Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - June 11th - Epi 5 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

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Luke may be a narcissist, but tonight he came across to me as a 10 year old boy in a grown up body. It was as though he had not the slightest clue what she was talking about or what an adult relationship should be. Maybe that's a classic sign of a narcissist.

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I am continuously impressed with Hannah in how she communicates, and how much insight she actually has when it comes to relationships.

It's clear (to me) at this point that her frustration is coming from finally seeing that Luke is not giving her what she wants, but Production wants to keep him around to piss the other guys off *cough Mike cough*.

I wonder if she is going to give in to Production, and be able to separate this drama from other relationships. Hope we get more Hannah & Tyler next week <3

Jed pouring the bucket of milk over him...epic!! Love that guy!

Pattycake92 wrote:Mike and Garrett are my favorites for next Bachelor. No contest.

Garrett, all the way!! Love him!

eusebeia wrote:

Pattycake92 wrote:He doesn’t have emotions cause he’s Narcissistic

Exactly!  As a communications major wouldn't she have taken Psych 101 and be able to recognize that?  Or even just communicate more effectively what deficits she saw in him?

Therapist here. Luke's love bombing and gaslighting is intense and gross. The way he turned the conversation around on her and blamed her for his behavior was UNREAL. She's trying so hard to make him into the person she thinks he could be rather then accepting who he actually is....we've all been there. I think its part of her being young, and hopefully never having been exposed to a narcissist before. I can't watch much more of the gaslighting though...but we've still got lots ahead.

Therapist here. Luke's love bombing and gaslighting is intense and gross. [/quote]


Agreed. On the plus side, Hannah seems to see that too. It's refreshing to watch her work through coming to accept that this is a manipulative person. To me, Hannah seems to be a woman who knows her worth - and that makes her an awesome Bachelorette.

Mia_Leoni wrote:Therapist here. Luke's love bombing and gaslighting is intense and gross.  

Agreed. On the plus side, Hannah seems to see that too. It's refreshing to watch her work through coming to accept that this is a manipulative person.  To me, Hannah seems to be a woman who knows her worth - and that makes her an awesome Bachelorette. [/quote]

I'm loving it. She's a bright and insightful woman and such a goof. It's a fun combo.

mercieme wrote:Yeah Mike is a great buddy to her, even CH said as much in the men reveal but it was a fun light hearted no drama date and we got to see Scotland

I know that shop they were in! I was there 2 years ago. It's cool. and the bridge. Oh my.

composer53 wrote:

mercieme wrote:Yeah Mike is a great buddy to her, even CH said as much in the men reveal but it was a fun light hearted no drama date and we got to see Scotland

I know that shop they were in!  I was there 2 years ago.  It's cool.  and the bridge. Oh my.

Niceb I have been to Edinburgh many times also and chuckled when they showed the airport, it’s small but very lovely IMO. Scottish folks are also very nice.