably done way before. They just needed time to assemble the crew. Jmo

I am positive Hannah did not take the Haley thing lightly. Maybe she first heard his side of the story and gave him the benefit of doubt but I think she must have been furious the more she found out about his deceitful ways. Also, IMO his total lack of any personality once he lets go of the guitar must be bore fest for our bubbly Hannah. I mean she was clearly infatuated with him to the point that she couldn't see past the "Ohh he is country singer, he writes me songs" that appeal might have worn off once the cameras stopped recording. Jed just seems like a wet towel in a human version. I still can't believe he did not get even a single joke Hannah was making on their date in Boston. IMO she was hilarious and he was just blank ? !??!

I think the proposals on the show were very real to Trista/Ryan, SeanCat, Des/Chris, Ashley/JP, and Rachel/Bryan who are getting married in August. None of them re-proposed outside of the show AFAIK.

ReneeM wrote:I think the proposals on the show were very real to Trista/Ryan, SeanCat, Des/Chris, Ashley/JP, and Rachel/Bryan who are getting married in August. None of them re-proposed outside of the show AFAIK.

Agree ! i don't think proposals should be taken lightly. I respected that Peter refused to propose when he wasn't ready to in Rachel's season. Its sacred for some people and should be too.

@misslurking Lol! His lyrics ,  I would Never lie to you Haley , other girl besides Haley  probably other girls prior Hannah. Haley said he was charming (charm may be false) . He knows his way around women it seems. Maybe uses his poetic sense to seduce. If he’s sad about this, hope he’s sad because he’s done women wrong and not sad because he got caught. I still say *Jed.
Jmo

ReneeM wrote:I think the proposals on the show were very real to Trista/Ryan, SeanCat, Des/Chris, Ashley/JP, and Rachel/Bryan who are getting married in August. None of them re-proposed outside of the show AFAIK.

in my opinion only, you are not really engaged if you have spent a total of two or three days with a stranger while dating 25 guys. you are engaged to date basically. maybe back in trista's day, the contestants took the proposal seriously. but rachel specifically has said she did not feel engaged for at least six months into their real relationship even after bryan's reproposal on after the final rose. kaitlin gave back the ring and wanted shaun to re-propose. no one has to agree with me, but the idea that a sanctity of a proposal was stolen from anyone  who signs up for this show makes me laugh when i think of the mockery the show makes of engagement.

Considering Hannah said she’s been engaged twice we don’t really know the circumstances of those engagements or how serious Hannah takes a proposal. She could be at a place where she considers it very serious or maybe it was just for good tv. Hopefully we will find out soon! IMO

@ilovecarbs I agree. Real life begins after the show.

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Minney wrote:Considering Hannah said she’s been engaged twice we don’t really know the circumstances of those engagements or how serious Hannah takes a proposal. She could be at a place where she considers it very serious or maybe it was just for good tv. Hopefully we will find out soon! IMO

If I understood her correctly, she was never engaged before (prior to with Jed). She just had two serious relationships in which engagement and marriage was talked about for their future.

ilovecarbs wrote:

Julie81 wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Now that I feel secure that Hannah dodged the bullet that is Jed, I can express how sad I am for her. I think the episode on Monday is gonna be the one where she tells Jed she’s falling in love with him, and from here on out as things get more serious she’s gonna be forced to relive his lies. I’m so mad he stole what should be a really happy time away from her. Can she go be with her family or something? I just want her to have support from people who don’t produce the show. All jmo.

Right. Being proposed to is supposed to be special and he took that time away from her. He may have thought it was special at the time but he also knew it was smothered in lies and deceit. Nothing can be whole and pure or real if it begins that way. IMO. So sad. I’d honestly be so pissed.

to me the proposals on this show are not really real so i do not feel sorry for hannah about that as i did not when becca complained about it. i thought peter should have proposed to rachel because proposing on this show just means they want to date exclusively after the show. sorry but even the most successful couples say their relationship starts after the show so the proposal is not very meaningful. also if you cherish proposals and marriage so much don't on a reality tv show that makes a mockery of it. jmho.


@mommyof2 i noticed to and wonder how are they going to sweep jed under the rug when he is her f1?

I absolutely feel sorry for Hannah, and yes Jed stole this from her. To be offered the Ette is a huge deal, and it also has a pretty damn good success rate. Most Ettes leave with at least a 1 year relationship. Most longer. Many are married. Really only Jen (who didn’t pick anyone), DeAnna, Andi, and Emily imploded. Everyone else got something substantial out of this. How disrespectful of Jed to steal this entire experience from her. To allow her to fall for him under such false pretenses, and yes, to steal a proposal from her.

I still cannot believe Jed had the nerve to propose to her knowing he had a full blown girlfriend he was telling I love you to the day before filming start. I will never understand or accept such blatant disregard of Hannah and past females. This is why I don't feel bad saying I have absolutely one ounce of sadness for Jed right now. He made his bed and now he must face the music as he would probably say.

The real victim here is Hannah and I hope once she is outside of the initial hurt, she will understand she is doing the right thing.

JMO

Sharnee wrote:Jed who ?